Can you cheat and still be in love with someone else?
- Thread starter Mr Uncle Leroy
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this dude right here. 
*reps*
Sex has nothing to do with love. I see at least 5 chicks a day I would cheat with if the chance occurred but I don't love them.
Pretty much.
There are so many dynamics to Love. That it is borderline idiotic to condense love into a defined entity.
America's commercialization and sensationalism of it sure aint help either.
Alot of men and women speak on love, when many have not even truly experienced it. Love at times can be just as painful and dangerous as pure hate. Too many people get their views from on life from Sex and the City, and the Kardashians.
So you really cant expect them to understand such things as love or hate.
My neck and my back
All Star
YOU cheated for revenge...that doesn't mean that's everyone's intent...majorly of men's intent on cheating is for self pleasuring and lusting for another woman...just because you commit to one person doesn't mean you lose attraction to other people
No, I don't think you can, I know how devastated my girl would be if I cheated on her and how it would throw her personal views of herself into disarray. How then could I cheat on her with that in mind, either I wouldn't care about her feelings or I have a general lack of empathy. People saying you can cheat on someone you truly love are just trying to rationalize destroying someone elses life.
HelgaPataki
Pro
you'd be okay with your girl having sex behind your back but she truly loves you
DaChampIsHere
Survive the drought
Unless you're married you're free to have sex with who ever you want, man and woman, and there's nothing wrong with it.
HelgaPataki
Pro
HELL NO.
Why would I be OK with that? You taking this to a whole new level now.
but it has nothing to do with her love for you. it's no different than her shaking random guy's hands.
Huellz Santana
Shocking
so all the men who said you can still love someone even if you cheated on them....
how would you feel if your girlfriend did that to you? she still loves you right? so you two can get through it if she cheats right? right.... lol.... boys
I'm not going to sit here and act like gender roles and double standards dont exist, so I see what you're doing here. 
men and women cheat for entirely different reasons.
with that being said, I'm a logical person to a tee so I could accept it and possibly get thru it. I treat people how i wanna be treated. what kind of person would i be if i could do something to someone but not be able to handle if they did it to me?? like i said, love is complex and people mess up all the time
men and women cheat for entirely different reasons. with that being said, I'm a logical person to a tee so I could accept it and possibly get thru it. I treat people how i wanna be treated. what kind of person would i be if i could do something to someone but not be able to handle if they did it to me?? like i said, love is complex and people mess up all the time
You can't truly love someone if you don't love yourself. Loving yourself is being able to sacrifice and understand who you are. So in reality to answer this thread, No.
It really isn't complex, the selfishness of people in general is only why it might seem that way.
Mask and Da Glock
Posting From Rehab
HELL NO.
Why would I be OK with that? You taking this to a whole new level now.
lmaaoo right, twisting words. I'd still love her and if it was a one off I'd forgive but not forget. If it turns into a habit though and we don't have an open agreement I'd have to leave her.
ladies feel free to reply to the well thought out posts that shyt on your idea of men...but if you wanna ignore it and twist words cause men are evil
You can LOVE someone and cheat on them, but you can't be IN LOVE with someone and cheat.
When you are IN LOVE with someone they are providing everything you need on an intimate level - psychologically, physically and spiritually. They're the whole package. When you're in love with someone no one else matters on that level like that person does.
You cannot cheat on someone and be in love with them, even if you feel guilty afterwards. As long as you're cheating, it's just a strong love IF THAT...not IN LOVE. Something wasn't being provided for you on an intimate level that you felt you needed to go get. The person you think youre "IN LOVE" with was LACKING. Truely being in LOVE is a entirely encompassing feeling. No holes are gaps exist when you are IN LOVE. Are they perfect? No, but they cover ALL the bases.
The strongest loves one can have in life are for God, their parents, their children, a sibling and your significant other.
A true best friend or extremely close cousin will essentially fill the role of a sibling...hence the saying "He/she is like a brother/sister to me."
A pet can fill the role of a child as well, and a guardian who plays the role of a parent can substitute for a parent, but those 5 loves are the strongest.
When you are IN LOVE with someone they are providing everything you need on an intimate level - psychologically, physically and spiritually. They're the whole package. When you're in love with someone no one else matters on that level like that person does.
You cannot cheat on someone and be in love with them, even if you feel guilty afterwards. As long as you're cheating, it's just a strong love IF THAT...not IN LOVE. Something wasn't being provided for you on an intimate level that you felt you needed to go get. The person you think youre "IN LOVE" with was LACKING. Truely being in LOVE is a entirely encompassing feeling. No holes are gaps exist when you are IN LOVE. Are they perfect? No, but they cover ALL the bases.
The strongest loves one can have in life are for God, their parents, their children, a sibling and your significant other.
A true best friend or extremely close cousin will essentially fill the role of a sibling...hence the saying "He/she is like a brother/sister to me."
A pet can fill the role of a child as well, and a guardian who plays the role of a parent can substitute for a parent, but those 5 loves are the strongest.