Big Sean Juelzing Like a Coli Breh when Asked Why He Had Baby with Jhene but Didn't Marry Her.

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I wouldn’t want to deal with any type of addict (sex, drugs, alcohol). Lying and addiction go hand in hand. Addicts are also very selfish, which is what you are describing here. Yes you should leave if it’s that hard to not cheat. Be honest about who you are and your need to have sex with various people. And go be with people who want to live the way you do instead of wasting someone else’s time. And most importantly, don’t create a “family” if you can’t or don’t want to truly be a “family” and be 100% down with the woman you claim to love.


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A good woman will give you grace,and uses her wisdom to know who deserves grace and who doesnt.
A wise woman avoids men who can’t fully commit altogether. What you’re describing is how the community gets saddled with a bunch of Black children born to quasi families in different households, and how a lot of Black women end up ‘married’ to the government to make ends meet. A person who lacks discipline and self control is never a good husband or father ( or wife or mother) because he puts himself first.
 

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More or less more so. And if I don't let you know. Then I won't be for real. I could be wrong but I feel. Like something could be going on but it’s your thing do what you want to do I won’t tell you but I won’t waste my time trying to figure out that’s it’s seven o’clock I’m in my drop top cruising these streets cause your a good girl and you know it …










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If we're keeping it buck, most black men are not marriage minded hence why the out-of-wedlock and single parent household rates are so high. We're usually more comfortable creating baby mamas than wives.


power simp babble.



But you are probably right.
 
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I was in a situation like this before. Good woman. Was down for me. There was zero reason to not marry her—we matched on everything. Except I still had trauma to deal with, not enough experiences under my belt, and a lot of immaturity to filter out. I kept getting tempted to cheat and had lots of opportunities. I never did but I came way too close too many times and rather than actually cheating on her I very painfully decided to leave out of respect. She ended up finding a good man that loves her and got married. But at least I got to walk away with the respect between us still intact, even though I devastated her when I left.
The hurt of you leaving her is nowhere near the hurt of humiliation from being cheated on.

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Y’all are in here admitting why a lot of women stay unmarried into their 40s. In other threads, it’s all “they chose the wrong men, or something is wrong with them”, when in reality, a lot of men will string women along for years, hoping he will marry her, and he doesn’t. Then, she’s expected to leave a man she’s in love with, and just go find someone else. It’s hard meeting people you are attracted to, and compatible with.

Men will have a good woman, and use her as a placeholder waiting for someone he really wants to marry, or never want marriage at all, but not admit it to keep her around.
 

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Y’all are in here admitting why a lot of women stay unmarried into their 40s. In other threads, it’s all “they chose the wrong men, or something is wrong with them”, when in reality, a lot of men will string women along for years, hoping he will marry her, and he doesn’t. Then, she’s expected to leave a man she’s in love with, and just go find someone else. It’s hard meeting people you are attracted to, and compatible with.

Men will have a good woman, and use her as a placeholder waiting for someone he really wants to marry, or never want marriage at all, but not admit it to keep her around.


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Well unless you find or create an inner circle of your own or until certain laws change or gets tweaked, yeah. Can't recommend someone do something I wouldn't.

As for my daughters, either you find a man with goals and discipline to build each other up or be ok with sharing, cause that's how the world's about to become. :yeshrug:

So if you had (or have) daughters, you would be cool with them risking their lives giving birth to a child by a dude not willing to commit to them?
 
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Breh you heard him speak cmon son.

stop shooting this herb bail for no reason.


u know he's a clown.

Yeah watching it again even the way he responded was wack. It would've been more honorable for him to say something like "Yeah we're working towards marriage, but first I'm working out some personal issues so I'm the best version of myself before making that type of commitment. I came from a divorced household and wanna make sure we have a solid foundation so we don't repeat the cycle."
 
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