What I see with a good number of millennial black women is overcorrecting on the consumer side to prove a point. Alot of the black community saw their parents/grandparents live poor/working class lives. Now I see women getting getting education and higher income just to splurge it on vacations, luxury vehicles, spending $2000+ a month to rent in the most desireable area. Acting like student loans, car payments, and Visa/Mastercard/Amex won't come to collect. Throw a baby in the picture in your 30's as a single mother and that high income you worked for won't do anything for your wealth. It's the same at the "$30k millionaire" sloagan back in the 2000's.
And pointing to what
@RamsayBolton mentioned most black men aren't much better off so I'm not trying to frame it like that. I see alot of manosphere losers get mad at BW for buying a home before getting married or got their rocks off at bw talking about how their escrow/home insurance increased this year.
However I also see this narrative where black men are expected to pay all the bills in marriage if it comes to that, while the woman gets to keep all of her money or choose not to work at all because housework/childrearing is two Full-Time jobs
But the man also needs to work a low-stress job with flexibility so he can be emotionally available at any given time and have the availibility to drop everything to travel on the womans schedule
Someone tell me this is "just online not real life" because 50/50 conversations and everything on Social Media isn't morphing into real time