Beating Your Kids Means You Have The Slave Mentality Instilled In You (We Need NEW Techniques FOLKS)

Mowgli

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are you aware that as children we also experienced parenting on the receiving end and can use said experiences to determine what was effective?


or were you too busy being an elitist to consider this point?
I have a kid and I'm a parent 7 days a week. I understand an aspect of life you are completely ignorant to right now. When you think like a child still you have your thoughts but when you see parenting on the other side you realize certain truths. Spanking is right. Abuse is wrong. :banderas: you will realize this if you can get past whoever DDTd the shyt outta you for spilling kool-aid on the carpet
 

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Then come to reality and realize black kids will always grow up fucced up and violent :yeshrug:
Come to the reality and realize most black people grow up violent because they don't have loving fathers being fathers 7 days a week to condition their temperment. We got a bunch if deadbeats and every 3 week fathers out here wondering why the babies are dumb while they plow thots
 

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a kid who never caught a whooping will be a non confrontational p*ssy. mentally soft
Our existence as human beings is defined by the pain of our mistakes.

So when I tell my son don't put his fingers in his mouth and touch that socket at someones home and he does it anyway?


:banderas:
 

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While I was walking from the library of the college I go to. This Black/Hispanic girl was threatening her son. She said, "you better behave before I take you to the bathroom and beat your ass" :ohhh:. After I heard her say that out loud I said to myself wow she's a conformist :ohhh:. We got the beating our kids mentality from our oppressor. Especially, when us as slaves were beat with the whip and crack whip. That's how the term cracker which I do NOT use originated. I'm saying we as Black folk need to upgrade and modify our technique when disciplining our children. Because that right there is still what's keeping us as a slave mentally. Also, I would NEVER beat my kids. However, I would take away their positions like my parents did me and ground them :ufdup:

P.S. what are your thoughts on this? .
slow down ... could some of this be from the oppressor? YES. but not sparring the rod has been around for centuries. even before blacks were enslaved by "the white man." So the idea of tapping a little tail isnt 100% the white man's creation based on slavery.
 

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Our existence as human beings is defined by the pain of our mistakes.

So when I tell my son don't put his fingers in his mouth and touch that socket at someones home and he does it anyway?


:banderas:

So with that logic, it's ok for a man to beat his woman when she acts up
 

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Look at this bullshyt. Look how gatdam terrified this little girl is :snoop:

My question is what did she do?

:usure:

Them tears only move people without kids.
the mom laughing though so she's obviously a sick woman.

:aicmon:
 

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I think the problem with us isn't that black parents aren't beating their kids, but because in every household there's only one black parent 95% of the time
 

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Spankings, when done right can definitely drive a point home...


Moms and pops (really only moms, pops beat me ONCE my whole life) put discipline in me...hell, the thought of being whooped helped me make some better decisions. Big deterrent, shouldn't be beating your kids past like 12-14 tho, then its really abuse.


Spankings were like last resort in my house growing up. When talking and punishment didn't help, that spanking made it VERY clear what and what was not allowed in the house....I'm grateful for them to this day
 

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BUt the thing is, in REALITY that will never happen. So just do away with it all together.

Jail system is corrupt and isn't stopping people from doing crimes we should do away with it completely. :troll:

We got enough kids growing up thinking they are untouchable and hiding behind guns simply because no one ever disciplined them the right way if at all. This isn't a black people problem, or slave mentality its common sense. Pain lets you know that what you did wrong, and what you probably shouldn't do again. You think that Hot stove cares what color or you ideologies about pain? It'll teach your kid a quick lesson about the do's and don'ts and your kid will get the point with no love lost.

Nowadays punishing a kid is almost useless at a certain age, there are to many ways to get around, access, or just entertain yourself.


It really boils down to the kid and the parents tho
 
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