Hence why I said despite all this, this is still the easiest time to date. Lol So many delusional ppl out here it’s easy to shine if you somewhat have your heard on straight and make an effort.
Black woman living in LA laments not having “Pretty Privilege”.
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This has nothing to do with being in LA
She wouldn’t get play in Atlanta, Chicago, DMV and even Miami
This broad is average to below but believes she’s a 8 or 9
These delusional people need to wake the fukk up
She wouldn’t get play in Atlanta, Chicago, DMV and even Miami
This broad is average to below but believes she’s a 8 or 9
These delusional people need to wake the fukk up
DropTopDoc
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It’s not playing obtuse, and quoting Indian culture is not our culture, they also have a cast system, and one of my professors was from the upper sect and another wasn’t and that nikka ignored her like she didn’t exist, you can’t quantify who’s at the top, and If anything there’s an over correction of pushing darkskin women to the front
aXiom
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This is all that needs to be said really.
Some people need a dose of reality. Get in where you fit in.
Lane swerving just leads to accidents
daiquiridream
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Why out of all her 100s of videos is this the only one she's wearing those nerdy glasses in? Shes playing the role for this one. I don't believe her inbox is dry for one damn second.
Ciara and Lori Harvey types attract HVM because they workout, wear revealing clothes, and project sex. I know lots of women who look like Steph but (with better style) who are catered to. This one just isn't using what she's got to get what she wants lol. The dating game is very competitive and women with "pretty privilege" just know how to showcase the goodies duh
Ciara and Lori Harvey types attract HVM because they workout, wear revealing clothes, and project sex. I know lots of women who look like Steph but (with better style) who are catered to. This one just isn't using what she's got to get what she wants lol. The dating game is very competitive and women with "pretty privilege" just know how to showcase the goodies duh
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Dance_Like_A_Fiend
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My type are those preppy, valley girl looking bw. Like Tara Davis or Tika Sumpter. I'm sure they're all over Cali, but I just know it'd be an uphill battle trying to get one.
skyrunner1
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Thats life deal with it.. See countless post of women saying kill short men, eww get away from me.. Its like women wanta flat equality where everyone gets the same Top dude, its impossible to happen. What she needs to do is very easy, go to airport, look for avg dude with passport in his hand like its a golden ticket, say "hey you dont have to hop on flight, I want you and Ill be with you!" do that 10 times and Im sure she can pick one off.. The problem is she and others like her feel entitled to only the top dudes..I
I’ll be honest. Beauty is a touchy subject for women because despite what people say about having a good heart, good personality, homemaking skills, intelligence, etc, there comes a moment every little girl/woman realizes that pretty girls get treated better. Simply because they were born lucky (or worked hard on their bodies, had surgery, etc). It’s literally the luck of the draw, and it isn’t fair.
No one wants to acknowledge the fact that they aren’t conventionally attractive, and no one wants to tell their daughter or sister “well, you know you don’t look like THAT so you can’t expect this type of man or that type of man” etc. So you have girls out here thinking that they should get the fly dudes everyone wants, like the guys who are average but say “dime or nothing”.
If no one keeps it real, or if you don’t pick up the clues along the way, you start asking the world why you can’t lock down a basketball player or something when you’re a size 16 with a horrible sense of style.
My entire crew always got wined and dined so I thought it was normal. I didn’t know chicks were out here eating in strange men’s homes and having sex after eating chicken tendersI thought that shyt was a joke.
But what some don’t understand is that they are judging men the way y’all judge us. As a woman, my chief concern is how a man regards/treats me. If I bump into a fly dude who tries to play games, to me that means he thinks I’m mid/someone he wouldn’t take seriously. So I’M OUT. Some women make the mistake of thinking that because that fly dude is in their face it means he’s sincere. If the actions don’t back it up, it’s worthless.
That being said, if you actually know where you stand or are willing to put the work in, this is probably the easiest time to date. So many ppl out here with no self-awareness…
EVERY women cannot be pretty.. Thats life, you cannot socialize and shame men to treat a 4 and 10 the same. Women dont even recognize the majority of men, its funny how when they do it, its not a problem, they will laugh at those men as lame, incel, weirdo, etc. No one says anything, heck other men on here do the same thing. Cool, culturally accepted. But the problem with that is there is not enough swagged out tupacs in a suit to go around. So either share them or figure out how to make the numbers work 100% of women who all want to rank the same for same 1% of men.. Lol.. Watch how that shared flatness gets thrown out window, women compete also..
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She ain't pretty by any city standards much less LA. She needs to either lose some weight and develop an appealing personality.
Just thinking she deserve to be choose by certain men and crying about it ain't gonna cut it
Just thinking she deserve to be choose by certain men and crying about it ain't gonna cut it
What happened nextThis reminds me. A colleague of mine got divorced last year. His ex-wife said she was happy in the marriage but felt ugly because other men weren’t hitting on her/giving her attention… yes, read that line a few more times to get a sense of the insanity of this woman.
So he ended up financing her getting a boob job, a BBL etc to help boost her confidence after having two children… guess what happened next???
I’ve dated girls for their personality only for them to get mad, when I was brutally honest that I didn’t see them as that attractive physically.I
I’ll be honest. Beauty is a touchy subject for women because despite what people say about having a good heart, good personality, homemaking skills, intelligence, etc, there comes a moment every little girl/woman realizes that pretty girls get treated better. Simply because they were born lucky (or worked hard on their bodies, had surgery, etc). It’s literally the luck of the draw, and it isn’t fair.
No one wants to acknowledge the fact that they aren’t conventionally attractive, and no one wants to tell their daughter or sister “well, you know you don’t look like THAT so you can’t expect this type of man or that type of man” etc. So you have girls out here thinking that they should get the fly dudes everyone wants, like the guys who are average but say “dime or nothing”.
If no one keeps it real, or if you don’t pick up the clues along the way, you start asking the world why you can’t lock down a basketball player or something when you’re a size 16 with a horrible sense of style.
My entire crew always got wined and dined so I thought it was normal. I didn’t know chicks were out here eating in strange men’s homes and having sex after eating chicken tenders
But what some don’t understand is that they are judging men the way y’all judge us. As a woman, my chief concern is how a man regards/treats me. If I bump into a fly dude who tries to play games, to me that means he thinks I’m mid/someone he wouldn’t take seriously. So I’M OUT. Some women make the mistake of thinking that because that fly dude is in their face it means he’s sincere. If the actions don’t back it up, it’s worthless.
That being said, if you actually know where you stand or are willing to put the work in, this is probably the easiest time to date. So many ppl out here with no self-awareness…
They were legit hurt and crushed but one thing about me, is that I can be brutally honest.
With that said, now I date women that I’m 100% physically attracted too.
Yep was just about to say this. I attract all type of women but if we’re keeping it a buck. Most are 4-6. With most being 5.
A lot of them are overweight as well. Like 80%.
Bingo.
It ain’t about LA even tho that shyt is the bad bytch hub of the west.
With that said, a very large amount of these females refuse to come to terms with being either basic or mediocre. Same way most kids don’t grow up to be LeBron are a likely to be someone you see shopping at Walmart on some regular shyt.
This woman will blame the environment while she’s a species that’s not built to thrive in it. Meanwhile she’s prolly in her feelings about wanting dudes who don’t want her and uses those experiences as a blanket commentary on the state of the game.
Well, that’s life. Step you life up, step your fitness/health shyt up, don’t let anyone outwork you and hope it’s enough to stand out. But she is a 5.5 maybe and salty at the wrong things. Her family tree failed her.
Not everyone is born a 10. She looks average and if she truly has a donk, she can get some serious attention by playing up her assets, she not gonna pull no athlete or nothing, maybe a decent breh that works at Statefarm that will wife her up and treat her nice, but of course that aint enough.