Brehette is a parenting expert and goes viral for whaf she says about black boys

[Uachet]

what’s the truth? I don’t fear shyt about none of it. I like being well read on a myriad of topics. I’m personally not going to say the word ‘cis’ verbally but I don’t like being ignorant. But like I said earlier, if you aren’t cisgender you are transgender. Those are categories that you don’t have to use but may be helpful to atleast understand what they mean. It could help you from being in a situation you don’t wanna be in….

WTF? Everyone here knows what cisgender means. It does not take much reading to know that. Your attempt to also shame me from pointing out that most normal people do not desire to be called cis is noted. How about you just come out and admit what you are. I've seen your sort of disingenuous arguing from the very LGBTQ+ members who also want us to make sure we use their specified pronouns. So, are you a member?

 

[SNG]

How did she make that conclusion based on that video though?

That video was honestly hilarious—they weren’t even being violent or overemotional, they were just talking shyt to amp up the game. They were trash on the court though and I nearly died watching that game unfold.

Why did she have to make this video into something it’s not? Especially when white men are the ones shooting women and schools up over rejection and depression.

Men in general are more violent then women, so if we’re going to discuss male violence, that’s one thing… but making Brehs out to be violent over emotional abusers over a silly basketball game is fukked up. Many black children in general (boys and girls) need therapy over the things we deal with and the trauma dealt with during childhood. I have my son in art therapy and boxing for this reason (to give him an outlet and also a healthy take on dealing with his emotions).

To tackle the singe parenting issues, we do need more men actively being fathers to their children (daughters and sons, but especially sons since sons model themselves after their dads) to show them the way. I saw that @Tair mentioned black boys needing to raise with a patriarchal mindset but that’s not going to happen if there is not man in the home.

Agreed we do need more fathers. Children are complex and it takes a village to raise them. I take my hat off to women that try and do it but I don’t think being a single parent is something to be promoted since it’s 10 times harder to do without an able body and a somewhat Healthy mental counterpart. There cannot be any improvements made until the black community is fixed only 36% of black children come from two married parent homes and 48% come from single parent homes. The percentage needs to be drastically higher on the two parent side.

 

[Mindfield333]

"You can tell a tree by the fruit it bear"..

I don't care what silly language they use, the actions/behavior is the identifier.

I mean like I said I wanna know what things mean. Some brehs will fall victim to the crying game when they don’t have to

 

[Uachet]

I mean like I said I wanna know what things mean. Some brehs will fall victim to the crying game when they don’t have to

What does not wanting to be called cis have to do with anything you stated above?

 

[Wildhundreds]

I mean like I said I wanna know what things mean. Some brehs will fall victim to the crying game when they don’t have to

I agree. Can't have a conversation about something you have absolutely no knowledge off. Even if you ask these people questions they get offended and start calling you names.. Fck em at the end of the day if they roll like that. They're trying to fit in, not the other way around.

 

[Mindfield333]

WTF? Everyone here knows what cisgender means. It does not take much reading to know that. Your attempt to also shame me from pointing out that most normal people do not desire to be called cis is noted. How about you just come out and admit what you are. I've seen your sort of disingenuous arguing from the very LGBTQ+ members who also want us to make sure we use their specified pronouns. So, are you a member?

Nah I’m not a member. Straight Black Male. You seem a little sensitive bro, you okay? I never disrespected you. Do you wanna reread my posts? You can also search my posts and get as much background as you need.

 

[Mindfield333]

I agree. Can't have a conversation about something you have absolutely no knowledge of. Even if you ask these people questions they get offended and start calling you names.. Fck em at the end of the day if they roll like that. They're trying to fit in, not the other way around.

I get it. I just like understanding things. I’ve always been that person that wanted to know more about things. Religion been my bag the past few years but it seems like a never ending rabbit hole

 

[Detroit Wave]

Them nikkas was trash on d in that first video

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

Y'all need to start getting custody. I've been said bw suck at raising boys by themselves.

I tried and she fought me tooth and nail just to get 'child support' and ended up regretting it cause it wasn't nearly as much as she thought it would be. She has too much pride to admit she fukked up and doesn't really want that responsibility and I still have all independent rights and get to see my son every week anyway.

I get why child support came into effect but that shyt needs an overhaul or to be done away with, but the judge clearly saw I was a good dad and she didn't kill my pockets on child support, I still notice it but it isn't anything I can't handle and honestly I can get it reduced if I really wanted to because my lazy ass ex wife has an actual job now so it would get reduced if we went back to court, if not me getting 50/50 instead of this 55/45 bullshyt we on now.

I've said for the longest men need to start raising the kids. Studies show children from single father households can and a lot of the times do perform just as well as children from two parent households. The only sample group that lags behind, by a significant margin, are single mother households. I don't sugar coat it when I say women raise children, men raise grown ups. Most of these women absolutely suck at raising kids after a certain age, especially the boys. A discussion really needs to be had about this, but for some reason this community damn near deifies motherhood to the point people think mama is supposed to have the final say so on everything and can do no wrong and that shyt is mentally fukking us up... we are the only culture that thinks like this and as a collective we lag far behind everyone else as far as socio-economic status and power and how we raise our children and our views on the family structure are the root cause of our problems.

 

[Uachet]

Nah I’m not a member. Straight Black Male. You seem a little sensitive bro, you okay? I never disrespected you. Do you wanna reread my posts? You can also search my posts and get as much background as you need.

If that is so, why add this ending part. If you had left this part out, I would accept your explanation above. You chose to add in that part, so what was your intention on doing that?

It could help you from being in a situation you don’t wanna be in….

That was an unnecessary addition, when the discussion was only about the attempt to label others, but wanting others to accept their own specified labels.

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

Them nikkas was trash on d in that first video

She wouldn't be hitting those shots if they asses would close out quickly and get on her. I played a few pick up games last year at the park and all the younger guys were shocked that I was actually playing defense and trying to get rebounds. They acted like it was some shyt they'd never seen before.

 

[Mindfield333]

If that is so, why add this ending part. If you had left this part out, I would accept your explanation above. You chose to add in that part, so what was your intention on doing that?

That offended you? How the hell you survive on here lol. I was making shyt make sense. You know, Laymans terms.

 

[WheresWallace]

If women really wanted men who weren’t aggressive they wouldn’t constantly be getting pregnant by them.


They just want more passive men available so that they can have their fun with Future and raise his b*stard kids with Russell Wilson. Then get divorced once they kids are old enough to not need a baby sitter.

 

[ScottyG]

I know she an ados women. They never want to see black men happy

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

........why is a girl playing basketball with men? shyts mad weird lmaooo

Never seen some shyt like that growing up.

Shyt happens all the time, lol

I used to shoot ball with some native American girls in school

They put me on to handball too

They take that shyt seriously on the res