Find a therapist black man.
I go once a month
Find a therapist black man.
Right. That’s my point. There’s many many more avenues for help, and much less adversity. People still soft as tissuePlease STFU with this BS this ain't the 60s
It's funny tho when other black men try to speak up for us
They get told to shut up
And drowned out by even some other black men
I wonder why
nikkas is just gaslighting you.i wasn't blaming black women for the rise of black men commiting suicide i was agreeing that it's noting but black man bashing on social media and that would fukk up the mind of a pre teen black boy if he seen that every time he gets on tik tok it's women that look like him bashing him the same could be said for dark skin black girls when niqqas shyt on dark skin women for likes
Just speaking for us, I think a lot of us get too caught in the fantasy world we see on tv and online. Plenty of normal black women out here that want a normal black man. Online would lead you to believe that all black women want ballers.No. You’re not. You believing it is the problem. Cause it’s not even close to true. Regular people are falling in love every single day.
All these questions about why? How about we all look in the mirror at how we look at black people who express they are going through some shyt….. We treat them like it ain’t shyt.
And then when they kill themselves we shame them and call them selfish and call them weak. So the next one surely doesn’t even want to come and talk to anyone in the first place.
White kid even mentions mental health and there’s a damn support team around him
And you know who would be included in that support team? Black people. Hell I'd argue they would be the first responders.
This is why black people need to stay away from social media. shyt truly is mental poison, especially to the youth.Just speaking for us, I think a lot of us get too caught in the fantasy world we see on tv and online. Plenty of normal black women out here that want a normal black man. Online would lead you to believe that all black women want ballers.
This is a big part of the problem. Men(especially Black men) have no interest in showing any vulnerability, and we’ve been taught by society that men that do are “soft”, “overly feminine”, and “not deserving of being a man”.
I was talking to a friend of mine a couple years ago, and he made the point that society allows girls to naturally blossom into women, there aren’t any barriers like there are for boys, boys have to earn our manhood, and throughout the rest of our lives we’re burdened with having to continuously qualify to be considered a man amongst our peers. Constant bombardment with illogical qualifiers that only get harder the more disadvantaged you are in this society, we’re cogs in the machine. No one sees us for who we truly are, but instead for how we can benefit their lives, that results in a lot of men feeling bitter, hollow, unwanted, and taken for granted. We’re in a vicious cycle that must be broken if we ever wish to be more than just a means to an end, and I think we have the collective power to change this, but first we’ll have to collectively see each other(Black/men) as well as ourselves as more than what we have been taught.
Black women do a job of affirming each other than we do.
and that Balck girl magic thing is much more real .
its always bothered me that they can get together for a yearly essensefest but we collectively as Black men arent doing similar. All we do site the wack ass Million Man March where I left there as a young man not hearing about the plan forward.
There's obviously annoying old school bullshyt about being manlyIt's funny tho when other black men try to speak up for us
They get told to shut up
And drowned out by even some other black men
I wonder why