Can you cheat and still be in love with someone else?

[Niggthaniel Essex]

So you never saw a girl that was a complete physical 10 that you absolutely wanted to destroy, but gave zero fukks about her mind or her worth as a viable companion to you?

I can love a woman with all my heart, and honestly see some other girl that I could smash and not give a shyt about her later. Purely physical. Only problem being that some...not all...but some females usually can't separate feelings from fukking, while some..again, not all, but some guys can.

 

[Mask and Da Glock]

right because males and females now play both gender roles...it gets confusing man. this thread is making it seem like it's just men but we all try and balance the masculine need to fukk as much as possible and the feminine to maintain our protection given by our mate by show of emotion.

 

[rapbeats]

Nah, I mean, how can you TRULY love someone and cheat on them. It's like an oxymoron to me. If you TRULY loved someone, then you wouldn't do ONE THING to hurt them.


Not saying you DON'T have feelings or care for them immensely if you cheat, but by the very nature of cheating you're saying that there is something wrong with the love/relationship when you step out on somebody...Even if you don't get caught, I don't think you can honestly LOVE somebody but then turn around and cheat (whether emotionally, physically, or mentally) with someone else...

You cheated cause you're looking for SOMETHING you aren't getting at home...

two part answer.

if you slipped and dipped ONCE the entire time yall have been together. YES you can actually have loved your main main. and just blew it one time. everyone blows it at some point in life. most people blow it a few times in life.
but you would have to come clean and be beyond humble while doing it and take whatever is coming from the person you cheated on. cause you deserve whatever heat that comes your way.

now to those that constantly dip on their supposed main squeezes. You DO NOT love the main squeeze. you just like him/her more then you like your side pieces. you may even be smart enough to realize that your main chick/dude has your best interest at heart. so of course you are going to keep people around you who you believe has your best interest at heart. but you on the other hand do not have THEIR best interest at heart, which is why you dip often.

Love= sacrifice.

if you cant sacrifice some side tail for the person you supposedly love. then you dont love them. just be honest with them and yourself. no reason to lie about it.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Yes. Only women think differently. And they engage in it anyway.

Cheating is a selfish act. But being selfish doesn't mean you don't love someone. Cheating is something that's done for your personal satisfaction. Despite what idiots and women think, yourself >>>>>>> anyone else. Besides your mother of course.

 

[Anothergirl]

So you never saw a girl that was a complete physical 10 that you absolutely wanted to destroy, but gave zero fukks about her mind or her worth as a viable companion to you?

I can love a woman with all my heart, and honestly see some other girl that I could smash and not give a shyt about her later. Purely physical. Only problem being that some...not all...but some females usually can't separate feelings from fukking, while some..again, not all, but some guys can.

you sir do not know what "love" is. please have a somewhere.

two part answer.

if you slipped and dipped ONCE the entire time yall have been together. YES you can actually have loved your main main. and just blew it one time. everyone blows it at some point in life. most people blow it a few times in life.
but you would have to come clean and be beyond humble while doing it and take whatever is coming from the person you cheated on. cause you deserve whatever heat that comes your way.

now to those that constantly dip on their supposed main squeezes. You DO NOT love the main squeeze. you just like him/her more then you like your side pieces. you may even be smart enough to realize that your main chick/dude has your best interest at heart. so of course you are going to keep people around you who you believe has your best interest at heart. but you on the other hand do not have THEIR best interest at heart, which is why you dip often.

Love= sacrifice.

if you cant sacrifice some side tail for the person you supposedly love. then you dont love them. just be honest with them and yourself. no reason to lie about it.

and this is it right here.*daps* C/S the bolded. slipping up once ....sure you can a love a person and fukk up once and be deeply regretful.

but people that constantly cheat on their sig others??? no that's not "love" it's something else.. i think convenience...comfort with what they know.... complacency and fear of losing a "sure thing" so to speak.

Great post btw ...breaking out the reps for you.

 

[ThiefyPoo]

Yes but i advice against it.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Love is too complex of a concept to put such foolish restraints upon it.

 

[Sansprix]

Nah, I mean, how can you TRULY love someone and cheat on them. It's like an oxymoron to me. If you TRULY loved someone, then you wouldn't do ONE THING to hurt them.


Not saying you DON'T have feelings or care for them immensely if you cheat, but by the very nature of cheating you're saying that there is something wrong with the love/relationship when you step out on somebody...Even if you don't get caught, I don't think you can honestly LOVE somebody but then turn around and cheat (whether emotionally, physically, or mentally) with someone else...

You cheated cause you're looking for SOMETHING you aren't getting at home...

Between this thread and the stripper thread, you dropping some gems today.

And the answer is no. It just isn't possible because if it was, you guys wouldn't be so beside yourself if your girl cheated on you......she still loves you right?

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

"Emotional cheating," which includes flirting by the way, counts too ladies. You fukking adulterous hussies.

 

[Anothergirl]

"Emotional cheating," which includes flirting by the way, counts too ladies. You fukking adulterous hussies.

NO. my husband is charismatic border line "flirty" (but not in a sexual way) when we go out with everyone...waitress..bank tellers etc. and not in a disrespectful way... he's just that super nice Extro personality type that is outgoing and tries to make people feel good. that said he's not the "cheating" type at all.

Same with me...i'm super nice to everyone...always like "hey babe long time no see" etc with guy friends but i'm not the cheating type either. not even close.

Emotional Cheating is more like carrying on a emotionally RELATIONSHIP with someone who's not a spouse. for instance getting on the Coli and forming improper realtionships with other posters while you have a girl\guy...ask for other girls t*ts pics etc. THAT'S emotional cheating.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

What you're describing isn't flirting, it's being an extrovert. But I like how women always try to paint flirting as innocent because it benefits them.

 

[Sansprix]

"Emotional cheating," which includes flirting by the way, counts too ladies. You fukking adulterous hussies.

I agree. When I'm in a relationship I'm in 100%. I don't entertain any advances from dudes....I keep the bytch face on so they don't even approach me, and if they still do I try and politely say I'm not interested and keep it moving. The problem is dudes who just don't know how to let it go, then I gotta get nasty on them and I hate that shyt. Puts me in such a bad position.

 

[MikelArteta]

All cheaters can rot it the pits of hell.


I see tr cheaters in this thread copping pleas, just like a dad who molesta his daughter but "loves her"

Don't distort the word

 

[Black]

lol @ not loving someone because you got some other p*ssy.

 

[Anothergirl]

What you're describing isn't flirting, it's being an extrovert. But I like how women always try to paint flirting as innocent because it benefits them.

well in that case what you posted doesn't apply to me. i don't "flirt". i'm extro when i have to be for business etc and try to make everyone feel good.
and you can chill with the non-bolded you don't know shyt about me. no need to project what YOU do onto me.