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lol @PartyHeart thnk you but i dnt wanna offend anyone
Who did it offend
lol @PartyHeart thnk you but i dnt wanna offend anyone
alot of people say mean things about my slaying avis i usually dnt care and stuff but i'm thinkin i'm bein inconsiderate. tho people like @Lady.Libra. have always complimented them so idk.Who did it offend
This nikka @Thomas really ruined what was supposed to be a positive thread
When do those WPOTY awards come out?
Majority of AA idealolgy is rooted from their time in America and having to adapt to the enviornment. Every mention of the term patriarchy by AAs people use it synonmously with mysoginy and that is simply idotic. AAs for the most part have not even had a patriarchy socitey in America. Those that have is far and few.
alot of people say mean things about my slaying avis i usually dnt care and stuff but i'm thinkin i'm bein inconsiderate. tho people like @Lady.Libra. have always complimented them so idk.
I repeatedly gave the exact reason why I mentioned it, you're a smart man, why are you ignoring my very clear reason.
Look at the title of this article, look at the OP's comments, look at the comments directly following.
What do you see? The same regressive thinking regarding "patriarchy" as a nonissue, just because women start a business.
Misogyny and "patriarchy" don't go away because you start a business.
Don't be lazy, you're trying to do gymnastics around my statement.
ofcourse patriarchy is harmful to women, just as a matriarchy is harmful to men. The men having the economic power to oppress you is a credit to the effectiveness of the patriarchy itself. Latin America is poor as hell, but the patriarchy is effective and the men control the wealth as a result. It's not the economic power that creates the level of oppression in the patriarchy, it's the effectiveness of the patriarchy the creates the economic power for the men to dominate the women. I'm only mentioning that to any ridiculous notion that black male patriarchy would somehow be harmful to you if black men had more economic power, when that's not even important. Patriarchy doesn't need to have a lot of economic power to be effective, it just needs to keep all the economic power in the hands of the men to be effective, no matter how big or small that economic power is.So basically "yes patriarchy is harmful to women but look, "theirs" hits you with stones till your dead, rather than ours which just beats you with sticks until you're dead". That's a ridiculous starting point to begin with and I refuse to engage. And that doesn't even get into the craziness of comparing the oppressiveness of a patriarchy where the men have the economic power to carry it out as they wish and one where they don't.
Seeing as how you refused to answer my question about how women entrepreneurs is a credit to patriarchy of all things, I don't think this convo will go anywhere useful. Enjoy your thread.
Just like Thomas over speaks on issues of Africans you are also over speaking on issues of African Americans. This matriarchy shyt among African Americans is actually pretty recent. African American society used to be highly patriarchal all over the USA, which was due to the BLACK CHURCH. If you stop and think about it the Preachers and Deacons that led the churches were doing the same things that Chiefs and Religious leaders did in Africa.
Leaders in the black church and leader of a family lineage are not the same. The black church leaders are not acquiring wealth and passing it down to the members. Im talking about a family standpoint not the standpoint of a male being the leader of an institution. There was a time where true patriarchies were around in America but they were still not in large amounts. I'm not saying AAs did not have patriarchies Im saying due to the circumstanfes they faced in the Americas 1.it was not in large amounts and (or) 2. It had to be modified to adjust to the form of white supremacy they encountered being that men literally had to start from scratch while still comepete with white men on top of dealing with white men imposing laws to prevent true black patriarchy from existing. This is why people in america equate patriarchy to men beating women and women cant leave the kitchen and crap like that.
That is an overstatement. You are speaking with so much conviction on this subject, that I am truly surprised that you don't know the power that Black Churches once had in this Country and how entirely patriarchal they were. They were truly male dominated institutions and they controlled much of the lives of Black people in America. The Black Churches did not develop because of White men they developed despite White men; because as you well know White men were firebombing and burning down Black Churches; and/or killing the Preachers.
You are looking at crap post Civil Rights era and thinking that it is the way that it was always for Black people; but you are wrong. I am not just some nikka on the internet who read a book and is telling you this shyt. I lived it. Black Churches, which were led by Black men, helped set up everything from Historically Black Colleges and Universities; to Banks and Savings and Loans; to Black business. Black Churches led the Civil Rights struggle. They were even power brokers politically and were instrumental in the election of Black and White candidates, because they are the main reason that Black people got political and government jobs and they are they are the main reason that Black people vote as a bloc politically. Didn't you ever wonder why Black and White candidates always run up in the Black church looking for political endorsements?
When I was a kid let me tell you what many Black Americans hardly ever saw: never married single mothers; women preachers; drug dealers and/or drug users just standing outside; and many of the other current social ills that currently impact African Americans. Now that sounds like stuff that African Chiefs and Religious leaders do.
1888: Capital Savings Bank - Partnership for Progress
http://www.cnn.com/2010/OPINION/08/01/soaries.black.church/
Echoes of Faith: Church Roots Run Deep Among HBCUs
Now the Black Churches did go off the rails, because the White politicians learned that they could just buy off Pastors, Preachers and Deacons; rather than killing them like they did with Dr. King and Medgar Evers. Once the White politicians bought off the Black Churches then we saw the resulting disintegration of Black families and the rise of Black feminism. That is why we are here.
this only applies to mentally handicap feministsMajority of AA idealolgy is rooted from their time in America and having to adapt to the enviornment. Every mention of the term patriarchy by AAs people use it synonmously with mysoginy and that is simply idotic. AAs for the most part have not even had a patriarchy socitey in America. Those that have is far and few.
The black church is a community institution. It has nothing to do with the concept of Patriarchy in relation to family and passing down of wealth. The black church can have many patriachs (and matriarchs) represented in the institutiom sure, but the black church is not a patriarch. You do not have to be a chief to be a patriarch, this is coming from someone who is the grandson of a Chief. The black church operated as a meeting ground for blacks to strategize. I agree that the pastor of a church is easentially the "chief" of that local community but once again a chief isn't a patriach because there have always been female chiefs too.
The Black Church did not operate as a meeting ground for Blacks to develop strategy. It grew in to that out of necessity. If you go back and look at the Civil Rights era many Black Churches balked at the whole notion of using the church for that purpose. That is why the NAACP and the other Black organizations worked separately from the Churches early on in the struggle.
We can agree to disagree. However, African Americans were extremely patriarchal before the Civil Rights Era. Like I said I lived it. Very few people in this younger generation knows anything about it, because they did not grow up in it.
My point still stands that due to white supramacy blacks for the most part do not know what patriarchy is nor did they come up in a true patriarchy. The ones that do were limited in number because white supremacy forcefully ensured blacks could not have access to resources to compete and build something that could even be passed down.