bourgeoisie tall freak
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she seems to be doing alright not only raising kids and but also making a living for dozens if not hundreds of people. a lot more than random people online can say for themselves
Big Sean Juelzing Like a Coli Breh when Asked Why He Had Baby with Jhene but Didn't Marry Her.
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she seems to be doing alright not only raising kids and but also making a living for dozens if not hundreds of people. a lot more than random people online can say for themselves
she seems to be doing alright not only raising kids and but also making a living for dozens if not hundreds of people. a lot more than random people online can say for themselves
You're free to have your own perspective and opinion. Enjoy your night!
bourgeoisie tall freak
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i know. toodles!
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I’m glad it’s out there. A lot of women bump into dudes with this mentality, and they don’t say this stuff to you off the rip. You have dudes in this thread advocating for staying with your girl and just not marrying her if you still think you’ll cheat. So basically, have a woman waiting in limbo while you possibly slide up in other women without feeling guilty since you aren’t married.Embarrassing
This is the mentality a lot of young women have to combat out here.
“Long story short and I say this as a young black man that’s in a relationship and has no children at this time, nikkas need to practice discipline and stop impregnating women without the long term commitment of making them a wife first. It’s ridiculous to essentially say, I’ll put baby in you that will then require me to maintain communication with you for the rest of our life (a long term commitment), but I won’t marry you (a long term commitment). We need to stop handling grown men and women with kid gloves that are making these poor decisions and crying about the results of the bad decision they made. So if you’re a single man who doesn’t have any children, power to you and make the woman that you want to carry your children your wife first. If you have children, do the best you can with the circumstances you created and stop complaining and crying about those circumstances you created. End of discussion. Joe went through it with his first child’s mother and has documented it, but still went back and had another baby out of wedlock. Ish’s eldest daughter is around 9-10 I believe which means he was a fully grown man who was in just late 30s when he made the decision to impregnate the woman he was in a relationship, so if anybody should’ve known better, it should’ve been him at the time he had his first child. And then proceeded to turn around and have another child out of wedlock after going through what he went through and is continuing to go through with his first child’s mother. Ice at 40 years of age willingly signed up to be a single parent and take on the responsibility of raising another man’s kids in addition to his one child. Only person that had decent enough sense and deserves more credit is Flip if we being real. He was a teenager when he had his first child and had enough sense to correct that by making his child’s mother a wife before having two more kids. Flip may play foolish and nonsensical, but he got sense.”
Good to know there are smart young men who can call out the BS.
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Didn’t he propose to Naya Rivera/was engaged?
I’m glad it’s out there. A lot of women bump into dudes with this mentality, and they don’t say this stuff to you off the rip. You have dudes in this thread advocating for staying with your girl and just not marrying her if you still think you’ll cheat. So basically, have a woman waiting in limbo while you possibly slide up in other women without feeling guilty since you aren’t married.
This is the mentality a lot of young women have to combat out here.
Yeah and what makes it even more wild is most of the guys saying this grew up without a consistent male presence. You would think they would want to give their children what they never had.
On an IG post about a similar topic a couple months back, a woman who works as a nurse commented that a lot of older Black men are dying alone in healthcare facilities without any family visiting them. I’m sure many of them have children and didn’t build the best relationships with them. The older men I know who had all their children and stayed married to their wives are constantly surrounded and supported by their children.
Yep!
Men like this continue the cycle.
Women have to be more careful, for sure, but you’re dealing with men who think like this. No matter what happens in a relationship, there’s a certain segment of our men who will never pursue marriage but will have no issue getting emotionally involved and impregnating them.
Honestly theres a lot of dirty Macks out there.
The problem is this happens to a lot of really young women.
They don't know no better.
I don't have daughters but if I did I'd put them on birth control and tell them not to get off until they're married.
Lol regardless of who's president if we have a broken family structure we're still gonna be losing.