Brehs, When Was the Last Time a Chick Approached You?

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Last night at a church event.

This 19 year olds mother was pushing her daughter onto me... trying to introduce us.

I talked with the chick and knew right away shes do anything i wanted....


She asked what church i went to
and I was like " I'm not a Christian,, this is foolishness"


She still put her number in my cell. But I told my girl and my girl deleted it................. and went on a rant about thirsty church chicks.

I'm surprised.
I lost a few tagged chicks cuz I told them I wasn't Christian

 

[Blackking]

I'm surprised.
I lost a few tagged chicks cuz I told them I wasn't Christian

lol, yeah sometimes church girl, might vanish if you aren't PRAISING JESUS

but in this case....... her mother think shes a minister and thinks the daughter is some type of phrphet So i could tell they figured they could 'fix' me.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

It STILL amazes me that this guy was once the President of the United States.

Currently have a light skinned chick (same complexion as me never had one lol) say hi to me atleast 3 times a day lmao. I'm 31 she's 21. Always eyein me smiling. Asking for hugs. Even let rumors about us go around (which I shut down to one co-worker). Mind u she's also engaged. But she hangs out with guys from work and she talks with just about everyone. So I could be reachin a bit. She gets upset if I don't talk to her or if she sees a woman hugging me lmao. Got that sweet innocents flirtatious voice. U know she's a freak. All that to say I barely respond to her. I do on occasion. But I make it clear to her and everyone else that I'm taken.

That baby voice that Steve Hightower used to always talk about.... that baby voice be having me

Yep this shyt used to annoy the fukk outta me.

I used to pass by this broad walking to my car from work every day. Broad used to stare at me....shyt went on for like 3 months. So one day I said fukkit and approached. Broad tried to act like she didn't know who I was and gave off the "you're a little bit thirsty" vibe as I was trying to get to know her. Her body language said differently when I spoke (she was def feeling me) but I guess her ego wouldn't allow her to admit it. I use to bring up her staring at me and how she never spoke and the broad played stupid. I used to think she was being funny...but now, looking back I can see that she purged that shyt from her mind...she really think I did a cold approach SMH. But women are like that...my girl did the same thing...approached me. But when I hear her tell her friends how we met its some fairy tale bullshyt that ends with me approaching/courting her

I know some chicks like that, mane.... smh.

I'm at the point now where I at the first sign of gameplaying.

I honestly can't tell. Old women always hit on me but when ppl my age hit on me it sounds sarcastic, followed by a laugh. Some women grab my ass but then some dudes grab my ass for jokes (I have a large ass).

However recently a coworker whispered to another that she likes the way my shirt looked on me and I over heard it from across the room.

I got some stories to tell about being approached.... gonna take me a while to type all that stuff out...

but I'll be back.

 

[Bledswole]

I mean very attractive girls rarely approach guys first,hell I rarely see above average girls approach guys first,thats just the way it is.

Women usually give you a look or some type of hint when they want you,if you dont pick up on it then your lost

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I mean very attractive girls rarely approach guys first,hell I rarely see above average girls approach guys first,thats just the way it is.

Women usually give you a look or some type of hint when they want you,if you dont pick up on it then your lost

either they not giving me signs or I'm not picking up on em

 

[AAKing23]

Are you good the way you are or do you want to change?

I'm good generally but I do need to be more aggressive in all pursuits of life I'm a bit too passive

 

[Pdiddy]

Chick approached me like 45 minutes ago @ Wendys. Starting asking me did I play ball....She was super crap though I'm gonna be cool though,,,cant beat free food

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Don't get approached like that. Might get some corny, awkward flirtations but I'm not good at deciphering that type of shyt so oh well.

 

[unit321]

shyt it ain't happened to me since 04-05.
Was in the hood (5th ward for Houston brehs) and was walling through these project homes to my cuzzn crib and this doo doo head chick was leaning out her window on some "hey what's yo name, you fine, etc"
Chick was booboo and I was 15 so I ain't bite

I think there was this one time in the 90s, I was ignorant to her advances and brushed her off.
Then, there was another time when my sister's fiance's cousin was at a dinner party, and my sister was trying to match us up. I was oblivious to her advances.

So probably the most recent time I could recall was two years ago.... at a state fair, a chick approched me. I was looking into one of those chicken incubator thingys for new born chickens. I think it was more out of curiosity than wanting to hook up though. It was a chick. She had nice yellow fuzzy hair. Beautiful eyes. Clean beak. Again, I ignored her advances. I'm married bruhs. She kind of looked like this....

 

[wet landscapes]

went to a party a few weeks back with a bunch of people I was only used to seeing in the gym

couple girls were very complimentary of my style "it's good to see you out of gym clothes you clean up well" etc

girls love seeing regular dudes suddenly look better
my friend was buying something from a guy we hadn't seen in a minute and he looked great, his hair all glorious and he put on some muscle
she was like & I was like

 

[Htrb-nvr-blk-&-ug-as-evr]

I get approached by some niiice lookin' chicks every time me and my boys go out. They always open with the same question...


"So, what's up with your friend over there...."

 

[Still Benefited]

What I seem to get is women that just stare at me,we make eye contact and they just don't break eye contact until you say something,ive seen about as long as 10 seconds....I must admit that shyt is sexy when its the right chick...Then you get chicks who will just be more upfront and say you cute or whatever.

I seem to get approached the most when females just see me out and just being sociable with strangers and cracking jokes....I think when they see you interacting with strangers it must make them feel more comfortable to do the same...I don't know if they become attracted by people reacting to you or if you just seem more approachable based on that....not sure why females have a fear of rejection since I doubt many of them have never directly approached anybody....For women though maybe just even us not getting the signs they throw out there is a rejection in they eyes..Nawl we just don't see every little retarded thing as a sign...as I get older I see more so I catch more.

But I once had a chick basically say "You couldnt tell by the way I never talked to you and went out of my way to not look at you,that I liked you?"....like I was crazy for not seeing that shyt...No I couldnt tell becuz plenty of women do that shyt cuz they really don't want to be talked to...that's why I always say you might miss out not approaching the "mean looking" chicks...sometimes that's just a front cuz they don't wanna look thirsty,so they look away or mean mug cuz many women cant hide the fact they attracted to you...a smile,or blush or giggle gon just come out when you stare back at em

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Yeah girl was tellin me the other day that she is too scared to approach dudes but she will do the compliment thing and shyt like that hoping the guy will ask her out. It is difficult to pick up on the signs but you get better at it. It's cool when a chick is upfront though, it saves a lot of guessing games, we're not fukking mind readers over here.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

What I seem to get is women that just stare at me,we make eye contact and they just don't break eye contact until you say something,ive seen about as long as 10 seconds....I must admit that shyt is sexy when its the right chick...Then you get chicks who will just be more upfront and say you cute or whatever.

I seem to get approached the most when females just see me out and just being sociable with strangers and cracking jokes....I think when they see you interacting with strangers it must make them feel more comfortable to do the same...I don't know if they become attracted by people reacting to you or if you just seem more approachable based on that....not sure why females have a fear of rejection since I doubt many of them have never directly approached anybody....For women though maybe just even us not getting the signs they throw out there is a rejection in they eyes..Nawl we just don't see every little retarded thing as a sign...as I get older I see more so I catch more.

But I once had a chick basically say "You couldnt tell by the way I never talked to you and went out of my way to not look at you,that I liked you?"....like I was crazy for not seeing that shyt...No I couldnt tell becuz plenty of women do that shyt cuz they really don't want to be talked to...that's why I always say you might miss out not approaching the "mean looking" chicks...sometimes that's just a front cuz they don't wanna look thirsty,so they look away or mean mug cuz many women cant hide the fact they attracted to you...a smile,or blush or giggle gon just come out when you stare back at em

I feel you on that.
got a mean-flirt chic at work that I'm not approaching

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Yeah girl was tellin me the other day that she is too scared to approach dudes but she will do the compliment thing and shyt like that hoping the guy will ask her out. It is difficult to pick up on the signs but you get better at it. It's cool when a chick is upfront though, it saves a lot of guessing games, we're not fukking mind readers over here.

its this chick at work that stay having something negative to say about me.

"why you got two different shoes on" (what the kds)

"why you got on a trash bag" (my jacket)

"I see why you ain't got no girlfriend"

"he ain't never a p*ssy before"