Brehs, When Was the Last Time a Chick Approached You?

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

This probably my biggest L yet

Last year I'm chilling outside my classroom waiting for the other class that uses it before us to get done. The class gets done and I spot a girl I know. I say what's up to her etc and start a conversation with her. Out of no where her friend comes along, introduces herself to me and sits in my lap. She got extra comfortable in it......but me being a dummy .... I didn't make anything of it and just kept talking to the girl I knew. A few minutes later as we're still talking the girl sitting in my lap asks if she's heavy and I say "yeah" jokingly. I guess she kinda got offended because she walked away with her friend that I knew.

When I went to class I was thinking about the dumbass shyt I did the whole day.

#teamoblivious

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

introduces herself to me and sits in my lap. She got extra comfortable in it

That's when you run your hand up her thigh like but honestly back when I was like 18-19 I wouldn't probably done shyt. Just sat there like

 

[Turk]

#teamoblivious

#ForeverOblivious

 

[Turk]

That's when you run your hand up her thigh like but honestly back when I was like 18-19 I wouldn't probably done shyt. Just sat there like

I was 19 at the time. I just sat there like a lame duck.

 

[Barnett114]

High School

But there might have been others afterward but I'm #teamoblivious

 

[AAKing23]

This probably my biggest L yet

Last year I'm chilling outside my classroom waiting for the other class that uses it before us to get done. The class gets done and I spot a girl I know. I say what's up to her etc and start a conversation with her. Out of no where her friend comes along, introduces herself to me and sits in my lap. She got extra comfortable in it......but me being a dummy .... I didn't make anything of it and just kept talking to the girl I knew. A few minutes later as we're still talking the girl sitting in my lap asks if she's heavy and I say "yeah" jokingly. I guess she kinda got offended because she walked away with her friend that I knew.

When I went to class I was thinking about the dumbass shyt I did the whole day.

I know the feeling breh

 

[RealAssanova]

Why is the women we don't want that approach us, if we are approached?

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

I may have just witnessed some type of disrespect idk. So these two, guy and girl walkin through the store and they about to walk by me. Girl is like "Heeeyy" and smiled so I said hi and smiled back and kept walkin. Girl says to the dude "damn he's a cutie". Guy didn't look like a homosexual or nothing. He seemed like her man.

Oh well

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

bump

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Alright, I promised I'd be back to this thread, so here goes:



I'm a fairly attractive dude.... I don't' think so personally, but women tell me I am.

I mean, I'm not Boris Kudjoe or Shemar Moore or Morris Chestnut...

but I do aight.




back when I was a teen, I was scared of chicks.... so they constantly used to approach me.

I probably never in my life approached a girl till I got around 17 or 18....

cause I never had to. They would always come to me.




when I got in my 20's, my confidence took off.... cause I realized that even though I didn't think I looked good...

women did. And that's what was important





so I got super cocky and confident.... but once I made this change, the rate of women approaching me took a drastic hit.

I always chalked it up to...

women didn't mind approaching a quiet dude that was laid in the cut, but once I started feeling myself and being loud, I probably intimidated them a lil bit.





so nowadays, I don't really get chicks "approaching" me per se.

Like, they aren't really walking up to me telling me, "hey what's your number?"

but it happens in a roundabout way.

was in the D over the weekend at a family reunion.... and my cuz comes and brings a friend with her.

this girl is throwing me mad eye contact, smiling at me, definitely letting me know she's feeling me.

she was fine too, brehs.


at one point, I was walking with my cuz and ole girl yells out something to my cuz about "cute" while looking at me and smiling.

my cuz wound up bringing ole girl to me and introducing us.

does that count as an "approach"?

If so....








and oh yeah, sidenote:

Older women will approach me in a heartbeat. they don't give a care.


i get approached by older women who point blank tell me what they want.

by older, I mean, 40-65.

one time, I knew this older lady and her husband.... and me and her husband was cool.

he wound up dying, heart attack.


but anyway, I went over to check on his widow, and don't you know she put it out there to me and told me that she "has needs"

told me if I'm with it, come get it....

if I ain't with it, don't ever come back.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

This probably my biggest L yet

Last year I'm chilling outside my classroom waiting for the other class that uses it before us to get done. The class gets done and I spot a girl I know. I say what's up to her etc and start a conversation with her. Out of no where her friend comes along, introduces herself to me and sits in my lap. She got extra comfortable in it......but me being a dummy .... I didn't make anything of it and just kept talking to the girl I knew. A few minutes later as we're still talking the girl sitting in my lap asks if she's heavy and I say "yeah" jokingly. I guess she kinda got offended because she walked away with her friend that I knew.

When I went to class I was thinking about the dumbass shyt I did the whole day.

you in the wrong thread, ain't you breh?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Alright, I promised I'd be back to this thread, so here goes:



I'm a fairly attractive dude.... I don't' think so personally, but women tell me I am.

I mean, I'm not Boris Kudjoe or Shemar Moore or Morris Chestnut...

but I do aight.




back when I was a teen, I was scared of chicks.... so they constantly used to approach me.

I probably never in my life approached a girl till I got around 17 or 18....

cause I never had to. They would always come to me.




when I got in my 20's, my confidence took off.... cause I realized that even though I didn't think I looked good...

women did. And that's what was important





so I got super cocky and confident.... but once I made this change, the rate of women approaching me took a drastic hit.

I always chalked it up to...

women didn't mind approaching a quiet dude that was laid in the cut, but once I started feeling myself and being loud, I probably intimidated them a lil bit.





so nowadays, I don't really get chicks "approaching" me per se.

Like, they aren't really walking up to me telling me, "hey what's your number?"

but it happens in a roundabout way.

was in the D over the weekend at a family reunion.... and my cuz comes and brings a friend with her.

this girl is throwing me mad eye contact, smiling at me, definitely letting me know she's feeling me.

she was fine too, brehs.


at one point, I was walking with my cuz and ole girl yells out something to my cuz about "cute" while looking at me and smiling.

my cuz wound up bringing ole girl to me and introducing us.

does that count as an "approach"?

If so....








and oh yeah, sidenote:

Older women will approach me in a heartbeat. they don't give a care.


i get approached by older women who point blank tell me what they want.

by older, I mean, 40-65.

one time, I knew this older lady and her husband.... and me and her husband was cool.

he wound up dying, heart attack.


but anyway, I went over to check on his widow, and don't you know she put it out there to me and told me that she "has needs"

told me if I'm with it, come get it....

if I ain't with it, don't ever come back.

better tame that sabertooth tiger.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

you in the wrong thread, ain't you breh?

I guess she "technically" came at him.


he was oblivious so that post would work for the other thread also

 

[Amphibious]

Probably every other day, happens often when you aint ugly

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

better tame that sabertooth tiger.

that's how I discovered how horny older women are.

and old men know this, breh, and they be mad jealous sometimes

one time I was at this lady's house.... she had to be in her late 50's....

I knew her from way back in the day, cause she was the local librarian when I was growing up

so I ran into her in a store or something, hugged said hi and all that

and she told me she was doing art now and that I should swing by and check it out

so I went over, she's showing me all the art at her house and all that.... completely on the up and up, platonic

next thing I know, this old man shows up, had to be early 60's

this dude had a smile and everything when she opened up the door...

seriously like

then when he saw me, he got the and then the

he was like, "oh I see what's going on here" and turned right back around and walked out the door

the old lady followed behind him like, "no, that's not what it is"



I got the and the


I told her, "I think I probably better go"

she was like, "yeah you should do that"







but those experiences really opened my eyes