Black Feminist Explains Why She Dates White Men (Sound Logic?)

[Blackout]

I see what you are saying but allow me to play devil's advocate. If trying to change the mind's of non black men (since they decide society) why are we fighting against racism. so by your logic, its ok for the black race to accept their lower tier status and try to do nothing about that?
Yes we can improve relations between black men and women but is that gonna deter white supremacy?

Im not saying that you shoudlnt fight against racism. Im just saying that your method has been proven not to work.

By supporting black businesses or creating them and putting our money into black media then we have a way better solution than begging non black people to accept us.

 

[Yup]

1. I don't think non-black women secretly crave black men.
2. I may not be with these black women and their not black partners, but I can tell that it doesn't seem natural by the way those black women act. Using their white partner as some political agenda. We see it MANY TIME on social media.
3. Who the heck said black men are the only men on earth????

Listen hun, KidStranglehold doesnt care of you like white men. Go ahead and date as many Ian Somerhalder look a likes as much as you want. I may get a lot of negs for this but I find white men dating black women argues against the idea that black women are the least attractive group. But just stop dating white men as using them was a "proving point" that you don't, "need a black man".

I don't date or prefer white men. Black women in the western world increasingly cannot rely on black men for marriage.

Where I do agree is black women like black men need to drop the problack label.

 

[BaggerofTea]

Odds are that if I was not wearing the freshest Luis Vatton or Gucci ole girl wouldn't even spit in my direction on the street


And she is beautiful too

 

[Bawon Samedi]

For the last time. The Sicilians were mixed with Black Africans. You should know that, because you seem to have a grasp on history. Not only that but the Moors bought White women all the time for the harems. White women know what they were saying.

Now we're bringing up the whole mixed thing now? Sicilians are only 10% African at best. Even so must SO it still did NOT mean FULL PHENOTYPE BLACK....

And using sex slaves as an example is another bad example. Come on breh... Do you like being a fetish?

 

[Poitier]

I followed a few of the big names for a while and that's pretty much all they did.

Its all about ego. Who cares what gender is "leading" Black movements?

On one hand they pat themselves on the back for #BlcakLivesMatter and #YouOkSis but blame Black men when asked about tangible results

 

[Bawon Samedi]

I don't date or prefer white men. Black women in the western world increasingly cannot rely on black men for marriage.

If you feel that way then date/marry out. Simple.

Stop complaining about black men.

Where I do agree is black women like black men need to drop the problack label.

Why do black women who date black men have to stop being pro-black??? Or was that a type?

 

[Yup]

On a positive note....I have found a black sensuality blog. It's very sweet....because it focus on the intersection of sex and healthy relationship for black couples.

 

[Yup]

If you feel that way then date/marry out. Simple.

Stop complaining about black men.



Why do black women who date black men have to stop being pro-black??? Or was that a type?

Cause marrying other is not conducive to pro blackness.

 

[Aceofspades404]

Oh really

I was speaking from my point of view. most people on here don't even care to dissect the definition of feminism so why even bother with other terms. The majority of black women I know who identify as womanist just use the black feminist label bc it is more popular. But yea going by definition, I am a womanist but sometimes I use both terms interchangeably.

 

[The_Truth]

Oh right so all these black men who lived in the most racist time of us modern history wereally pro black. Interesting ,explains the aftermath of the civil rights movement and why it lost steam. I've alwayseen suspected that black men at the ti,e (with a few exceptions ) were not trying to build a black community but wanTed to sit at the american table as whites and frolic with white women without bring killed for it.

Well...yeah. The goal of the CRM was integration into white society. That includes interracial relationships. Not every Black person at the time was pro-integration, though.

And stop putting all this IR shyt on black men. There were plenty of black women at the time who wanted to marry their white lovers. Let's not forget that the couple that struck down anti-miscegenation laws was between a black woman and white man.

 

[Poitier]

Black women in the western world increasingly cannot rely on black men for marriage.

And economics has nothing to do with it?


Black men are inherently unreliable, huh?

 

[Samori Toure]

Sicilians are black

You are possibly the dumbest person in this thread. It shows that you know zero about Sicily. Hell the Sicilians even know that they are descended from Black people. How do you make a stupid comment and not know a basic fact about a group of people? Sicilians even get Sickle Cell Anemia.

Sicilians have 10% sub-Saharan African DNA

Sicilians, blacks, Italians - memories of race
Sickle cell disease in Sicily.

 

[Yup]

If you feel that way then date/marry out. Simple.

Stop complaining about black men.


Why do black women who date black men have to stop being pro-black??? Or was that a type?

It's not a matter of feeling that way. It's the reality. If black women ate solely seeking out black men...rhey are in for a wakeup call.

 

[Bawon Samedi]

Cause marrying other is not conducive to pro blackness.

But you said black men are not fit for marrying...

Seriously what is your agenda? Are you even African-American? And when I mean by AA I mean having pre-Jim Crow family roots in the south.

 

[Yup]

And economics has nothing to do with it?


Black men are inherently unreliable, huh?

Economics are not...doesn't change what I said. Women aren't men they can't wait around forever. And if we go on with your logic....things will never change since this is a white supremacist society.

Black people still got to live and those women who want to settle down and want to have families will need to do with like minded men. Sone will be black and others won't be.