It was an answer. Just an answer you didnt like.
To be welcomed is to be welcomed completely. Not simply be welcomed by some and not by others. It's pretty straight forward.
How many of the so called cool kids shun those they consider nerds because they dont fit their definition of being black? I can go on.
literally no organism on this earth has one big collective that hugs and accepts everyone except a hive mind fungus or lemmings. there are packs of wolves, they dont all come together like voltron
you're saying the black community is some kind of stagnant defined monolith and that its bad because people outside of that dont fit
but when confronted with the fact that there's plenty of different sections of black, you're mad at that because its not all one big get together(which means you arent shunned from the entire black community)
do you want a monolith or not?
and really? the cool kids being means to nerds? are we 12?
that's called school. if you got kicked out the black community because you were a nerd in school it was probably because you were a creep
i was nerdy as hell in middle school. did i hang out with the "cool kids"? Not often, but I had other nerdy black friends, hood friends, band friends etc...because i wasnt a weirdo and didnt blame the whole black community