Black woman living in LA laments not having “Pretty Privilege”.

[Wiseborn]

You are ABSOLUTELY correct, but men who don’t have $ sometimes think $ is everything, and women who aren’t considered conventionally attractive sometimes think life would be so much easier if every man desired them.

The truth is it makes surface level dealings and transactions easier, but it’s way harder to find someone who is truly down for you.

Which is why on the surface
rich man = beautiful woman. It’s an exchange and neither feels like they’re being taken advantage of for the stereotypical reason people chase them.

I totally forgot about this thread but she was brought up and she said she met a artsy fartsy dude at a gallery and he "jostled her insides" Then ghosted her.

That's the issue in a nutshell she knows it's possible to be piped out by a fly nikka but she's having issues locking down a fly nikka.

If Ugly gang could imtermittantly knock down baddies (they can) the whole incel movement wouldn't exist.

Women don't need no Man but Men really don't need no woman.

 

[Wiseborn]

She's not my type, but I wouldn't say she is ugly either. Like I said she would fit in great in the bible belt states. Places like Cali and Miami are filled with beautiful women. Going to be hard to eat if you are average in looks and a little portly.

She's aware of this but she prefers LA for a lot of reasons.

Again Men almost always take their campaigns on the road.

fukk a passport bro nikkas was moving to Atlanta when they heard the ratio was 7 to 1.

 

[Shadow King]

You are ABSOLUTELY correct, but men who don’t have $ sometimes think $ is everything, and women who aren’t considered conventionally attractive sometimes think life would be so much easier if every man desired them.

The truth is it makes surface level dealings and transactions easier, but it’s way harder to find someone who is truly down for you.

Which is why on the surface
rich man = beautiful woman. It’s an exchange and neither feels like they’re being taken advantage of for the stereotypical reason people chase them.

Doesn't make sense even on the surface. Their dealing with each other for the exact same as everyone else, they have enough to justify it as an exchange.

 

[Mowgli]

To many fine women

To many fine women that are nice.

 

[jwonder]

She's aware of this but she prefers LA for a lot of reasons.

Again Men almost always take their campaigns on the road.

fukk a passport bro nikkas was moving to Atlanta when they heard the ratio was 7 to 1.

Men will definitely move. I don't throw shade to Passport Bros. I'm talking about the ones that actually want wives. I definitely see why a man wouldn't want to marry a westernized woman. ATL has a lot of women, but on the real the majority are overweight. I lived there for a year for work. Coming from Miami I couldn't do it.

Women on the other hand won't move generally. They live in a fairy tale in their mind. Some guy that they "want" will just show up and they have to do absolutely nothing. It's down right retarded but hey it is what it is.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Also she’s attributing these bs to being darkskin i hate this shyt, i get it, some women have heard and seen on the internet shytty takes on darkskin women, but there is not a whole conspiring network of things working against you

A lot of dark skin people use a "victim mentality" as a proxy for sympathy woes...I'm darker shade of brown myself. There's nothing undesirable about that we're just chocolate

Simply just taking care of hygiene, appearance and being in the gym = cheat code to being more physically attractive. It's that simple

 

[Claudex]

This reminds me. A colleague of mine got divorced last year. His ex-wife said she was happy in the marriage but felt ugly because other men weren’t hitting on her/giving her attention… yes, read that line a few more times to get a sense of the insanity of this woman.

So he ended up financing her getting a boob job, a BBL etc to help boost her confidence after having two children… guess what happened next???

nikka I'm dying over here.

 

[FluffyEyes]

This reminds me. A colleague of mine got divorced last year. His ex-wife said she was happy in the marriage but felt ugly because other men weren’t hitting on her/giving her attention… yes, read that line a few more times to get a sense of the insanity of this woman.

So he ended up financing her getting a boob job, a BBL etc to help boost her confidence after having two children… guess what happened next???

Sounds like your colleague was finessed into funding her glow up. Oh and she was definitely lying about being happy in the marriage.

 

[Gloxina]

I totally forgot about this thread but she was brought up and she said she met a artsy fartsy dude at a gallery and he "jostled her insides" Then ghosted her.

That's the issue in a nutshell she knows it's possible to be piped out by a fly nikka but she's having issues locking down a fly nikka.

If Ugly gang could imtermittantly knock down baddies (they can) the whole incel movement wouldn't exist.

Women don't need no Man but Men really don't need no woman.

Completely understand, which is why the casual sex movement hurts us more than y’all.

And is why all these chicks who don’t understand that EVERYONE won’t get a fly ass dude (just like every woman isn’t a “dime”) will keep knocking their heads against the wall and getting bad results.

 

[FluffyEyes]

This woman is certainly not ugly but if her high school experiences are still as present in her mind as they seem to be from this thread, she needs to focus on therapy. I mean actual therapy with a professional, not the internet.

 

[FluffyEyes]

Completely understand, which is why the casual sex movement hurts us more than y’all.

In about 10-15 years, we'll be dissecting the "sex positivity" movement and all the fallout.

 

[BulletProof]

She's average.

She probably gets attention from guys in her league and does the same thing to them.

People really need to grow some self awareness.

If she was a man, the advice would be get over it and focus that energy on making money to level the playing field.

 

[Gloxina]

I totally forgot about this thread but she was brought up and she said she met a artsy fartsy dude at a gallery and he "jostled her insides" Then ghosted her.

That's the issue in a nutshell she knows it's possible to be piped out by a fly nikka but she's having issues locking down a fly nikka.

If Ugly gang could imtermittantly knock down baddies (they can) the whole incel movement wouldn't exist.

Women don't need no Man but Men really don't need no woman.

And this is the thing a lot of girls seem to miss for some crazy reason. Once you give it up that quick- wtf is he sticking around for? That’s insane! So you want a dude who looks good and has it together who will do you right, but you already gave it up. What’s the incentive?
That is the wildest shyt I’ve ever heard.

The whole point is to be able to walk in rooms and none of those negros can claim/prove they’ve slept with you! YOU are no longer exclusive when you share yourself so willingly. Lawd.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Women get coddled too much

She living on LA
If she was in a regular city she'd get wifed up

She want it all

It's like a regular short dude saying why these hoes don't love me?

 

[Gloxina]

Also she’s attributing these bs to being darkskin i hate this shyt, i get it, some women have heard and seen on the internet shytty takes on darkskin women, but there is not a whole conspiring network of things working against you

Yea.

It’s somewhat nuanced.

Someone on here called it “the light skin stimulus”, and that shyt is real. In our community light skin is the beauty standard. That’s why people make a big deal about “bad dark skin” chicks- they don’t expect dark skinned women to be dimes.

“With some light skinned girls/and some Kelly Rowlands” -Ye

It’s automatically assumed LS chicks will be fly.


An “average” light skinned woman is still light, so there will be men who don’t think as negatively about her looks because of her complexion. An “average” dark skinned woman is damn near invisible. And forget being unattractive.


This chick is an average dark skinned woman who will receive less attention and courtship opportunities than women who are lighter than her. Plus she’s playing it wrong if she’s still having casual sex AND talking about that shyt on social media