I don’t think that’s what she means at all. It’s a more nuanced conversation than who gets a plate first.Kids come first. It would be selfish to want my wife to prioritize me over the well being of my children.
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I don’t think that’s what she means at all. It’s a more nuanced conversation than who gets a plate first.Kids come first. It would be selfish to want my wife to prioritize me over the well being of my children.
That a real stat?A strong relationship/ marriage is first in order to make sure your kids not only see a good mom and dad but knows family structure is the key
Too bad over 70% of our community doesn’t see it
Well, I mean…she literally said “Always”I would agree with this.
But I think everyone will use the most extreme examples to bash her.
It's not like people believe that your spouse is 99% of your attention and your kids is 1%.
People are going to act like that, though.
But…that’s what she said.I do think that’s what she means at all. It’s a more nuanced conversation than who gets a plate first.
Where in the article does she say that? She said the relationship comes first. She didn’t reference general well being at all.But…that’s what she said.
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"I think for us, our relationship always comes first," the 35-year-old said. "Then we're parents."
Where in the article does she say that? She said the relationship comes first. She didn’t reference general well being at all.
So again, the relationship, not day to day well being.
Nobody’s saying the kids are unfed and starving (they probably have maids for that).So again, the relationship, not day to day well being.
You can prioritize your relationship without deprioritizing the well being of a child…….
I think you are looking at it very 2D but it matters not.Nobody’s saying the kids are unfed and starving (they probably have maids for that).
I’m talking relationship and emotional well-being…she’s saying “fukk them, husband first…and ALWAYS first”.
That’s fukked up to me…
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Maybe, baby.I think you are looking at it very 2D but it matters not.
Ur marriage and relationship comes first because that’s the foundation. People lose site of this and their marriages fail or they end up miserable in them. Then the kids move on and then what? Kids have a different set of needs.Kids always come first . Only a terrible parent would think they don’tAlso this Apple headed heifer is a rich attention whore that nobody should take advice from. Kids don’t choose to be here.
That’s not what she’s saying. She saying their relationship comes first because the relationship is the foundation. Families that understand this are in a better spot. All around.Nobody’s saying the kids are unfed and starving (they probably have maids for that).
I’m talking relationship and emotional well-being…she’s saying “fukk them, husband first…and ALWAYS first”.
That’s fukked up to me…
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Im surprised to see so many people struggle with thisI would agree with this.
But I think everyone will use the most extreme examples to bash her.
It's not like people believe that your spouse is 99% of your attention and your kids is 1%.
People are going to act like that, though.
Biblical as well.A shame that this isn't just common sense.
Negged for having common sense.That’s not what she’s saying. She saying their relationship comes first because the relationship is the foundation. Families that understand this are in a better spot. All around.