Black Feminist Explains Why She Dates White Men (Sound Logic?)

[Poitier]

I've noticed how you never hear black women with white men complain about white male privilege. That's because they now benefit from it. Their mate is the one who has the unfair advantage and they're not gonna say anything against it.

 

[BlackMajik]

I understood your point, its just your decision to view black feminism as a bad thing is what I disagree with.

I think you (and all black women for that matter) should be Womanists. It makes waaaaaay more sense

 

[Gifted one]

I understood your point, its just your decision to view black feminism as a bad thing is what I disagree with.

I don't agree with black feminism because I see the problem as a black person first. With Black feminism is that it empathizes on women issues, a black feminist will embrace overall womanhood instead of focusing on black issues first, White women don't care about black women, Chinese women, Indian women, etc. Don't care about Black women, the Black women's only ally is the Black man, same as the Black man, his only ally is the Black woman, so Feminism is pointless because you're black first before you're a woman and that is proven, when a black man and black women conceive a child it's proven the child is black of course, then later on we find out the sex. A pro black person is for the betterment for their people as a whole first as opposed to black feminism which focuses on the women aspect, a black women can be for their sisters without being a feminist, same as black men who stick up for their women, doesn't make them a feminist.

 

[philmonroe]

Your probably right about that actually


Once you hit a certain level of wealth, your ass won't be trying to rock the boat.

I don't think its about rocking the boat more than it is naturally stuff just changes unless your an activist. Most people on here get major fukk you money they not going to be posting on here and I bet they mentions of whites holding them down, etc will be limited. That's just nature for the majority of people that make it.

You also probably have a big ego because you are of a higher class and education level than most of your own people.

Yeah you will probably have an ego but that's also normal if your the deal at any thing for most. They might not be as blatant as a Mayweather type but that's almost bound to happen. Hell look at cats on here people do it on a smaller scale imagine if dudes actually had that shyt to back it up something major?

 

[Aceofspades404]

Black Feminist*





From whom? Surely not Black men.

I do not care if white men do not find me attractive. The problem I do have is when the superior black genes God has given me to become the best athlete in my sport has reduced to articles lambasting my physique and saying a look like a man while an old wrinkled up cac decides to put on a dress and wig and is labeled as beautiful and heralded as courageous. That is disrespect and it should not be tolerated. you think it's okay for society to make a mockery out of serena and flotus bc they are not our men and we shouldn't care what they think? you are a trip.

 

[Poitier]

you think it's okay for society to make a mockery out of serena and flotus bc they are not our men and we shouldn't care what they think?

Yes

 

[Blackout]

I understood your point, its just your decision to view black feminism as a bad thing is what I disagree with.

If black feminism is about trying to get non black men to accept you or treat you equal than its a losing battle.

I'd understand if it was a movement to improve relations between black men and women but trying to change the mind of non black men is impossible right now because we only got ourselves.

 

[philmonroe]

Either they were not good looking or popular enough for her aka a nerd.

Many of our people tend to have ridiculous standards while other races do not which will effect our population rate negatively.

You should start a circuit for romanticism of other races and what they do. Ole they don't do things like us ass nikkas . Keep telling y'all everybody is the same for the most part they not unicorns in these other racial groups.

 

[Queen]

Black men can change nothing in THIS society.

That is a really pathetic answer. Black men are to be leaders, not weak little cowards whining and complaining. Complaining about white men and being spiteful towards black women is a pathetic attitude to have. Grow some balls.

You know what black men can change...you can stop dissing black women and start calling out the men who do. Some of you do this already, but your voices aren't loud enough. It's not enough of you. Black women are making a lot of noise about constantly being disrespected and we shouldn't have to. Men should be leading that.

Black men can stop sitting around gossiping about black women's hairstyle choices and start building some businesses.

Black men can stop jacking off to the oppressor in a skirt, and start encouraging other men to leave that alone. Stop sleeping with the enemy and thinking you are really doing something productive.

Black men can stop excusing whoredom because they are "men" and start encouraging men to be responsible for the families they create.

That would change a whole lot about society. And I'm not even done yet.

Black men can accept some personal responsibility and stop adding fuel to the flames of gender wars. This is actually Biblical. This is in the Bible that black women would turn to forbidden men only because the men did it first. I will find the reference later.

As for what black women can do, that's not the subject so save it, and accept some responsibility this round. Man up. Be a leader. Encourage your women and they won't fall for this oppressor/savior BS.

 

[Blackout]

You should start a circuit for romanticism of other races and what they do. Ole they don't do things like us ass nikkas . Keep telling y'all everybody is the same for the most part they not unicorns in these other racial groups.

They are not like us lol.

While our people are stressing height and weight: Mexican women for example are still going with short and fat Mexican men by majority.

 

[Poitier]

That is a really pathetic answer. Black men are to be leaders, not weak little cowards whining and complaining. Complaining about white men and being spiteful towards black women is a pathetic attitude to have. Grow some balls.

You know what black men can change...you can stop dissing black women and start calling out the men who do. Some of you do this already, but your voices aren't loud enough. It's not enough of you. Black women are making a lot of noise about constantly being disrespected and we shouldn't have to. Men should be leading that.

Black men can stop sitting around gossiping about black women's hairstyle choices and start building some businesses.

Black men can stop jacking off to the oppressor in a skirt, and start encouraging other men to leave that alone. Stop sleeping with the enemy and thinking you are really doing something productive.

Black men can stop excusing whoredom because they are "men" and start encouraging men to be responsible for the families they create.

That would change a whole lot about society. And I'm not even done yet.

Black men can accept some personal responsibility and stop adding fuel to the flames of gender wars. This is actually Biblical. This is in the Bible that black women would turn to forbidden men only because the men did it first. I will find the reference later.

As for what black women can do, that's not the subject so save it, and accept some responsibility this round. Man up. Be a leader. Encourage your women and they won't fall for this oppressor/savior BS.

All this goes back to economics. We don't control that.

 

[philmonroe]

They are not like us.

Mexican women for example are still going with short and fat Mexican males,

They look just like their women dog. In general people who get together going to be about the same in the looks department taking money out of the equation. Which it is since most people going to run with people in a similar socio economic status. None of y'all see "dimes" fukking with clown dudes in looks in any consistent basis.

 

[Yup]

But why all the grand generalizations though? The basic definition of feminism is the advocacy of womens' rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men. Let's say these black women that you know mentor and guide low income black girls in high school (like myself), they are practicing feminism. You not liking the nazi's of the group doesn't change that.
Black girls who grow up in poverty not only face racial barriers but also many hardships due to their sex. A black girl growing up in poverty more than likely has no one to turn to and without proper guidance ends of a statistic. These countless girls are victims of sexual abuse and human trafficking that often times result in low appreciation of self. They turn to the street nikkas and dope boys for love and security who just treat them like cum dumpsters and next thing you know you have an out of wedlock baby starting the cycle all over again. The father more than likely will be part of the system well before the age of 18 which will then perpetuate a life of unemployment and the woman will become your welfare queen baby momma. This vicious domino effect is part of the reason we as a race are so low politically, socially, and economically.
So when I decide to take on a group of women to teach them about black pride and respectability, to make sure they are meeting their graduation requirements, to have them engage in self-esteem activities, to help them cope with childhood trauma, to take them shopping for clothes that is presentable, to help them with their resumes and job searches, to engage them and teach them how to become leaders in the community, I am not only bettering black women, I am practicing black feminism.
The only people who have a problem with this are people who refuse to look at the true concept of black feminism and would rather look at the extremists and crazys as scapegoats. I am nothing like those keyboard activists but I unfortunately have to constantly walk in fear of retaliation and mockery from black men bc I choose to identify myself as a black feminist.
It is not okay to generalize all black men so why is it okay in this case?

Amen

 

[Bawon Samedi]

I also tend to notice that this extremist black feminist/natural hair women are big manga/anime fans. I like anime too, but we know that outside of Asians manga/anime fans are majority white and who do these white weeaboo men chase after or desire to be with? Asian women, like the ones in the mangas. Those white manga fans never give black female manga fans a second look. And because of this I believe this is where some of the insecurity comes from.

Also I'm starting to really believe like many(I mean I already have really) that sadly those natural hair sistas are not for pro-blackness but to date a white man... I never see these type of black women, the ones we call "hoodrats" chasing after white men or begging to be with a white man...

Meanwhile I sure as hell see alot of these black women desperately trying to get with white men.

And I mean ALOT...

PS: I like posting pictures because our brain focuses on them and we get a better idea...

 

[Samori Toure]

I heard thats meant for Italians. Do you seriously think black men are more desired by white women than their own white men???

And the second red bolded is the most pathetic example ever. Yeah become a sex fetish brehs. Similar to how the slave master had "jungle fever" for the black female slave...

LOL. It is not about Italians.

I will answer your question with a question: do you think that White men irrational hatred for Black men is based upon anything other than what White men have heard from White women about what White women like? Why else would freaky ass White men be cutting off Black men penises during lynchings? Why else would White men be going around conducting alleged scientific studies to determine the size of the penises and of course the Kinsey report verified what White women had heard about African American men? Why else White women be getting sun tans; collagen injections in their lips; fake butts? C'mon man the White man feels inadequate next to Black men and the White man knows that the White woman finds Black men attractive. Take an informal poll and ask you friends if they have ever been hit on by White women?

XAVIER JAMES UNCENSORED: Why did they cut off the Black man's genitals?
Science: Women Prefer Larger Penises