The sad thing is not their behaviour but your response to it. You don't know what the fukk to do. You panic, lose composure, start talking about concessions (this is suicide) and wallow in false outrage and self-pity.
It's hard to believe that this, among all other issues, is the thing that most gets under your skin and buries you. Do you guys have balls? It's clear you have dikks; you think with them. But do you have any balls? This is truly sad.
It's like I'm a father watching his sons failing at being. How can one fail to be what they already are? You are black men. No, no one gives a fukk about you, but you. There is no sympathy to be gained or way to morally guilt anyone for sake of you. If you are inadequate you will disappear, and that's a good thing. Embrace it. What's the outrage here? Bedwenching? Read a book, black women have always bedwenched. Women are whores, black women are whores:
"well, not my mother"
Yes your mother too!
You have no women, there is no such thing as "our women" when you are concerned because women are property and your currency buys pretty little. They don't belong to you. That's not offensive, it's fact. Most other groups could take "your women" any day if they really wanted. That's not the first nor second nor third thing that should bother you and boil your blood. What should boil you blood is that other men have you by the balls, that they control and dominate you, that men in your own tribe contribute heavily to your destruction, that your army is in shambles fighting against itself because it's indiscipline and you don't have the will or wisdom to command it. What should really boil your blood is that you are getting fukked so bad many of you are thinking about running away like a bunch of worthless cowards. What should really boil your blood is that you are destined to a life of misery poverty and shame and so are your sons until that you stop existing; and unless you change that day will come.
So here is what you do. You start problem solving and you start performing better; measure you performance and improve it. Not for the sake of black women, no one gives a fukk about black women or white women or anyone with a vagina. For your own sake and will. Start performing better and assemble men of your own tribe with a common purpose, use those human resources and build upon. For yourself. Dump that gynocentric world view "we need to do better for our women" bullshyt and do better for yourself first. Sure, take care of the women who are truly under you and are of use to you. But in regards to education, economics, food production/distribution, and warfare start producing specific metrics and improve performance in those areas. Keep women out or at least at the margins of your movements. Start killing the problematic cultures in your own communities (gang culture, trap culture, fakkit culture, flashing, in short nikka shyt). Be uncompromising when it comes to black masculinity.
"well absalom you ain't saying much that's all very vague"
Yes, it's up to you to muster the will and flesh out the details you c*nts!