Black woman living in LA laments not having “Pretty Privilege”.

[Gloxina]

props for the cliff notes, its a sad read.

especially the joint i highlighted, i do sense though she might be into IR talking all that dark skin stuff when women who are confident know its got nothing to do with the pigment of your skin anyway men get it 10x worst.

she is talking about love and stuff, she can get a sexual partner by the click of her fingers most men cant do that. so shes got herself on some sort of pedestal she has a right but yeah this is a sad read.

No- pigment of your skin is definitely part of the issue.

The caveat is that if you’re dark skinned and look like Nia Long, Naomi Campbell, Kenya Moore, Justine Skye, etc your beauty is undeniable. Black men know it, and if they know YOU know it, they know you know you could just go outside the race and easily get a man with money.

The only Black men who have literally, openly asked me if I date interracially are the well paid men who date interracially. Because they know I get approached by all races. And if that’s the case, there’s a greater chance I’ve dated men who are traditional when courting a lady.

 

[shopthatwrecks]

she get into cosplay she will find her t'challa

 

[Gloxina]

Thanks for the cliff, but a lot of women i imagine suffer from that, and it’s like look being attractive is the same as having money as a man, it allows you to circumnavigate some bs and live in a different world, but the goal shouldn’t be to get cash dropped on you it should be to find love, i wonder how many nikkas she shot down because they didn’t fit this ideal dude

You are ABSOLUTELY correct, but men who don’t have $ sometimes think $ is everything, and women who aren’t considered conventionally attractive sometimes think life would be so much easier if every man desired them.

The truth is it makes surface level dealings and transactions easier, but it’s way harder to find someone who is truly down for you.

Which is why on the surface
rich man = beautiful woman. It’s an exchange and neither feels like they’re being taken advantage of for the stereotypical reason people chase them.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

You are ABSOLUTELY correct, but men who don’t have $ sometimes think $ is everything, and women who aren’t considered conventionally attractive sometimes think life would be so much easier if every man desired them.

The truth is it makes surface level dealings and transactions easier, but it’s way harder to find someone who is truly down for you.

Which is why on the surface
rich man = beautiful woman. It’s an exchange and neither feels like they’re being taken advantage of for the stereotypical reason people chase them.

Yes. There was a thread recently on a 6 figure Breh cursing out a woman for not responding to his DMs. Even with his money he was still an emotional lame.

And you’re right on your last paragraph. Surface relationships rarely last. If the money fades, so does the beautiful wife and vice versa. There has to be more depth to a relationship than those toe things.

 

[Gloxina]

So, does she want a relationship? Or somebody to just spend money on her? Cuz on the one hand, she says she craves male attention, going so far as to fall in love with a gay friend. But she makes a lot of mention about cashapp, private parties, etc like a certain lifestyle. So, does she actually know what and who she wants?

 

[King]

It's unusually non-ADOS women on this Bs

It’s not unusual

 

[xxxBDSMxxx]

This reminds me. A colleague of mine got divorced last year. His ex-wife said she was happy in the marriage but felt ugly because other men weren’t hitting on her/giving her attention… yes, read that line a few more times to get a sense of the insanity of this woman.

So he ended up financing her getting a boob job, a BBL etc to help boost her confidence after having two children… guess what happened next???

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Women were cursing out Jay-Z for cheating. “If Jay-Z could cheat on Beyonce what hope is there for us?”

Well shiiiit, if a woman married to a future NBA HOF still covets attention, what chance does the average man in a marriage have?

 

[Lootha VanDraws]

That shyt gets me tight
and it's not okay when you try to hurt me,
When we fukkin' off perkies
And we both from the Bronx, so I know
that you dirty.

- Ice Spice

 

[DropTopDoc]

You are ABSOLUTELY correct, but men who don’t have $ sometimes think $ is everything, and women who aren’t considered conventionally attractive sometimes think life would be so much easier if every man desired them.

The truth is it makes surface level dealings and transactions easier, but it’s way harder to find someone who is truly down for you.

Which is why on the surface
rich man = beautiful woman. It’s an exchange and neither feels like they’re being taken advantage of for the stereotypical reason people chase them.

Money/beauty is not the greatest equalizer, but it washes away accountability, some semblance of decent rapport with women, skills, good sex game etc

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

This reminds me. A colleague of mine got divorced last year. His ex-wife said she was happy in the marriage but felt ugly because other men weren’t hitting on her/giving her attention… yes, read that line a few more times to get a sense of the insanity of this woman.

So he ended up financing her getting a boob job, a BBL etc to help boost her confidence after having two children… guess what happened next???

What happened next?

 

[ThrobbingHood]

What happened next?

 

[DropTopDoc]

Also she’s attributing these bs to being darkskin i hate this shyt, i get it, some women have heard and seen on the internet shytty takes on darkskin women, but there is not a whole conspiring network of things working against you

 

[Jazzy B.]

Brehs on here were really calling this woman "pretty"

 

[jwonder]

Brehs on here were really calling this woman "pretty"

She's not my type, but I wouldn't say she is ugly either. Like I said she would fit in great in the bible belt states. Places like Cali and Miami are filled with beautiful women. Going to be hard to eat if you are average in looks and a little portly.