The point your not understanding is Black women should not be valued based on whether she has a man or not. Black women need to learn to love themselves and look within themselves for empowerment, black men have proven that they cannot do that for black women period.!
You're the only one placing value on it. You're alone. Lonely. Singular. That's not a subjective value. That's an objective fact. And you're the one who wants it that way obviously, you don't want anyone on your side, so don't complain about a man not wanting you. Shut up.
There was a time when black men would come out in droves to support black woman, but many of decided that you'd rather be independent and that you don't need no man and that black men are weak and aren't about nothing.
Man please don't associate these internet buggawolfs with real black women.
I hang out with and know a bunch of black "womanists" and they say all the time that their blackness comes before their woman hood. These chicks on here just don't realize in that trying to put black men down, they are just really painting a reflection of the quality of men they are able to hang around and their quality as women.
You know why the "feminists/womanists" I know put their race before their sex? Because they have men around them that share their interests and concerns, who understand their problems, and who work with them, so it's not a matter of "uniting" with black men, because it's already there. It's organic.
These chicks on here obviously aren't able to attract that caliber of black men so they run online to complain just like their male counterparts that I've talked about on here before too.