Brehettes: How Many Kids Do You Want And When Do You Want To Have Them?

[Amy Traphouse]

I never understood the pressures put on women to have kids and marry.

Although I have both I agree with those who don't want to follow that path. Its simply not for them. Its a dirty game now anyways. Alot of men not wanting to be responsible for the child thus leaving a bulk of the responsibility on the mother. Men are upset that the woman they loved has a "ugly body" after giving birth and no longer feel attracted to her. She's paying more attention to the baby so they decide to find new puss.

Its too damn much.

Oh and don't be like me...have 3 girls and get asked, "Why do you have so many kids?" or "When are you gonna have a boy for your husband?".

The questions and inquiries in regards to how I live my personal life get annoying and people look crazy at my snappy attitude that follows. Its unreasonably intrusive to probe, especially when you aren't that major of a factor.

Let these women live, sheesh. [/rant]

 

[CinnaSlim]

2-3, I'll start having kids at 27 if I'm settled by then.

 

[miranda]

5, but at least 3

 

[Typo]

3 at 27,28 and 29!

 

[Ashley Banks]

Fiance wants 2. We'll start trying when I'm 32-33.

 

[LadySimone]

Dam!!!! We got civilisation bearing hips. We need to be reproducing. I need two boys or boy and girl and I want them 3 years ago.

 

[Colicat]

I want one... God willing... My older sister has one and my younger sister is now pregnant......

The pressure to get married and have kids was bad before but now it's ridiculous

My mom is coming with the... "When are you having one, your younger sister is beating you to the punch.... I ain't try a hear that...

I just live my life... Thank God I am hours away and don't have to hear that shyt every day

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

I want a lot of kids, but I want an even number, so like 4, or 6.
I only want girls though, maybe 1 boy. I would have liked to be a mother by now, but I'm not. I'm hoping I get married and have kids soon. (In that order)

 

[thirdeye]

Hm, I want one or two naturally and then I'll adopt another. I'd like to give a child a chance for a better life.

 

[InDePickWest]

Eh..maybe. I think Id want a kid just to see what it would look like.

So in other words I probably shouldnt have kids.

 

[blackslash]

Women who dont want children get the immediate and

 

[Wild self]

Dam!!!! We got civilisation bearing hips. We need to be reproducing. I need two boys or boy and girl and I want them 3 years ago.

You want light skinned children?

 

[LadySimone]

You want light skinned children?

No, ironically.

 

[Krispy]

3
2 boys and a girl and I want to start by 23/24 I love children

 

[KinksandCoils]

There is absolutely no pressure in my family to have kids. In fact, if anything it's the opposite. Right now I say I could have 2 max but if I was told I couldn't at this point in my life I wouldn't be devastated. It really just doesn't seem like something that I must have. Kids take a ton of work and the major responsibility of having kids falls on the woman and I don't mean by just being pregnant and delivering I mean taking care of them.