I understand it's a real posted story, but I'm saying, maybe someone made that up just to troll/draw reactions.
Avoiding Alimony & Child Support are the keys to success as a male..part 2
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I understand it's a real posted story, but I'm saying, maybe someone made that up just to troll/draw reactions.
151_Pr00f
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Da fukk is up wit Asians? It's like they have nonexistent libido's. I'm not excited about rushing into marriage in this day and age but I'm still tryna interact wit the opposite sex, dayumn.
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Red Maverick II
Special A Class Hunter
Damn, too much truth there.
But one of the comments offers a less extreme solution:
Barry Sanders Divorce -- We've Got A TON of Issues | TMZ.com
This dude barry sanders is about to get a divorce. He's the guy spending all the time in the weight room and doing everything to be successful, but now she gets millions because she spread her legs for the right guy.
A lot of people don't believe me, but I will tell you that women can be straight up VIPERS or extremely iced-out when they lose their feelings for you... you don't even have to do wrong. They might view you as weak and will try to press you at every angle for advantages. Everything with women is based on emotions, and emotions are VOLATILE. Who can predict from where they come and to where they go? You could do all the right things for your woman. You can be a man that provides, never cheats, never gives her anything to worry about, etc., but she will leave you because that level of stability is too boring for her... or in fact, she could use the resources you are sharing with her to give to another guy. How often have you heard of some guy paying for his girl's school, but she's out there cheating?
What can you do to keep these women around? What can you do to keep their loyalty? NOTHING except never putting yourself in terms to where these women get a free pass. The laws are completely in the favor of a woman, so they look at life as an entertainment bonanza. Why do I say there is nothing you can do? Look at these athletes? Are these not the men of desire that women are chasing? They have money, they have all the physical attributes that a woman may desire, they might be funny, etc. They will still divorce him and go talk to another guy... maybe a musician or another athlete. They might complain, "Oh, well he's an athlete so he cheats." But then women will look at the loyal guy and divorce or cheat on him because 'he's too boring'.
A lot of the rat type women that are benefiting from this arrangement will call me or other men bitter who point that out because we're showing you how to cut off their gravy train. The truth is, we are the FURTHEST thing from bitter because we were wise enough not to get caught up to where we have to pay all this money to a scandalous woman. The truth is that the system IS corrupt. The system is so messed up that the woman can be the cheater and yet the man has to pay alimony, child support and live like a pauper while she and her new dude are living it up.
The key is to FILTER. Do NOT even consider marrying a woman without considerably looking into her past. It might make you feel 'resentful' or whatever, when you find out she's a go-getter, but better you find out NOW than have those traits come out when she has you in a financial vice grip. She has to have morals, and these days, do NOT marry a woman who you make significantly more than unless you make her sign an iron clad prenup. Will a woman marry you if you a broke dude? In a lot of cases, NO. She will say you don't have enough to provide for me.. but then these are the same women who want to be considered 'equal' with men. Provide for yourself then. These women will filter you out REAL quick. They look out for themselves and have no remorse for it... You better watch your own back and put yourself in an ADVANTAGEOUS position.
This dude barry sanders is about to get a divorce. He's the guy spending all the time in the weight room and doing everything to be successful, but now she gets millions because she spread her legs for the right guy.
A lot of people don't believe me, but I will tell you that women can be straight up VIPERS or extremely iced-out when they lose their feelings for you... you don't even have to do wrong. They might view you as weak and will try to press you at every angle for advantages. Everything with women is based on emotions, and emotions are VOLATILE. Who can predict from where they come and to where they go? You could do all the right things for your woman. You can be a man that provides, never cheats, never gives her anything to worry about, etc., but she will leave you because that level of stability is too boring for her... or in fact, she could use the resources you are sharing with her to give to another guy. How often have you heard of some guy paying for his girl's school, but she's out there cheating?
What can you do to keep these women around? What can you do to keep their loyalty? NOTHING except never putting yourself in terms to where these women get a free pass. The laws are completely in the favor of a woman, so they look at life as an entertainment bonanza. Why do I say there is nothing you can do? Look at these athletes? Are these not the men of desire that women are chasing? They have money, they have all the physical attributes that a woman may desire, they might be funny, etc. They will still divorce him and go talk to another guy... maybe a musician or another athlete. They might complain, "Oh, well he's an athlete so he cheats." But then women will look at the loyal guy and divorce or cheat on him because 'he's too boring'.
A lot of the rat type women that are benefiting from this arrangement will call me or other men bitter who point that out because we're showing you how to cut off their gravy train. The truth is, we are the FURTHEST thing from bitter because we were wise enough not to get caught up to where we have to pay all this money to a scandalous woman. The truth is that the system IS corrupt. The system is so messed up that the woman can be the cheater and yet the man has to pay alimony, child support and live like a pauper while she and her new dude are living it up.
The key is to FILTER. Do NOT even consider marrying a woman without considerably looking into her past. It might make you feel 'resentful' or whatever, when you find out she's a go-getter, but better you find out NOW than have those traits come out when she has you in a financial vice grip. She has to have morals, and these days, do NOT marry a woman who you make significantly more than unless you make her sign an iron clad prenup. Will a woman marry you if you a broke dude? In a lot of cases, NO. She will say you don't have enough to provide for me.. but then these are the same women who want to be considered 'equal' with men. Provide for yourself then. These women will filter you out REAL quick. They look out for themselves and have no remorse for it... You better watch your own back and put yourself in an ADVANTAGEOUS position.
Kevm dropping that ice cold truth yet again
Red Maverick II
Special A Class Hunter
Prenups aren't bulletproof from what I hear.
Theres gotta be some kind of way to get married and protect ya nuts and assets
Theres gotta be some kind of way to get married and protect ya nuts and assets
~Drake
repped kevs post. my thing is i have no desire to get married, but i want to have kids. at the same time i don't want to bring my kids into that type of environment.
i believe that marriage could be a great thing if people realized what it actually took to make a great marriage. women believe the fairytales(if only you could hear the things women who have been married for 2 or more years tell me, disgust), and men get pressured into it.
in short marriage counseling should be mandatory
i believe that marriage could be a great thing if people realized what it actually took to make a great marriage. women believe the fairytales(if only you could hear the things women who have been married for 2 or more years tell me, disgust), and men get pressured into it.
in short marriage counseling should be mandatory
The thing is also kevm even if you marry a chick that makes more than you or say you both make say 40 or 50k, once she gets pregnant and I have seen it she may decide to stay home and raise the kids and not to back to work, and ten boom your out working providing for a family while trying to maintain that two wage lifestyle he's used to. She becomes the bored housewife gets a itch, cheats files for divorce remember 70 percent of women file for divorce and then boom you are left in financial ruins.
She may love you today with all her heart but that can change in the twinkle of an eye
She may love you today with all her heart but that can change in the twinkle of an eye
Red Maverick II
Special A Class Hunter
Elaborate
Can I increase my alimony? - Yahoo! Answers
This is the actual link to the original post
lol fellas going hard in them comments
This is the actual link to the original post
lol fellas going hard in them comments
shakes head
waits for the inevitable j lova post about nikkas wifing up ho's etc. not seeing the red flags, when in alot of cases you can marry the sweetest righteous chick ever and still get kicked to the curb and paying alimony and child support.
but you suffer from the NAWALT syndrome