Brehette is a parenting expert and goes viral for whaf she says about black boys

[Rockstar Mom]

You went to this BS response trying to lowkey insult me?

You talked about a discussion that needs to be had with the boys. I pointed out that that discussion is not being had in those households because of their parents being incapable of modeling emotional control themselves. No where did I state anything about men being let off the hook for their poor impulse control and bad actions in the communities. Yet, you took what I said like I was insulting you and decided to insult back. That was very pitiful of you and exposes your true mindset on this issue.

I don’t even know you to insult you Idk what type of household you grew up in. And no I don’t feel insulted. Y’all need to relax, it’s a simple conversation. I said it’s a copout, because you’re making it seem like every single person who has anger issues is from a single parent household, with a felon father. That’s simply not true. Bad parenting isn’t even the only thing that leads to anger issues. Bad romantic relationships, bad, familial relationships, friendship betrayals, bad interactions with strangers, all that can contribute to anger issues.

But my point still stands, you need to do your part and heal from that. Get some therapy. read the Bible. Walking around with unresolved anger issues from something that happened to you when you were 10 (or 20 or 30) is only going to hold you back in life. And this is coming from someone who struggled with anger issues(NOT contributed to a bad childhood, because I had a good one).

 

[Paper Boi]

Yeah, she is a sick single mum by the sounds of it.



Talks about conscious parenting is recognising how she feels etc.



Jaded.



Resentment.



Envy.









Her page is a clown show. The ramblings of a stressed and Jaded single mother.

she sounds very mentally ill


like the rest of twitter

 

[SNG]

The single mother household thing is a cop out. Because at some point, you become an adult, and you need to learn how to control your emotions on your own. You can’t be 50 and still blaming things on mommy and daddy(or lack of). At some point, you have to be to become responsible for your own behavior and healing.

How is a cop out. I’m sorry black women can’t handle the emotions of a black boy when they get to a teenage level. A healthy black man can help them navigate their emotions better. Once a black boy gets older and feels he’s stronger than his mother it’s hard for her to tell them shyt. And alot of times they end up doing shyt that can lead them to jail or some other shyt. When a father is around and is doing his job in parenting he can speak to his son in a way that’s hard for a women to reach just like a women can speak to her daughter in a way that a man can’t reach.

There’s a reason boys and girls need a balance of energy from both parents. Studies show that the ideal of parenting is a two healthy parent home. The black community has to make that decision to avoid raising children as a single parent at all costs. Both Black men and Black women need to think like this if they want to raise children.

 

[GR13]

That's what time she is on. Being direct, she is the sort of person who should be kept out of the profession. We don't need her spreading her poison to the vulnerable.

you can tell she one of them big sloppy bad body built brehette with no booty that can't get decent black man or white man

she went straight to an all black female Colney she's not even pretending like she can get a white man

 

[Uachet]

I don’t even know you to insult you Idk what type of household you grew up in. And no I don’t feel insulted. Y’all need to relax, it’s a simple conversation. I said it’s a copout, because you’re making it seem like every single person who has anger issues is from a single parent household, with a felon father. That’s simply not true. Bad parenting isn’t even the only thing that leads to anger issues. Bad romantic relationships, bad, familial relationships, friendship betrayals, bad interactions with strangers, all that can contribute to anger issues.

But my point still stands, you need to do your part and heal from that. Get some therapy. read the Bible. Walking around with unresolved anger issues from something that happened to you when you were 10 (or 20 or 30) is only going to hold you back in life. And this is coming from someone who struggled with anger issues(NOT contributed to a bad childhood, because I had a good one).

You evidently know I am over 50, or you would not have mentioned 50 years old when most of the havoc is being caused by guys who die in their 20s. Most Black men who make it into their 50s are in the middle class, so please stop the cap.

Second, you are avoiding the fact that you said discussion needs to be had with boys. Now you are moving the posts, not seeming to understand that no one here is absolving men of any of the harm they are doing in the community. We are talking about children and the harm being done to them, but you are working to shift the discussion to men, even though your original post was about having the discussion about emotional control with boys.

So really, as a mother, what are you trying to accomplish here?

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

........why is a girl playing basketball with men? shyts mad weird lmaooo

Never seen some shyt like that growing up.

nikka what?

 

[The Burger King]

It's a wrap.

I’ve pointed this out several times. It never fails.

The black women and simps who are quick to call someone an “incel” for being critical of women are usually incels themselves.

 

[Wildhundreds]

Why bytches and nikkas who failed at creating a nuclear family turn around and hate on the nuclear family? Mark these type of people and stay away from them. Instead of talking about how they f*cked up trying to make a family, they just look for alternatives. Dirty slut.

 

[number21]

A lot of these "educated" Black women see black men as less than and if you got any sense and backbone see you as the enemy.

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

I've seen more unchecked hate speech come from black women on the internet than literally any other race of women

 

[Rockstar Mom]

How is a cop out. I’m sorry black women can’t handle the emotions of a black boy when they get to a teenage level. A healthy black man can help them navigate their emotions better. Once a black boy gets older and feels he’s stronger than his mother it’s hard for her to tell them shyt. And alot of times they end up doing shyt that can lead them to jail or some other shyt. When a father is around and is doing his job in parenting he can speak to his son in a way that’s hard for a women to reach just like a women can speak to her daughter in a way that a man can’t reach.

There’s a reason boys and girls need a balance of energy from both parents. Studies show that the ideal of parenting is a two healthy parent home. The black community has to make that decision to avoid raising children as a single parent at all costs. Both Black men and Black women need to think like this if they want to raise children.

I agree with everything you’re saying. I’m saying is a cop out after a certain AGE. Mom and dad didn’t teach you how to control your emotions when you were younger? OK. They were trash for that. But now you’re 40. You telling me in all those years you still haven’t learned to control your emotions?

Mom and dad didn’t teach you financial literacy as a child. They were wrong for that. but now you’re 50, and you still haven’t attempted to gain any type of financial literacy?

It seems like the video is talking about teaching your kids now, so they don’t turn into the adult in the video. The adults NOW, should not be acting the way they do now has grown ass adults. We can’t keep blaming that on childhood. We grown.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

You evidently know I am over 50, or you would not have mentioned 50 years old when most of the havoc is being caused by guys who die in their 20s. Most Black men who make it into their 50s are in the middle class, so please stop the cap.

Second, you are avoiding the fact that you said discussion needs to be had with boys. Now you are moving the posts, not seeming to understand that no one here is absolving men of any of the harm they are doing in the community. We are talking about children and the harm being done to them, but you are working to shift the discussion to men, even though your original post was about having the discussion about emotional control with boys.

So really, as a mother, what are you trying to accomplish here?

Sir, how the fukk would I know you’re 50? Be for real. I’ve never even seen your name until today


Anywho, I responded below to someone else. I’m not typing all that again.

 

[The Burger King]

I agree with everything you’re saying. I’m saying is a cop out after a certain AGE. Mom and dad didn’t teach you how to control your emotions when you were younger? OK. They were trash for that. But now you’re 40. You telling me in all those years you still haven’t learned to control your emotions?

Mom and dad didn’t teach you financial literacy as a child. They were wrong for that. but now you’re 50, and you still haven’t attempted to gain any type of financial literacy?

It seems like the video is talking about teaching your kids now, so they don’t turn into the adult in the video. The adults NOW, should not be acting the way they do now has grown ass adults. We can’t keep blaming that on childhood. We grown.

The issue with this thinking is that, you fail to understand that you aren’t necessarily going to understand the importance of something unless it’s stressed to you from an early age.

If you’re a kid that grows up in a family where nobody exercises or stresses the importance of health, there’s a high probability you won’t see a need to hit the gym until something forces you to.

It’s the same with emotional discipline and young boys, the difference is it’s often too late when these young men are forced to understand it’s importance.

 

[The Fade]

I've seen more unchecked hate speech come from black women on the internet than literally any other race of women

There’s only one Charleston White

But there’s multiple women suggesting for black male genocide and calling it empowerment

 

[Uachet]

Sir, how the fukk would I know you’re 50? Be for real. I’ve never even seen your name until today


Anywho, I responded below to someone else. I’m not typing all that again.

No one except you in this thread at any point said it was an excuse to use after adulthood. So again, when the discussion is about emotional control in boys (i.e. children), why are you attempting to switch it to being about men (adults). What are you trying to accomplish by doing this, when no one was arguing against your fallback point in the first place? Why this switch attempt in the subject, when the first post I made was in direct response to your post about having discussions with boys, pointing out it is not being had when the parents themselves have no emotional control to model for the boys?

You do know you are exposing what sort of person you are doing this, right?