Black males should be raised with a patriarchal mindset. Following the whims of dumb broads that use "cis" only increases the amount of weak men out here. Those bytch-made boys become bytch-made men that scream like bytches when a WS runs up on them because they (1) don't know how to fight, thus can't protect themselves, and (2) more emotional because they were taught to deal with their emotions like a woman instead of a man.
Parents should never take advice of folks like the woman in the OP on how to raise their boys unless you want some feminine boy that will be 24 hiding behind you when he has to knuckle up.
Too many fakkit ass nikkas running around here these days more concerned with what outfit they're wearing than what they are producing.
Stop taking the advice of bytches using "cis"/pronouns and homosexuals, and start getting back to the brass tacks of raising boys to be dominant.
fukk what anyone else thinks.