Ayesha Curry Says Relationship With Steph 'Always' Comes Before Kids

skylove4

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lol nah, u just beta...

real men will understand why the husband comes first, beta's wont get it. its that simple.
Nah you’re not a real man. You’re probably one of those lames that eats before the kids and wants his family to fear him. Also only lames and cacs say shyt like alpha and betas, matter of fact it told me everything I needed to know about you.
 

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Bro I’m happily married over 10 years and you taking it a little too literal. This is what all happily married couples say and understand. It has nothing to do with saying you live the kids less and give them what they need last. If you and your partner take care of each other it’s a given the children will be taken care of. Because they need 2 guardians. It’s really just math.

Of course kids come first in the sense of they can’t provide for themselves and are your responsibility to protect and your family is your family period. You love everyone the same. This is just something all happily married people say, meaning we can’t lose sight of our love connection or are family will no longer thrive. We will get divorced. We won’t work together well as a team. Our kids will see disfunction. It’s a note to self that you started a family because you fell in live and without that love there is no base for a family to stand. Your mate is not only your lover but your helping partner in taking care of the children and without a loving 2 parent home kids will not reach their full potential period. Even if someone is sicessful despite a disfuncional home. It’s just a note to yourselves as a couple not to forget what holds the family together at the end of the day. She is not saying she loves him more than her kids. That’s not at all what she is saying .
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Bro I’m happily married over 10 years and you taking it a little too literal. This is what all happily married couples say and understand. It has nothing to do with saying you live the kids less and give them what they need last. If you and your partner take care of each other it’s a given the children will be taken care of. Because they need 2 guardians. It’s really just math.

Of course kids come first in the sense of they can’t provide for themselves and are your responsibility to protect and your family is your family period. You love everyone the same. This is just something all happily married people say, meaning we can’t lose sight of our love connection or are family will no longer thrive. We will get divorced. We won’t work together well as a team. Our kids will see disfunction. It’s a note to self that you started a family because you fell in live and without that love there is no base for a family to stand. Your mate is not only your lover but your helping partner in taking care of the children and without a loving 2 parent home kids will not reach their full potential period. Even if someone is sicessful despite a disfuncional home. It’s just a note to yourselves as a couple not to forget what holds the family together at the end of the day. She is not saying she loves him more than her kids. That’s not at all what she is saying .
So just meaningless words to say the spouse comes first . Ok :camby:
 

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Nah you’re not a real man. You’re probably one of those lames that eats before the kids and wants his family to fear him. Also only lames and cacs say shyt like alpha and betas, matter of fact it told me everything I needed to know about you.
My wife does serve my plate first, you cant get that treatment tho because any woman that you could get could never truly respect you in that way. YOU will eat AFTER your kids because you are beta, just the truth. Matter fact, yo wife would sit yo at the kiddy table and your son would be at the head of the table...kids eating and looking over at you like :lolbron: "daddy u eat last"
 
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If you already lost the race in your mind, might as well not even get on the starting block. Gotta trust your discernment and find one that don’t have you this insecure :manny: Confident ppl don’t think like this
This cat said discernment :heh: :mjlol: A woman can love your dirty draws one day and come to literally hate you. Kids are forever
 
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Nah you’re not a real man. You’re probably one of those lames that eats before the kids and wants his family to fear him. Also only lames and cacs say shyt like alpha and betas, matter of fact it told me everything I needed to know about you.

So you don't have any kids, nor a wife or significant other?
 

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She's right. Maintaining a marriage and raising kids is a team effort. Both spouses need to have their physical, emotional, and mental needs met to maintain their bond and there needs to be communication. If it is not, children do pick up on that. But that requires not just thinking of yourself but your spouse. Unfortunately, certain people won't understand that because they think that only they come first.
 

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Yeah.... You don't have any kids or any opportunities to even reproduce
Boy you haven’t realized that I’m your daddy yet:dahell: that’s why i’m so hard on you and always on your ass about getting a job so you become a man
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