Black Feminist Explains Why She Dates White Men (Sound Logic?)

[Bawon Samedi]

LOL. It is not about Italians.

I will answer your question with a question: do you think that White men irrational hatred for Black men is based upon anything other than what White men have heard from White women about what White women like? Why else would freaky ass White men be cutting off Black men penises during lynchings? Why else would White men be going around conducting alleged scientific studies to determine the size of the penises and of course the Kinsey report verified what White women had heard about African American men? Why else White women be getting sun tans; collagen injections in their lips; fake butts? C'mon man the White man feels inadequate next to Black men and the White man knows that the White woman finds Black men attractive. Take an informal poll and ask you friends if they have ever been hit on by White women?

XAVIER JAMES UNCENSORED: Why did they cut off the Black man's genitals?
Science: Women Prefer Larger Penises

I'm not denying anything in this post but a FETISH is a FETISH its not true love. Just wanting sex is NOT true love...

Can you show me a statistics of white women preference?

And yes tall dark and handsome was meant for dark haired Europeans like Italians.

 

[Blackout]

They look just like their women dog. In general people who get together going to be about the same in the looks department taking money out of the equation. Which it is since most people going to run with people in a similar socio economic status. None of y'all see "dimes" fukking with clown dudes in looks in any consistent basis.

nikka plz

They got mexican "dimes" choosing to date short or fat mexicans.

I see this shyt everyday.

 

[Yup]

Yeah sure black men are not on the top list of white women desires, but we at least admit it. Sure black men who only date white women has severe self-hate issues, but most other times its true love and the black man actually likes his non-black partner and the relationship seems natural/organic. With black women and white men it doesnt seem organic or natural, it just seems the black women is trying to prove a point like, "LOOKS AT MEEEEZZZZ! Iz GOTZ ma a WHITE KNIGHT! SEE!? SEE!?"

Oh please...are you with these black women and their non black partners to know what is legit or not? It's these justifications that I can't stand. And actually, a lot of posters think that non black women secretly crave them and that black women need to accept that they are not the only women in this world.

To this, I say black men are not the only men in this world either. No more, no less.

 

[Aceofspades404]

I think you (and all black women for that matter) should be Womanists. It makes waaaaaay more sense

black feminism is womanism

I don't agree with black feminism because I see the problem as a black person first. With Black feminism is that it empathizes on women issues, a black feminist will embrace overall womanhood instead of focusing on black issues first, White women don't care about black women, Chinese women, Indian women, etc. Don't care about Black women, the Black women's only ally is the Black man, same as the Black man, his only ally is the Black woman, so Feminism is pointless because you're black first before you're a woman and that is proven, when a black man and black women conceive a child it's proven the child is black of course, then later on we find out the sex. A pro black person is for the betterment for their people as a whole first as opposed to black feminism which focuses on the women aspect, a black women can be for their sisters without being a feminist, same as black men who stick up for their women, doesn't make them a feminist.

but black feminism doesn't align with just regular feminism, that is why it was it was invented in the first place, we just say black feminism as opposed to womanism bc the term is more popular. Also there is a intersectionality that exists for black women that makes it impossible to only look through a black lens.Just like your experiences are from a black male perspective, it cannot be thorough a black female perspective. I think it is required of womanists to fight white supremacy bc without the racial aspect, we would not need to fight white supremacy and I think it's very plausible to do since I do.

 

[Yup]

Then what is tall, dark and handsome about? Then why do White women travel to Africa and to the Caribbean to meet Black men for sex? I would be surprised if there is any Black man in the USA that has not been hit upon by at least one White women.

Tall dark and handsome refers to dark europeans not african descent men.
So what is your point that white women prefer black men over white men?

 

[Gifted one]

black feminism is womanism


but black feminism doesn't align with just regular feminism, that is why it was it was invented in the first place, we just say black feminism as opposed to womanism bc the term is more popular. Also there is a intersectionality that exists for black women that makes it impossible to only look through a black lens.Just like your experiences are from a black male perspective, it cannot be thorough a black female perspective. I think it is required of womanists to fight white supremacy bc without the racial aspect, we would not need to fight white supremacy and I think it's very plausible to do since I do.

Still disagree with it, you're dividing the battle when it should be us together fighting white supremacy, not some "womanist" rhetoric, that is setting oneself up for failure.

 

[Samori Toure]

Tall dark and handsome refers to dark europeans not african descent men.
So what is your point that white women prefer black men over white men?

Bullshyt. All the damn dark Europeans were of African descent. The Sicilians were Black. Why do you think that Carthage lay claim to Sicily.

 

[BlackMajik]

black feminism is womanism


but black feminism doesn't align with just regular feminism, that is why it was it was invented in the first place, we just say black feminism as opposed to womanism bc the term is more popular. Also there is a intersectionality that exists for black women that makes it impossible to only look through a black lens.Just like your experiences are from a black male perspective, it cannot be thorough a black female perspective. I think it is required of womanists to fight white supremacy bc without the racial aspect, we would not need to fight white supremacy and I think it's very plausible to do since I do.

Oh really

While feminism can be alienating to minorities, womanism allows black women to affirm and celebrate their color and culture in a way that feminism does not.[2] In the words of theorists such as Clenora Hudson-Weems and Alicia Boisnier, Black women struggle to identify with traditional feminism, because they do not identify with the issues that feminism typically advocates.[3] Alternatively, Delores Williams, a womanist theologian, associates womanism with the traditions and activism formed from the conditions, events, meanings and values within the African- American community. Williams further asserts that the task of the Womanist theologian is to embody activism by seeking out the voices of the unheard and the experiences of the neglected. She identifies the distinct difference between the experiences of the black woman and the white woman that makes it difficult to identify with feminism. One of the key components of feminism is to end a woman's subjugation to her male counterpart, yet there are other oppressive forces that black women face that takes precedence over the perceived subjugation of the black woman by the black man

Clenora Hudson-Weems

Clenora Hudson-Weems is credited with coining the term Africana Womanism. In 1995, the publication of her book, Africana Womanism: Reclaiming Ourselves sent shockwaves through the Black nationalism community and established her as an independent thinker.[12] rejects feminism as the theology of Africana women, that is to say women of the African diaspora, because it is philosophically rooted in Eurocentric ideals.[6] She further asserts that it is impossible to incorporate the cultural perspectives of African women into the feminism ideal due to the history of slavery and racism in America. A large part of her work mirrors separatist Black Nationalist discourse, because of the focus on the collective rather than the individual as the forefront of her ideology. Weems refutes Africana womanism as an addendum to feminism, and asserts that her ideology differs from Black feminism, Walker's womanism, and African womanism

 

[Aceofspades404]

If black feminism is about trying to get non black men to accept you or treat you equal than its a losing battle.

I'd understand if it was a movement to improve relations between black men and women but trying to change the mind of non black men is impossible right now because we only got ourselves.

I see what you are saying but allow me to play devil's advocate. If trying to change the mind's of non black men (since they decide society) why are we fighting against racism. so by your logic, its ok for the black race to accept their lower tier status and try to do nothing about that?
Yes we can improve relations between black men and women but is that gonna deter white supremacy?

 

[Bawon Samedi]

Oh please...are you with these black women and their non black partners to know what is legit or not? It's these justifications that I can't stand. And actually, a lot of posters think that non black women secretly crave them and that black women need to accept that they are not the only women in this world.

To this, I say black men are not the only men in this world either. No more, no less.

1. I don't think non-black women secretly crave black men.
2. I may not be with these black women and their not black partners, but I can tell that it doesn't seem natural by the way those black women act. Using their white partner as some political agenda. We see it MANY TIME on social media.
3. Who the heck said black men are the only men on earth????

Listen hun, KidStranglehold doesnt care of you like white men. Go ahead and date as many Ian Somerhalder look a likes as much as you want. I may get a lot of negs for this but I find white men dating black women argues against the idea that black women are the least attractive group. But just stop dating white men as using them was a "proving point" that you don't, "need a black man".

 

[Poitier]

Still disagree with it, you're dividing the battle when it should be us together fighting white supremacy, not some "womanist" rhetoric, that is setting oneself up for failure.

Your suppose to coalition build, not balkanize yet I get on Twitter and its BW talking about BW 24/7

 

[Kitsch]

Still disagree with it, you're dividing the battle when it should be us together fighting white supremacy, not some "womanist" rhetoric, that is setting oneself up for failure.

I agree with her but at the same token, most of the Black Feminists aren't talking about economics. Which should be the priority.

 

[Yup]

Bullshyt. All the damn dark Europeans were of African descent. The Sicilians were Black. Why do you think that Carthage lay claim to Sicily.

Sicilians are black

 

[Samori Toure]

I'm not denying anything in this post but a FETISH is a FETISH its not true love. Just wanting sex is NOT true love...

Can you show me a statistics of white women preference?

And yes tall dark and handsome was meant for dark haired Europeans like Italians.

For the last time. The Sicilians were mixed with Black Africans. You should know that, because you seem to have a grasp on history. Not only that but the Moors bought White women all the time for the harems. White women know what they were saying.

 

[Kitsch]

Your suppose to coalition build, not balkanize yet I get on Twitter and its BW talking about BW 24/7

I followed a few of the big names for a while and that's pretty much all they did.