Do you understand how painful it must be, for a black woman, to experience racism and sexism, outside of her community, and to then be bombarded with: sexism, colorism, featurism, fatphobia, texturism, and all of the other ways in which they are disrespected, by members within their own community? Do you understand how much shyt black women have to put up with on a regular basis? What Kevin Samuels represented was something that was so destructive to the narrative surrounding black women. The way he talked to and about black women. The negative generalizations. Again, I’m not saying I’m happy that he died. I don’t believe in celebrating people’s death, but I can see how his passing would have to be a huge sigh of relief for the most disrespected group in this country—black women.