Big Sean Juelzing Like a Coli Breh when Asked Why He Had Baby with Jhene but Didn't Marry Her.

[Gloxina]

Seems like the only way the mindset will change on a community-wide scale in America is if there's a massive economic depression where Black people are literally forced to have strong families and community to survive. And the most dysfunctional who refuse to get it together die out.

You are % right

 

[Gloxina]

This is a fairly new phenomenon to current culture and not really something older generations are putting people on game to because they don’t understand it and haven’t experienced it. This is a completely anecdotal opinion, but people aren’t seeking relationships the way they did in prior generations, so no one can really put anybody on game to the current dating scene. My parents generation was expected to marry before having kids and was the first generation of divorces, my generation was also expected to marry but people weren’t getting married because of kids like they used to. They had kids, may or may not end up married to the people they had kids with, but eventually end up married to someone.

This generation seems that it can give or take not just marriages, but relationships in general. People are having kids with people they aren’t even in relationships with and/or people they are in a very tenuous relationships with (like Jhene and Sean). There’s also people in their early to mid 20s who’ve never been in a relationship at all.

“Teaching women better” in this age is looking more like if you can’t find anyone serious, that you’re also interested in, then you may just not be with anyone and may have to be single for a long time. Young men and women also tie a lot of their social value and self esteem to being appreciated and successful with the opposite sex. So it's difficult to not enjoy company with the opposite sex. Everyone seems a bit too caught up in appearance and sex, which is another dynamic causing difficulty. Again, this is a bit anecdotal and from what I see and hear.

Great points! Totally agree

 

[lib123]

I've seen coli threads where people are flexing their 2 parent upbringing; how the great colleges they went to; and the now 6figure IT Jobs they have.

There was a lot of posters doing that.


I swear these people are trolling; if not its a shame to be so "smart" but be so ignorant.


I'm not a coli detective but I wouldn't be surprised if its the same posters shooting bail.

What’s ignorant about promoting two-parent married households?

 

[Apollo Creed]

The correct answer.

The day Men accept this and give up the fairy tale, the game and laws will change. But because dudes keep jumping off the cliff for a fairy tale chicks unfit for marriage plus the legal system will continue to profit lol

 

[timeless]

She'd be wise to pick up her self esteem and leave him. Totally not worth wasting time on.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Mafukkas really in here discussing this shyt. You mafukkas don't know shyt about either 1 of the couple in any detail to be making these fukking post.


Y'all don't know shyt but posting like the chick some pure queen that deserves more and shyt.

The coli stay on some green sucka shyt.

 

[MrLogic]

Some of us remember exactly what was going on, homie was damn near being stalked, shorty threatening to harm herself. But im not trying to advocate for nobody

Then he really stupid for seeding her up
keeping it
mfer is stupid

 

[Afro]

She'd be wise to pick up her self esteem and leave him. Totally not worth wasting time on.

They need to leave each other alone. This is a case where they both waste each other's time.

She was in a whole ass marriage and still messing with dude. Sean was in his own relationship still messing with chic.
They need to walk away and block each other

EDIT: Forgot these chucklefukks have a kid together. NVM it's over. Whoever gets into a relationship with them is gonna have baggage to deal with.

 

[Gloxina]

They need to leave each other alone. This is a case where they both waste each other's time.

She was in a whole ass marriage and still messing with dude. Sean was in his own relationship still messing with chic.
They need to walk away and block each other

EDIT: Forgot these chucklefukks have a kid together. NVM it's over. Whoever gets into a relationship with them is gonna have baggage to deal with.

They are both irresponsible people and it’s a damn shame. They’re celebs and have money so the kids will have financial stability, but this is honestly emblematic of pattens that are repeated in our community. Why TF are they having kids if they aren’t solid enough for marriage lmao The shyt makes no sense

 

[born of fire]

its very embarrassing when this situations plays out. how is marriage a bigger commitment than bring a person into this world?

 

[born of fire]

There is really no need for millionaires to get married just because they had kids. Them children still going to want for nothing growing up.

Bunch of starving kids with two parents in the home that would happily trade places with a kid who gets to live in two mansions growing up.

money doesnt stop the emotional issues that stem from an unhappy household/negative upbringing. it can amplify them if anything.

 

[Luke Cage]

money doesnt stop the emotional issues that stem from an unhappy household/negative upbringing. it can amplify them if anything.

Not being Married does not equal Unhappy/Negative household.
Its just a government contract that allows you to be taxed differently, literally

 

[born of fire]

Not being Married does not equal Unhappy/Negative household.
Its just a government contract that allows you to be taxed differently, literally

this gov talk is lame to me. is the gov not involved when it comes to child support? they'll be involved either way.

 

[Luke Cage]

this gov talk is lame to me. is the gov not involved when it comes to child support? they'll be involved either way.

Government is only as involved as you want them to be. Couples (former or current) are free to co-parent without some third party mediator if they want.
And plenty do.

 

[born of fire]

Government is only as involved as you want them to be. Couples (former or current) are free to co-parent without some third party mediator if they want.
And plenty do.

idk what fantasy land youre living in but even when the man is obligated to pay child support a lot of the times they will attempt to dodge payments, lower them to almost nothing, avoid seeing their children, etc. countless stories from all walks of life with people who've said their fathers have done this.

so i dont expect all of these people who dont have the gov involved are just happily walking around perfect coparenting. cause if shyt goes sour and that man leaves, the woman is shyt out of luck. she has zero recourse. its incredibly irresponsible for any woman to not get the court involved if she's not married to the man she had a child with.