UpAndComing
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Both you and I do not know him personally
I am not going to get on the "bash the bad Black man" train alot of people on social media go on. You can ride that train by yourself
Big Sean Juelzing Like a Coli Breh when Asked Why He Had Baby with Jhene but Didn't Marry Her.
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Both you and I do not know him personally
I am not going to get on the "bash the bad Black man" train alot of people on social media go on. You can ride that train by yourself
He knocked up a Chinese bytch and apparently get 0 love in his own city. I'll be that.
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Big Sean sounds like a lot of y'all.
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I had a child with my woman,loved her. But that doesnt mean you dont want to still leave it open to having your cake,while possibly eating to too if something comes up.
Plus some of us respect vows so much,and love our women so much, That we dont want to get married knowing we are likely to fail her
The belief is it would hurt her more,and probably be more embarrassing/insulting if I cheat on her as my wife. Cheating while boyfriend and girlfriend is less egregious. This may sound like a silly way of thinking. But this genuinely was my thought proccess. And I still believe its very valid and cant be dismissed.
When you marry a woman you are essentially giving her closure and finality. Which is why its more devestating when you betray her/him in that state. A woman can feel that closure without you marrying her based on your words/actions/commitment level also. But marriage is you cosigning there feeling of security definitively.
Its best to leave your woman with doubt if you are unsure you can do right by her for the long haul. When you are sure,leave your woman with zero doubts based on your actions matching your words. You dont need a certificate,but for many thats their "proof". You can grant her the proof,or keep working until your word is enough. If your word isnt enough,theres probably a reason
Plus some of us respect vows so much,and love our women so much, That we dont want to get married knowing we are likely to fail her
The belief is it would hurt her more,and probably be more embarrassing/insulting if I cheat on her as my wife. Cheating while boyfriend and girlfriend is less egregious. This may sound like a silly way of thinking. But this genuinely was my thought proccess. And I still believe its very valid and cant be dismissed.
When you marry a woman you are essentially giving her closure and finality. Which is why its more devestating when you betray her/him in that state. A woman can feel that closure without you marrying her based on your words/actions/commitment level also. But marriage is you cosigning there feeling of security definitively.
Its best to leave your woman with doubt if you are unsure you can do right by her for the long haul. When you are sure,leave your woman with zero doubts based on your actions matching your words. You dont need a certificate,but for many thats their "proof". You can grant her the proof,or keep working until your word is enough. If your word isnt enough,theres probably a reason
Good enough to bust in not enough to trust in
Caught a 18 year case but ducked the vows “just in case”
All reasons why shouldn’t have let this happen smhA man will do anything for a woman he truly loves......thats what marriage is. Men know how much marriage means to women and give them that as their ultimate gift because they want them to be happy.
He waiting for the woman he truly loves to come into his life .....just because you look nice that don't make you nice to be around
In that case just LEAVE the relationship!I had a child with my woman,loved her. But that doesnt mean you dont want to still leave it open to having your cake,while possibly eating to too if something comes up.
Plus some of us respect vows so much,and love our women so much, That we dont want to get married knowing we are likely to fail her
The belief is it would hurt her more,and probably be more embarrassing/insulting if I cheat on her as my wife. Cheating while boyfriend and girlfriend is less egregious. This may sound like a silly way of thinking. But this genuinely was my thought proccess. And I still believe its very valid and cant be dismissed.
When you marry a woman you are essentially giving her closure and finality. Which is why its more devestating when you betray her/him in that state. A woman can feel that closure without you marrying her based on your words/actions/commitment level also. But marriage is you cosigning there feeling of security definitively.
Its best to leave your woman with doubt if you are unsure you can do right by her for the long haul. When you are sure,leave your woman with zero doubts based on your actions matching your words. You dont need a certificate,but for many thats their "proof". You can grant her the proof,or keep working until your word is enough. If your word isnt enough,theres probably a reason
She looks even dumber being a forever girlfriend getting cheated on
In that case just LEAVE the relationship!
She looks even dumber being a forever girlfriend getting cheated on
We can not confirm or deny he is cheating. But if you still feel capable of cheating,why marry and hurt your woman more? Its best to not make promises and to keep expectations tempered. Sure cheating is bad,but being a liar,cheater,and cheating as a married man? Almost impossible to overcome that and double back. What hope is really left after you complete this trifecta
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I blame her song, p*ssy Fairy.
It's because her hippy ass doesn't shower often. She tried to clear it up in an interview later saying it was a joke but iykyk
She even had the nerve to say she doesn't get musky...her nose is probably numb to the stench
She even had the nerve to say she doesn't get musky...her nose is probably numb to the stench
I’m saying to just LEAVE in general. I’m not talking about Sean.We can not confirm or deny he is cheating. But if you still feel capable of cheating,why marry and hurt your woman more? Its best to not make promises and to keep expectations tempered. Sure cheating is bad,but being a liar,cheater,and cheating as a married man? Almost impossible to overcome that and double back. What hope is really left after you complete this trifecta
Y’all don’t want to get married because you still want to sleep with other women, but you have your woman sitting there holding on for marriage while you continue weighing the options to cheat. Just leave her alone and let her find someone else.
I believe wanting to cheat,and knowing you are still capable are two different things. Even when I didnt want to cheat I knew i was capable. Why let her leave when my plan is not to cheat?
Its like any other addiction or habit really. Its like saying an alchoholic/drug addict should leave thier family because they want to drink. No my plan is to go cold turkey and do right by family. If I happen to stumble and find myself in an alley with a crack pipe. Despite my stumble,im going to pick myself back up. Go back home and try to do right by my family again.
Eventually you may be like me and get to the point where you 100% dont feel capable of cheating/smoking crack. Even knowing that,im wise enough to know my history. So I go out of my way,and even take detours to avoid crack alleys. Be strong fellas,dont give up on your families or your women you love. Unless your not really going to put the effort in,and are actively trying to cheat constantly. Thats not honest or fair to your woman
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Many people would prefer to cheat on their girlfriends instead of their wives that’s why they won’t marry them because they might not consider it as adultery.
I was in a situation like this before. Good woman. Was down for me. There was zero reason to not marry her—we matched on everything. Except I still had trauma to deal with, not enough experiences under my belt, and a lot of immaturity to filter out. I kept getting tempted to cheat and had lots of opportunities. I never did but I came way too close too many times and rather than actually cheating on her I very painfully decided to leave out of respect. She ended up finding a good man that loves her and got married. But at least I got to walk away with the respect between us still intact, even though I devastated her when I left.