Crab in the barrel mentality, dudes don't want to feel like they're missing out so they shyt on you and put you down for it to make themselves feel better about it.
My friend been out in Colombia almost 4 months now, he pulled a good amount of pretty chicks in NYC, but the ones he's fukking with in Colombia at least look like an entire level above them, and they stay at his place cooking Most of the Colombian dudes still live at home with their parents, so he's cleaning up. Of course people questioned why he'd go...
I'm going to Colombia next month....
w/ my girl though