Big Sean Juelzing Like a Coli Breh when Asked Why He Had Baby with Jhene but Didn't Marry Her.

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Its like any other addiction or habit really. Its like saying an alchoholic/drug addict should leave thier family because they want to drink. No my plan is to go cold turkey and do right by family. If I happen to stumble and find myself in an alley with a crack pipe. Despite my stumble,im going to pick myself back up. Go back home and try to do right by my family again.
I wouldn’t want to deal with any type of addict (sex, drugs, alcohol). Lying and addiction go hand in hand. Addicts are also very selfish, which is what you are describing here. Yes you should leave if it’s that hard to not cheat. Be honest about who you are and your need to have sex with various people. And go be with people who want to live the way you do instead of wasting someone else’s time. And most importantly, don’t create a “family” if you can’t or don’t want to truly be a “family” and be 100% down with the woman you claim to love.
 

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I’m saying to just LEAVE in general. I’m not talking about Sean.


Y’all don’t want to get married because you still want to sleep with other women, but you have your woman sitting there holding on for marriage while you continue weighing the options to cheat. Just leave her alone and let her find someone else.
Many people would prefer to cheat on their girlfriends instead of their wives that’s why they won’t marry them because they might not consider it as adultery.

Yeah and also a lot of dudes want to maintain access and prevent her from getting involved with other dudes. That’s also why they don’t walk away.
 

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I wouldn’t want to deal with any type of addict (sex, drugs, alcohol). Lying and addiction go hand in hand. Addicts are also very selfish, which is what you are describing here. Yes you should leave if it’s that hard to not cheat. Be honest about who you are and your need to have sex with various people. And go be with people who want to live the way you do instead of wasting someone else’s time. And most importantly, don’t create a “family” if you can’t or don’t want to truly be a “family” and be 100% down with the woman you claim to love.


Once an addict always an addict. I think most people who know they need to have sex with alot of people do in fact stay single. Men who are in relationships are typically in that recovering addict phase. You dont PLAN on doing drugs,but doesnt mean you wont.

These are the stages of a mans nature#MansNature. So essentially you are telling men to either stay single until they have a very low libido at around 30 or 40. And to never even try to be disciplined enough to maintain a family.


Men are literally asked to go to war with our nature on a daily basis. All because we live in a zoo created by the European. A good woman will give you grace,and uses her wisdom to know who deserves grace and who doesnt.


Message to the youth Dont stop pushing fellas,dont let them convince you your an "animal". We are animals,not in the derogatory sense. Give the lion in the zoo credit for not eating the zoo keeper. I love you enough to fight my nature on a daily basis. Ask women to not seek attention or be emotional and see how they fair. Women will never understand the cross men bear,because we have enough grace not to ask them to bear one:respect:
 

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Being married or not doesn't mean mom and dad will or won't be there
There are happily married couples who are absent in their kids lives or abusive. and there are also happily divorced couples co-parenting their kids just fine.
a marriage certificate doesn't make you a good parent, or ensure your child has a good upbringing.

Some people win the lottery, it doesn't mean that scratch offs are a good investment strategy.

Being married greatly increases the likelihood of a child having more advantages, being more healthy physically and mentally, being better educated, and being better performers at life. Statistical and census data back this.
 

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It bothers me less when rich people do it but I still feel like in general you shouldnt have a baby with someone you wouldnt marry

stack up as many positive factors as you can before you introduce a whole ass human into the world. marriage is one of those... but i suppose money can mitigate the loss of that a bit.

Facts
 

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Some people win the lottery, it doesn't mean that scratch offs are a good investment strategy.

Being married greatly increases the likelihood of a child having more advantages, being more healthy physically and mentally, being better educated, and being better performers at life. Statistical and census data back this.

I think the disconnect is unfortunately a lot of Black people didn’t grow up in two-parent married households or at a minimum see successful married two-parent households growing up.
 

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Facts. I’m young but I have the mentality that if I get married (I won’t have kids out of wedlock), marriage is a good test run for 1-2 years to really see how compatible you are living with another woman while married before having children. I’d much rather get divorced after 2-3 years with no child than have a child out of wedlock and forced to co-parent.

facts this why i don't have any kids yet.

plus i want to be able to see my kids everyday opposed only seeing them on the weekends or the summer
 
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