Brehette is a parenting expert and goes viral for whaf she says about black boys

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I agree with everything you’re saying. I’m saying is a cop out after a certain AGE. Mom and dad didn’t teach you how to control your emotions when you were younger? OK. They were trash for that. But now you’re 40. You telling me in all those years you still haven’t learned to control your emotions?

Mom and dad didn’t teach you financial literacy as a child. They were wrong for that. but now you’re 50, and you still haven’t attempted to gain any type of financial literacy?

It seems like the video is talking about teaching your kids now, so they don’t turn into the adult in the video. The adults NOW, should not be acting the way they do now has grown ass adults. We can’t keep blaming that on childhood. We grown.
Age has nothing to do with being self aware for the tools that you need in life to be a better human. A lot of people don’t deal with there traumas in life until later on in life. You got to understand a lot of us were raised in generation were things like mental health wasn’t accepted as it is today. Right now we are living in a time where that conversation is becoming more accepted. My dad is almost 70 and I still think a therapist would do wonders for him due to the traumas he had in his childhood. A good majority of people put that shyt behind them because they don’t want to open up that darkness instead of facing it head on.
 

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It's a wrap.

you can tell she one of them big sloppy bad body built brehette with no booty :scust:that can't get decent black man or white man

she went straight to an all black female Colney she's not even pretending like she can get a white man:mjlol:
i was right bytch's body probably looks like 9 pounds of shyt stuffed in a 8 pound bag :russ:
 

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The issue with this thinking is that, you fail to understand that you aren’t necessarily going to understand the importance of something unless it’s stressed to you from an early age.

If you’re a kid that grows up in a family where nobody exercises or stresses the importance of health, there’s a high probability you won’t see a need to hit the gym until something forces you to.

It’s the same with emotional discipline and young boys, the difference is it’s often too late when these young men are forced to understand it’s importance.
I agree. So since the general consensus is, we don’t really trust the parents to teach them that, what’s the next step? Do we attempt to implement it in school? Which I don’t think it’s a bad idea btw.
 

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Age has nothing to do with being self aware for the tools that you need in life to be a better human. A lot of people don’t deal with there traumas in life until later on in life. You got to understand a lot of us were raised in generation were things like mental health wasn’t accepted as it is today. Right now we are living in a time where that conversation is becoming more accepted. My dad is almost 70 and I still think a therapist would do wonders for him due to the traumas he had in his childhood. A good majority of people put that shyt behind them because they don’t want to open up that darkness instead of facing it head on.
Trust me, I grew up in a household where mental illness and depression wasn’t “real”, and it just needed to be “prayed away”:unimpressed: So trust me I get it.
 

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Black males should be raised with a patriarchal mindset. Following the whims of dumb broads that use "cis" only increases the amount of weak men out here. Those bytch-made boys become bytch-made men that scream like bytches when a WS runs up on them because they (1) don't know how to fight, thus can't protect themselves, and (2) more emotional because they were taught to deal with their emotions like a woman instead of a man.

Parents should never take advice of folks like the woman in the OP on how to raise their boys unless you want some feminine boy that will be 24 hiding behind you when he has to knuckle up.

Too many fakkit ass nikkas running around here these days more concerned with what outfit they're wearing than what they are producing.

Stop taking the advice of bytches using "cis"/pronouns and homosexuals, and start getting back to the brass tacks of raising boys to be dominant.

fukk what anyone else thinks.

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This.

When I read "cis", the :beli: came out
 

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Damn imagine America deploying this in africa :whoa:. They know it's effective too smh
African leaders trying to stop it.

They don’t want a Tutsi-Hutu situation between the genders like we have.

I’ve noticed something with history, whenever the white man uplifts one group over the other that group thinks it’s okay to genocide the group seen as defective.
 

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Black males should be raised with a patriarchal mindset. Following the whims of dumb broads that use "cis" only increases the amount of weak men out here. Those bytch-made boys become bytch-made men that scream like bytches when a WS runs up on them because they (1) don't know how to fight, thus can't protect themselves, and (2) more emotional because they were taught to deal with their emotions like a woman instead of a man.

Parents should never take advice of folks like the woman in the OP on how to raise their boys unless you want some feminine boy that will be 24 hiding behind you when he has to knuckle up.

Too many fakkit ass nikkas running around here these days more concerned with what outfit they're wearing than what they are producing.

Stop taking the advice of bytches using "cis"/pronouns and homosexuals, and start getting back to the brass tacks of raising boys to be dominant.

fukk what anyone else thinks.

:manny:
As someone that took advanced English growing up and considered minoring in it… seeing people offended by pronouns is still weird to me lol. And I figured out what cis meant year before last… if you’re born male and identify as that gender then that what it means. If you aren’t transgender then you are cisgender. Simple shyt. Now do I use that shyt in regular conversation? No, but I don’t like feeling ignorant and being lost.
 

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A new word that doesn't mean anything. But cisgendered is what we call normal men and women born that way.

I found this out when I was talking to this lightskin BBW online. I was trying to smash. She had issues and used terms like cishet. I asked what that meant. Suffice to say I didn't smash.
Thank you breh. So the new generation has thrown Hetero out the window?
 

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How did she make that conclusion based on that video though?

That video was honestly hilarious—they weren’t even being violent or overemotional, they were just talking shyt to amp up the game. They were trash on the court though and I nearly died watching that game unfold.

Why did she have to make this video into something it’s not? Especially when white men are the ones shooting women and schools up over rejection and depression.

Men in general are more violent then women, so if we’re going to discuss male violence, that’s one thing… but making Brehs out to be violent over emotional abusers over a silly basketball game is fukked up. Many black children in general (boys and girls) need therapy over the things we deal with and the trauma dealt with during childhood. I have my son in art therapy and boxing for this reason (to give him an outlet and also a healthy take on dealing with his emotions).

To tackle the singe parenting issues, we do need more men actively being fathers to their children (daughters and sons, but especially sons since sons model themselves after their dads) to show them the way. I saw that @Tair mentioned black boys needing to raise with a patriarchal mindset but that’s not going to happen if there is not man in the home.
 

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It's a wrap.


Right on cue..

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As someone that took advanced English growing up and considered minoring in it… seeing people offended by pronouns is still weird to me lol. And I figured out what cis meant year before last… if you’re born male and identify as that gender then that what it means. If you aren’t transgender then you are cisgender. Simple shyt. Now do I use that shyt in regular conversation? No, but I don’t like feeling ignorant and being lost.
Vast majority of people did not ask to be called cis. Why is it that what we normal people desire can be ignored in favor of labeling us, while the abnormal people must be respected on their self-labels? Seems to be quite a bit of hypocrisy in that regard on this issue. If a lot of us say we do not desire to be called Cis, then that should be respected too.
 
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