Ayesha Curry Says Relationship With Steph 'Always' Comes Before Kids

[skylove4]

Nah.

Can't build your kingdom on pillars of sand.

Without the support, the kids will suffer.

This sounds like something people who don’t come from a healthy family or have kids themselves and haven’t created a healthy environment for them. Your spouse can hate you and cheat on you everyday and smile in your face but your kids will always love you and you should always love them above all else. For a site that proclaims to be about healthy black families the majority of you are terribly wrong on this very simple subject

 

[Belize King]

My Wife before the babies. When our relationship comes first, the children will benefit.

Of course, their needs are always met. As long as we put each other first…

 

[The ADD]

About to get fun in here

 

[benjamin]

This sounds like something people who don’t come from a healthy family or have kids themselves and haven’t created a healthy environment for them. Your spouse can hate you and cheat on you everyday and smile in your face but your kids will always love you and you should always love them above all else. For a site that proclaims to be about healthy black families the majority of you are terribly wrong on this very simple subject

lol nah, u just beta...

real men will understand why the husband comes first, beta's wont get it. its that simple.

 

[benjamin]

My Wife before the babies. When our relationship comes first, the children will benefit.

Of course, their needs are always met. As long as we put each other first…

this man gets it.

 

[Fanservice]

The kids are always gonna be around

That half-billion dollar husband won’t stick around if you don’t tie his shoes

 

[Doobie Doo]

This sounds like something people who don’t come from a healthy family or have kids themselves and haven’t created a healthy environment for them. Your spouse can hate you and cheat on you everyday and smile in your face but your kids will always love you

Doesn't that mean they need less effort to maintain a healthy relationship with than the wife

 

[UnQuantized]

It's counter intuitive on the surface but makes sense. A child growing up observing two adults dedicatted to each other, will have a much better foundation when they eventually go out into the world.

 

[Luke Cage]

A strong relationship/ marriage is first in order to make sure your kids not only see a good mom and dad but knows family structure is the key

Too bad over 70% of our community doesn’t see it

Yep a strong relationship/bond between the parents sets an example for the kids.
Moreover your kids won't always be around. Eventually they will start their own family. and it will be just the two of you again.

 

[kdslittlebro]

Your spouse can hate you and cheat on you everyday and smile

The kids are always gonna be around

That half-billion dollar husband won’t stick around if you don’t tie his shoes

If you already lost the race in your mind, might as well not even get on the starting block. Gotta trust your discernment and find one that don’t have you this insecure Confident ppl don’t think like this

 

[Kornball The Conqueror]

Gross

 

[Remote]

I would agree with this.

But I think everyone will use the most extreme examples to bash her.
It's not like people believe that your spouse is 99% of your attention and your kids is 1%.

People are going to act like that, though.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

smart girl

 

[DonB90]

No one comes first no one comes last the family is a unit if one fall we all fall if one rises we all rise. So it's important for everyone in the unit to be in a nurturing environment where everyone can succeed so the family as a unit can succeed.

This dumb internet talking point shyt in the Black community is ass cheeks.

 

[Sauce and Footwork]

Kids always come first . Only a terrible parent would think they don’t Also this Apple headed heifer is a rich attention whore that nobody should take advice from. Kids don’t choose to be here.

Bro I’m happily married over 10 years and you taking it a little too literal. This is what all happily married couples say and understand. It has nothing to do with saying you love the kids less and give them what they need last. If you and your partner take care of each other it’s a given the children will be taken care of. Because they need 2 guardians. It’s really just math. As a parent those things don’t really need to be stated. Your kids are your responsibility until you die, and you love them unconditionally, vs couples will throw the relationship away due to something petty. So it’s literally just a reminder not to forget what makes the family thrive and that’s that you 2 are the glue that holds it all together. That’s all it means.

Of course kids come first in the sense of they can’t provide for themselves and are your responsibility to protect and your family is your family period. You love everyone the same. This is just something all happily married people say, meaning we can’t lose sight of our love connection or are family will no longer thrive. We will get divorced. We won’t work together well as a team. Our kids will see disfunction. It’s a note to self that you started a family because you fell in love and without that love there is no base for a family to stand. Your mate is not only your lover but your helping partner in taking care of the children and without a loving 2 parent home kids will not reach their full potential period. Even if someone is sicessful despite a disfuncional home. It’s just a note to yourselves as a couple not to forget what holds the family together at the end of the day. She is not saying she loves him more than her kids. That’s not at all what she is saying .