Black Feminist Explains Why She Dates White Men (Sound Logic?)

[Bawon Samedi]

Yeah sure black men are not on the top list of white women desires, but we at least admit it. Sure black men who only date white women has severe self-hate issues, but most other times its true love and the black man actually likes his non-black partner and the relationship seems natural/organic. With black women and white men it doesnt seem organic or natural, it just seems the black women is trying to prove a point like, "LOOKS AT MEEEEZZZZ! Iz GOTZ ma a WHITE KNIGHT! SEE!? SEE!?"

 

[Aceofspades404]

Who are they fighting to be accepted by?

ummmm maybe society?

 

[Poitier]

society

aka White men since they decide "society"

 

[Aceofspades404]

Yeah sure black men are not on the top list of white women desires, but we at least admit it. Sure black men who only date white women has severe self-hate issues, but most other times its true love and the black man actually likes his non-black partner and the relationship seems natural/organic. With black women and white men it doesnt seem organic or natural, it just seems the black women is trying to prove a point like, "LOOKS AT MEEEEZZZZ! Iz GOTZ ma a WHITE KNIGHT! SEE!? SEE!?"

dude just stop. c00ns and self haters exist on both sides just like there are bm and bw who are in genuine ir relationships. These oppression olympics have got to stop.

 

[Samori Toure]

Yeah sure black men are not on the top list of white women desires, but we at least admit it. Sure black men who only date white women has severe self-hate issues, but most other times its true love and the black man actually likes his non-black partner and the relationship seems natural/organic. With black women and white men it doesnt seem organic or natural, it just seems the black women is trying to prove a point like, "LOOKS AT MEEEEZZZZ! Iz GOTZ ma a WHITE KNIGHT! SEE!? SEE!?"

Then what is tall, dark and handsome about? Then why do White women travel to Africa and to the Caribbean to meet Black men for sex? I would be surprised if there is any Black man in the USA that has not been hit upon by at least one White women.

 

[Bawon Samedi]

Then what is tall, dark and handsome about? Then why do White women travel to Africa and to the Caribbean to meet Black men for sex? I would be surprised if there is any Black man in the USA that has not been hit upon by at least one White women.

I heard thats meant for Italians. Do you seriously think black men are more desired by white women than their own white men???

And the second red bolded is the most pathetic example ever. Yeah become a sex fetish brehs. Similar to how the slave master had "jungle fever" for the black female slave...

 

[Bawon Samedi]

dude just stop. c00ns and self haters exist on both sides just like there are bm and bw who are in genuine ir relationships. These oppression olympics have got to stop.

When did I say there weren't???

 

[The_Truth]

Heard all this shyt before already.

 

[Aceofspades404]

aka White men since they decide "society"

idk why you choose to be so obtuse. I read your responses in @Elle Driver 's thread and it's very sad how you think black women just want the "white man" to find us beautiful. Maybe just maybe, all we want is respect. Is that so hard to understand?

 

[Gifted one]

But why all the grand generalizations though? The basic definition of feminism is the advocacy of womens' rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men. Let's say these black women that you know mentor and guide low income black girls in high school (like myself), they are practicing feminism. You not liking the nazi's of the group doesn't change that.
Black girls who grow up in poverty not only face racial barriers but also many hardships due to their sex. A black girl growing up in poverty more than likely has no one to turn to and without proper guidance ends of a statistic. These countless girls are victims of sexual abuse and human trafficking that often times result in low appreciation of self. They turn to the street nikkas and dope boys for love and security who just treat them like cum dumpsters and next thing you know you have an out of wedlock baby starting the cycle all over again. The father more than likely will be part of the system well before the age of 18 which will then perpetuate a life of unemployment and the woman will become your welfare queen baby momma. This vicious domino effect is part of the reason we as a race are so low politically, socially, and economically.
So when I decide to take on a group of women to teach them about black pride and respectability, to make sure they are meeting their graduation requirements, to have them engage in self-esteem activities, to help them cope with childhood trauma, to take them shopping for clothes that is presentable, to help them with their resumes and job searches, to engage them and teach them how to become leaders in the community, I am not only bettering black women, I am practicing black feminism.
The only people who have a problem with this are people who refuse to look at the true concept of black feminism and would rather look at the extremists and crazys as scapegoats. I am nothing like those keyboard activists but I unfortunately have to constantly walk in fear of retaliation and mockery from black men bc I choose to identify myself as a black feminist.
It is not okay to generalize all black men so why is it okay in this case?

I respect everything you're saying, but you're kinda missing the point, the thread is about the woman on social media, everything you're mentioning prior I know and understand, I have black female family members and friends who have went through the hardship you talking about. But again, the youtube/Twitter Feminist for the most part is usually putting in work online as opposed to offline, not generalizing when I've stated before that there is a plethora of women in the black community putting in work, I've even said before that the next great black leader will be a black woman.

 

[Queen]

aka White men since they decide "society"

Aka black men, who are impacted by this society. This reflects in their thoughts, ideas, and actions as it pertains to relationships with black women.

Black women don't have to look to white men to be told that they are undesirable in a variety of ways. And I stand by my assertion that most black women are not attracted to white men.

 

[Poitier]

how you think black women just want the "white man" to find us beautiful.

Black Feminist*

Maybe just maybe, all we want is respect. Is that so hard to understand?

From whom? Surely not Black men.

 

[Poitier]

Aka black men, who are impacted by this society. This reflects in their thoughts, ideas, and actions as it pertains to relationships with black women.

Black women don't have to look to white men to be told that they are undesirable in a variety of ways. And I stand by my assertion that most black women are not attracted to white men.

Black men can change nothing in THIS society.

 

[Aceofspades404]

I respect everything you're saying, but you're kinda missing the point, the thread is about the woman on social media, everything you're mentioning prior I know and understand, I have black female family members and friends who have went through the hardship you talking about. But again, the youtube/Twitter Feminist for the most part is usually putting in work online as opposed to offline, not generalizing when I've stated before that there is a plethora of women in the black community putting in work, I've even said before that the next great black leader will be a black woman.

I understood your point, its just your decision to view black feminism as a bad thing is what I disagree with.

 

[The_Truth]

If this isn't the truth...

I've long maintained that a growing percentage of black women have no interest in combating white supremacy and instead wish to displace white women as the standard of beauty within the white supremacist society.

I've noticed how you never hear black women with white men complain about white male privilege. That's because they now benefit from it. Their mate is the one who has the unfair advantage and they're not gonna say anything against it.