He knocked up a Chinese bytch and apparently get 0 love in his own city. I'll be that.
Japanese, not Chinese, two different cultures...
He knocked up a Chinese bytch and apparently get 0 love in his own city. I'll be that.
This.Because Legal Marriage is idiotic in 2024.
And THAT is what makes you a good manI was in a situation like this before. Good woman. Was down for me. There was zero reason to not marry her—we matched on everything. Except I still had trauma to deal with, not enough experiences under my belt, and a lot of immaturity to filter out. I kept getting tempted to cheat and had lots of opportunities. I never did but I came way too close too many times and rather than actually cheating on her I very painfully decided to leave out of respect. She ended up finding a good man that loves her and got married. But at least I got to walk away with the respect between us still intact, even though I devastated her when I left.
Appreciate it.And THAT is what makes you a good man
Because people have unprotected sex and that’s not dependent on this marriage construct your holding is such high regard.I don't understand the thought process of choosing to make a woman a "baby mama" when you know she doesn't meet the requirements to be your wife
Then why waste his seed on her then.He ain’t feeling her like that, but the problems she has presented aren’t quite enough for him to completely move on quite yet.
I knew my wife was the one within a few months even though we dated nearly 2 years before we got engaged and married shortly later.
If you’re apprehensive after years and years, she isn’t the one just move on and focus on yourself.
Well my first choice is for them to be married, but like i said I don't hold out hope for the institution, so I also would tell them along with the other thing I mentioned, that they would find men that wouldn't leave them stranded even if the relationship wouldn't work out.So if you had (or have) daughters, you would be cool with them risking their lives giving birth to a child by a dude not willing to commit to them?
Not referring to cases where birth control fails.Because people have unprotected sex and that’s not dependent on this marriage construct your holding is such high regard.
I had the exact same thought when I went through the comments in the this threadY’all are in here admitting why a lot of women stay unmarried into their 40s. In other threads, it’s all “they chose the wrong men, or something is wrong with them”, when in reality, a lot of men will string women along for years, hoping he will marry her, and he doesn’t. Then, she’s expected to leave a man she’s in love with, and just go find someone else. It’s hard meeting people you are attracted to, and compatible with.
Men will have a good woman, and use her as a placeholder waiting for someone he really wants to marry, or never want marriage at all, but not admit it to keep her around.