Black Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay reveals she’s engaged (8/7/17 update: He's a cac)

[Gloxina]

@Gloxina

Do you agree with this assessment?

I think she’s lowkey saying “Oops, my bad. It seems White dudes ain’t where it’s at” without literally saying it. Like the brehs who get burned by Becky and all of a sudden start checking for Black women again

 

[Gloxina]

That's low key worse again I don't watch the show but it appeared that the white chick who got with the Buck Batchelor was basically a ex cheerleader with some random junior management job.

Racheal wasn't a high powered attorney and she was a junior junior attorney at the firm but her fam was aspiring boule types so she should've never went on the show she did say she was heavily pursuded by some friends and show producers telling her that she could help Black woman's image.

That's why she was siad was schocked to learn all the Black Men picked for her season was confrimed bucks and they even threw in an obvious racist who played like her was interested in her till he let the racism slip out.

She said it wasn't until the other Black chick felt "forced" to pick a cac and the debacle with the Buck that made her realize shyt was a scam from jump.

I guess she liked the guy meaning Peter but she fukked... She said the show is flimed in near real time so it's not like she dated the dudes for months before she said it I assumed that the overnight dates was scams and the whole show is a set up.

Come to find out on all the shows when they spend the night that almost always fukk. As a Man I could maybe see taking easy lay ups but damn fukking on a staged overnight date is close to porn for me. They don't flim what happens in the room per se but on the european shows they do.

Even on African Big Brother they flimed shower scenes and bed scenes so if someone fukked they caught it and showed it.

They know the cameras are right there I don't understand why they did it. I wouldn't have done it


The reason why I asked you to chime in is because when I worked at the strip club there was no real interview or audition basically ID's were taken and they were sent out there they weren't even explictly told about the VIP rooms they let the other dancers tell them nine times out of ten a home girl or relative who danced brought them so there was no need to explain. Obviously that meant they knew what was up but I surprised by the randomness of the women there were a bunch of Brenda got a Baby types but there were a lot of middle class college girls dancing

One chick told me why she danced at underground clubs she said if someone saw her there they wouldn't say nothing because if they knew why she was there she also knew why they were there. This wasn't a regular strip club with signs you had to know where it was.

I mean…some women just make stupid decisions.

If a chick is dancing and getting naked at a strip club, you think selling sex is going to be that far off? And I mean that as NO disrespect. I just don’t think it’s a big of a jump as you seem to be making it. If you’ve made it to the strip club you are already ok with advertising.

 

[Gloxina]

That's low key worse again I don't watch the show but it appeared that the white chick who got with the Buck Batchelor was basically a ex cheerleader with some random junior management job.

Racheal wasn't a high powered attorney and she was a junior junior attorney at the firm but her fam was aspiring boule types so she should've never went on the show she did say she was heavily pursuded by some friends and show producers telling her that she could help Black woman's image.

That's why she was siad was schocked to learn all the Black Men picked for her season was confrimed bucks and they even threw in an obvious racist who played like her was interested in her till he let the racism slip out.

She said it wasn't until the other Black chick felt "forced" to pick a cac and the debacle with the Buck that made her realize shyt was a scam from jump.

I guess she liked the guy meaning Peter but she fukked... She said the show is flimed in near real time so it's not like she dated the dudes for months before she said it I assumed that the overnight dates was scams and the whole show is a set up.

Come to find out on all the shows when they spend the night that almost always fukk. As a Man I could maybe see taking easy lay ups but damn fukking on a staged overnight date is close to porn for me. They don't flim what happens in the room per se but on the european shows they do.

Even on African Big Brother they flimed shower scenes and bed scenes so if someone fukked they caught it and showed it.

They know the cameras are right there I don't understand why they did it. I wouldn't have done it


The reason why I asked you to chime in is because when I worked at the strip club there was no real interview or audition basically ID's were taken and they were sent out there they weren't even explictly told about the VIP rooms they let the other dancers tell them nine times out of ten a home girl or relative who danced brought them so there was no need to explain. Obviously that meant they knew what was up but I surprised by the randomness of the women there were a bunch of Brenda got a Baby types but there were a lot of middle class college girls dancing

One chick told me why she danced at underground clubs she said if someone saw her there they wouldn't say nothing because if they knew why she was there she also knew why they were there. This wasn't a regular strip club with signs you had to know where it was.

Again- there is a certain type of personality who is ok with reality tv.


Who TF in their right mind thinks they are going to find a spouse on a tv show? And has sex ON SET with random men/women picked by producers for a tv show?


There is no way to rationalize any of this, which is why I’m having a hard time answering your questions.

These are stupid, shortsighted decisions— UNLESS YOUR GOAL IS FAME.


It seems like the ends justified the means for Rachel (in Hollywood, successful podcast, etc). It also seems like her hubby would’ve stayed if she wasn’t hellbent on getting into Hollywood

 

[Marc Spector]

It's not that they all want athletes or thugs but it seems many prioritize physical attributes and "swag" over character and integrity. Even Black women who are professional matchmakers have said this.

Why Is It So Hard For Black Women to Find The Love They Deserve? | Essence

Why Is It So Hard For Black Women to Find The Love They Deserve?

www.essence.com

WE ASKED TWO BLACK WOMEN HELPING OTHER SISTERS FIND LOVE WHAT'S REALLY GOING ON WITH THE DATING SCENE.

ESSENCE.COM: Do you feel Black women and men are too particular when it comes to potential dating candidates?

FISHER: We found that as opposed to the White clients that we’ve had, Black women are usually looking for physical attributes first. We look for someone who is attractive to us and then we pick up on his hobbies, interests and values. Whereas, White clients are looking for the reverse first. What kind of job does he have? Is he going to be able to provide? Then they circle back.

GILMORE: We’re the first ones to look at men’s bodies and how attractive they are whereas our White clients have a long list of requirements of things like character and integrity…

FISHER: …and, then down the line, it backfires for us because you were never a compatible mix to start with.

ESSENCE.COM: Do Black women have realistic dating pool expectations?

GILMORE: We have clients that have a long laundry list of requirements—6 foot 4, with a Ph.D., never been married, no children, in his late 30s or early 40s—and a lot of times we then ask them, well, what are you bringing to the table? And, the answer is nowhere near all that. Why would you expect someone to have more than what you’re offering?


Brehettes, do you agree with this assessment? @Gloxina

been saying this for years. non structured men as i call them, get the best looking women in our community.

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/no-...s-the-term-educated-lame.896911/post-44816957

 

[Wiseborn]

Again- there is a certain type of personality who is ok with reality tv.


Who TF in their right mind thinks they are going to find a spouse on a tv show? And has sex ON SET with random men/women picked by producers for a tv show?


There is no way to rationalize any of this, which is why I’m having a hard time answering your questions.

These are stupid, shortsighted decisions— UNLESS YOUR GOAL IS FAME.


It seems like the ends justified the means for Rachel (in Hollywood, successful podcast, etc). It also seems like her hubby would’ve stayed if she wasn’t hellbent on getting into Hollywood

This is a good answer even her husband basically said she went Hollywood on him. She's in the mix now.

I remember my ex being obsessed with Love is Blind and I really assumed it was a scam because I just couldn't beleive the premise of the show and some of the Black pilled people posted chicks before they met the guy saying Please be attractive.. and they usually bushed the guy if he wasn't up to par and you could tell in the first glance.

It was almost like they made the show too red pilled like the show Take me out


That show was fake as some girls were told to pick certain dudes and not pick others.

But Love is Blind appearently had a few marraiges out of the show which is wild to me.

You'd have to be a wierdo to go on one of these shows in any capacity.

 

[Wiseborn]

I mean…some women just make stupid decisions.

If a chick is dancing and getting naked at a strip club, you think selling sex is going to be that far off? And I mean that as NO disrespect. I just don’t think it’s a big of a jump as you seem to be making it. If you’ve made it to the strip club you are already ok with advertising.

Man the strippers on reddit make a hard destiction on so called ëxtras clubs". and technically an ëxtras club" is different than a Underground club in the sense an extras club is a public club where the management looks the other way when they get down in the VIP room an Underground club is a private club

I guess the issue is even though I worked there I'm still low key amazed because you couldn't say it was only girls who "had no options" The only thing they had in common was they were cool with it that's why I called it having Hoe Bones.
I will say that to the chicks who danced they also didn't see a distiction between dancing and selling trout.

 

[Wiseborn]

To address the wench tendencies I got tore up in the last thread but when I that Black women like white dudes this is what I mean. Rachel and the chick from Love is Blind preferred Black Men in the same way that nikkas like @Busted_Toes prefer Black women they prefer them but that doesn't mean that they won't fukk with a Toubob

Couple that will Black people generally beleiving that white ice cubes are colder like Candance Owens college droup out ass saying that Black Men's IQ levels wasnt high enough for her to deal with That's low key how many Black women feel the vast majority of Black Men just ain't good enough to deal with and he has to have either super star looks, Money or clout to justify fukking with them the long way.

They also beleive that white guys has some secret clout, intelligence or money despite presenting as a bottom shelf Brad.

As a Black Man I understand that there's a risk that a fly white chick takes by openly dealing with Black Men so theres some by in in the sense they're 'bringing castigation from their community for dealing with any Brother seriously and in the open, Maybe Black women feel the same way even though I can't imagine white bytches bushing Brad because he fukked Keisha back in the day.

 

[Wiseborn]

I think she’s lowkey saying “Oops, my bad. It seems White dudes ain’t where it’s at” without literally saying it. Like the brehs who get burned by Becky and all of a sudden start checking for Black women again

That's exactly what she's saying. All her money and clout is received from the Black community white people don't know or care who she is.

Being the first Black Batchelorette was a big deal to brehettes only.

 

[Wiseborn]

39 next month

tick tock

she's right on the Ebony Williams timeline probably making somewhere around 10K a month too rich for almost any non celeb breh even multimillion dollar lawyers and doctors. so it's either find a stupid young baller or actor on the come up to have a opps semen donation or go pay 40K and get 16 shots to get some white sperm from some bottom shelf brad.

 

[MikelArteta]

ind a stupid young baller

 

[perfectblack999]

Does your wife know why Rachel's husband filed for divorce?

We have no idea but I’m sure the next time she comes thru she’ll tell us

 

[Voice of Reason]

So Rachel is one of my wife’s friends. They’re both lawyers. She’s not a wench. She’s just a regular black chick who applied to a show and became somewhat famous. No surprise she’s coming back home.

 

[Problematic Pat]

Ehhhhh. I never got "bed wench" vibes from her. There's a difference between black folks who happen to date white and the ones who do it looking to assimilate into whiteness. You can tell the difference.

Man she was over compensating with all the pro Black talk on that Podcast she's on. shyt she even got y'all nikkaz fooled.

 

[OG Talk]

Has she leaned the error of her ways and is committed to evolving to that Russell Wilson life?



She needs further supervision...

 

[Problematic Pat]

It’s a very low class move and common sense would tell you not to go on a show like that.

However, if someone was going to do it, it’s good it was an educated woman who wasn’t an embarrassment.

You just contradicted yourself.