It's always interesting to see BLACK MEN try to define which minority status BLACK WOMEN should claim. You ninjas need to sit the fukk down.
Anyone paying attention to the world and the black community knows that black women aligning ourselves with black men hasn't done jack shyt for black women in the last FOUR-FIVE DECADES. So, while black women may typically get rolled over by white feminist the SAME is true when black women are dealing with BLACK MEN. I would equate it to a prisoner being tied to a heavy steel ball and chain....or a BURDEN...for lack of a better word. When you ninjas aren't blaming black women for your lack of ambition you can be heard blaming black women because YOU can't get over penis envy and compete for the women you desire.
This idea that black women should define themselves based on the shyt that black men are, say and do is NONSENSE. Why? Let me count the ways in which BLACK MEN put their GENDER before their RACE....
- They don't give two shyts about black women's feelings when they are sleeping with the same white feminists they claim to hate. In this instance they say shyt like, "At the end of the day I'm a man..." Just watch how these SAME ninjas clapping about non-white women dissing white feminism turn around on Wednesday and put these same white women (many of them feminist) on a pedestal during Twitter's "white girl Wednesday"....a "holiday" started by BLACK MEN.
- As much as black men bytch and complain about white men's patriarchy, they aren't really fighting against it, which is something that would benefit ALL people of color (man, woman and child). Instead they are fighting for their place in it. They have no problem regarding black women as sub-par (or the weaker sex)...just as they are regarded under white patriarchy (the weaker race of men). Their ONE and ONLY issue is the white man won't cut them a slice of his pie. It is clear that if black men ever truly gain a piece of the "White patriarchy" pie, they would have no issue continuing to regard black women as sub-par. This is a prime example of how they tend to place their GENDER before their RACE.
- When it comes to making money, black men don't give a damn about black women or the black community or anything else with the word "BLACK" before it. They have proven they will sell their souls for a dollar. This shytty ass noise known as modern day hip hop ain't shyt but the rantings of women hating, MALE first, ninjas.
- When a black woman is the victim of a crime and the criminal is a BLACK MALE you don't hear shyt from black men. In fact, if you hear anything from them at all it's usually along the lines of, "She shouldn't have put herself in that position" or "She's a snitch" for reporting fukkery that happened to her or someone like her based on gender (i.e., rape). However, these same "no snitch" minded ninjas expect black women to rally for them when they are getting their heads tossed by white men, the law etc.
fukk that!
You ninjas on this site in general ain't shyt. There are some exceptions (ex.@Born2BKing) but they are not the rule.
The day I align myself with you is the day hell freezes over. I'm not going to align myself with white women either, but I'm sure as hell not going to jump on this "Black first, women second, " bandwagon like grandma and 'em did back in the day. In my opinion that's where they
Every time black women start spouting that "Black first, women second" bullshyt they find themselves being rolled the hell over by the very people who claim to be equally as "black" first.
As far as I'm concerned, black women need to look our for themselves and each other FIRST and FOREMOST.
fukk all this bullshyt about black men. If the ninjas aren't part of my family their issues are NOT my issues. I'm just keeping it 100.
Just as black men have made it clear that black women's issues (i.e., rampant sexism, disregard for black women's right to equal protection under the law, etc) aren't their issues...I suggest black women adopt a similar attitude.
*Drops the mic*