Ayesha Curry Says Relationship With Steph 'Always' Comes Before Kids

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

A shame that this isn't just common sense.

Put your face mask on before assisting others

It really should be common sense and maybe it would be if people thought it through. The knee jerk reaction is to always protect your kids over everything because that’s your biological job, but it’s always in your kids best interests that the heads of their household are in a healthy place.

 

[Sauce and Footwork]

So just meaningless words to say the spouse comes first . Ok

Gonna take it you are not married or not happily married or at least not for a long time, because you definitely are still not understanding. She is not saying she loves her children any less. A mothers love is unconditional

 

[goatmane]

How is this not common sense?

How can your kids respect you if your wife don't

 

[Wildin]

This sounds like something people who don’t come from a healthy family

. Your spouse can hate you and cheat on you everyday and smile in your face but your kids will always love you and you should always love them above all else.

You contradicted yourself in less than one sentence.

You can't keep thinking kids are dumb and they can't read between the lines and they don't know what's going on between you and your spouse.

This "let's play house" "let's just focus on them" act ain't fooling nobody and you are just conditioning your child to think that's what love is. Just putting up with shyt, just getting through shyt.

 

[Strapped]

Guess who doesn’t?

Who ?

 

[datnigDASTARDLY]

I would agree with this.

But I think everyone will use the most extreme examples to bash her.
It's not like people believe that your spouse is 99% of your attention and your kids is 1%.

People are going to act like that, though.

Yup, it's always the damn extremes on the internet.

Having any kind of nuanced discussion is annoying it's like talking to a bunch children that aint never had nothin.

Of course your spouse "comes before" the kids, you met her ass first and she gone be there last on your deathbed god willing. The kids will be fine as they are part of your shared responsibility to raise as a half decent family unit. It doesn't even make sense for this not to be the case unless the parents actively ignore that part of the bargain.

 

[Freshology]

If you already lost the race in your mind, might as well not even get on the starting block. Gotta trust your discernment and find one that don’t have you this insecure Confident ppl don’t think like this

Bingo

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Fůck these kids

 

[HiphopRelated]

How is this not common sense?

How can your kids respect you if your wife don't

Exactly, it's about structure

 

[valet]

God
Spouse
Kids

In that order

 

[UNATTACHED]

lol, she is talking a good game now. she must have got a wake up call

Naw she said the same thing years ago around the time Steph really became a superstar

 

[levitate]

Didn’t she say this before and we had a big argument about it?

Anyway, I disagree.

Place both on equal footing. Hell, your spouse is a grown ass man and should understand that kids are developing and need, at times (often), priority in the relationship.

 

[David_TheMan]

Naw she said the same thing years ago around the time Steph really became a superstar

Yeah but then she said she wants other men to hit on her.

 

[levitate]

this is why marriages fail

lol, no it’s not.

 

[Micky Mikey]

Kids come first. It would be selfish to want my wife to prioritize me over the well being of my children.