Back in the day when I was in high school/college...I got approached often. I was on some pretty boy shyt tho.
Nowadays, hardly ever. I'm in my early 30s and I'm not a pretty boy anymore but I'd say I'm still an above average looking guy and I'm fit. I attribute the non-approaches to the fact that the game has changed. Nowadays 90% of women are gassed. Or maybe I fell off more than I think
But I hardly go out...most of the time I go from my house to the gym or to work only..with an occasional stop at the grocery store. The last time I was approached was about 6 months ago. That was basically the last time I went out.
This older broad...I'd say she was about 40...she was attractive for her age and you could tell about 5-7 years ago she was
status
But anyway, I was in this "older" nightclub and she comes up and pulls me on the dance floor. We dance for about 2 songs and she starts making convo with me. Not the usual one word comments while dancing...but trying to spark an actual conversation.
So I drag her off the dance floor so we could talk...Told the broad lets go outside so we can hear each other. And shes like "nah...come over here!"
She walks me to this long ass table with about 15 old heads sitting there
It was her family and obviously somebody's birthday. Broad starts introducing me to everybody at the table on some "show off" shyt
...and its super awkward because her old ass relatives know what time it is.
The dudes weren't hating tho, had that
look in their face like they were happy for a breh.
But the women had the
look. I guess because I was obviously much younger than her and the fact that they were sitting there bored and lonely.
But anyway we chat for 5 mins and shes telling me how she wants to "enjoy me"
She had a little bit of the pyscho vibe plus she was too attractive (for her age) to be single so that too made me believe she was nuts.
Hell, I just wanted to smash once anyway to see what that "mature" puss is about..but I didn't want to bullshyt her. So I tell her straight up....
Me: I got a girl
Her:
...Do you live with her?
Me: Yep
Her: Well how are you suppose to spend time with me if you are in a relationship?
Me: We can make it work, we'll just text all the time
Her:
But she still gave me the number and made me promise to communicate with her
I hit her up like 3 days later...took her 2 days to respond and was on some brush off shyt
I guess she wasn't bout that side chic life
Be 40 and delusional, hanging out in nightclubs looking for love brehettes
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