Adebisi_Said
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One of the first questions Kevin would ask him is "why are you having this discussion with a 42 year old woman?"
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One of the first questions Kevin would ask him is "why are you having this discussion with a 42 year old woman?"
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Most women are hypergamous. Women are attracted to status and wealth moreso than anything else. With wealth comes status with wealth and status comes power and protection. If a woman has more wealth than a particular man, what does she need him for? He cannot provide a lifestyle that feeds into the hypergamous nature of a woman. Therefore the attraction wanes, you can see it happening in real time in the video provided in the OP. That is why a man should never be ok with a woman outperforming him financially. For hundreds of thousands of years or thousands of years, whichever you choose to believe, the human man has been the protector and provider while the human woman has been the nurturer whether through means of evolution or it being ordained. This has been ENCODED within us from the beginning of our existence. You think that's just going to go away within the last 50 years of this "shift?"
Patrice O'Neal coined it perfectly when it comes to women and relationships - women don't want to win they want a winner.
I didn't even go in on how the guy is not exhibiting any traits of being a leader of the relationship in what he said. That's a whole other situation we can go into if you'd like.
This video has so much to unpack
I love it.
nah thats not true.
Like I said my mom made almost 40% what my dad made while they both worked (he's retired now) my mom is still working
Many variables at play
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Thanks for sharing but what does that have to do with my post? Your mom wasn't dating down financially if she was making 40% of what your dad made.
Worded it wrong, she made 40% more
The thing is stupid to me if we both buy the house and we both are working then gasp we both should contribute.
Chick is 42 so for like more than 2 decades she's been managing paying her own bills but now she expects when she is married for her to be taken care of. This chick doesn't want to get married all she wants is a baby and a man to pay all the bills
so example chick was paying lets just say 1,300 for her apartment or house but now we are married you just pocket that because you're a woman and I'm a man and now I'll pay all the bills
get the hell outta here with that ish
Chick is 42 so for like more than 2 decades she's been managing paying her own bills but now she expects when she is married for her to be taken care of. This chick doesn't want to get married all she wants is a baby and a man to pay all the bills
so example chick was paying lets just say 1,300 for her apartment or house but now we are married you just pocket that because you're a woman and I'm a man and now I'll pay all the bills
get the hell outta here with that ish
Peter Popoff
AKA Petty Pimpiń..🤑
Well said.Most women are hypergamous. Women are attracted to status and wealth moreso than anything else. With wealth comes status with wealth and status comes power and protection. If a woman has more wealth than a particular man, what does she need him for? He cannot provide a lifestyle that feeds into the hypergamous nature of a woman. Therefore the attraction wanes, you can see it happening in real time in the video provided in the OP. That is why a man should never be ok with a woman outperforming him financially. For hundreds of thousands of years or thousands of years, whichever you choose to believe, the human man has been the protector and provider while the human woman has been the nurturer whether through means of evolution or it being ordained. This has been ENCODED within us from the beginning of our existence. You think that's just going to go away within the last 50 years of this "shift?"
Patrice O'Neal coined it perfectly when it comes to women and relationships - women don't want to win they want a winner.
I didn't even go in on how the guy is not exhibiting any traits of being a leader of the relationship in what he said. That's a whole other situation we can go into if you'd like.
This video has so much to unpack
I think the issue is the cohabitation stage before marriage, most people aren't going that far yet.This constant obsession black people have on social media with paying the bills is crazy to me. Did no one's parents having a joint checking (and savings) account?
@Rekkapryde you paying all the bills 
HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
Isn’t that what they say they want? Which means they’d want you to pay for everything but they want to share control of the relationship...
Peter Popoff
AKA Petty Pimpiń..🤑
I agree. It's just not realistic and possible. If the purpose of a relationship is to court a womans finances, a majority of coli dudes will be in the JBO thread exploring different escorts, getting passports to Colombia, Mexico, Thailand for cheap women and marriage would be at a steady decline................
Oh wait......
Adebisi_Said
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I had no idea they were both 41 and 42. They're trying to start a family pretty late. I mean it's possible but women need to stop trying to focus on career to the point they're around the corner from 45.
The avg person doesnt get on top of their career until you're 38-50. People trying to live like they're 25 until they're 50 is crazy, all these UNrealistic TV shows has messed up their way of thinking.
The avg person doesnt get on top of their career until you're 38-50. People trying to live like they're 25 until they're 50 is crazy, all these UNrealistic TV shows has messed up their way of thinking.
