Attractive men...do y'all still approach women???

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Lines are so passe, the absolute worst. Cheesy!
Don't overthink/talk yourself out of your advantage, make her second guess what she perceives as hot enough to make her come out of her zone, just relax and be confident in that the situation is deliberate.
Next time you're hit on (if the attraction is mutual, of course) ask her questions about herself, get her talking while you regroup.
If your nerves are still too jittery, show interest, get her number then leave.
Yeah, I've gotten better once I identified that I have some social anxiety. Before, I didn't realize, so I would constantly talk myself out of some p*ssy(I talk alot and even more when I'm anxious). Had me spitting that anti-game :mjcry:
 

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Yeah, I've gotten better once I identified that I have some social anxiety. Before, I didn't realize, so I would constantly talk myself out of some p*ssy(I talk alot and even more when I'm anxious). Had me spitting that anti-game :mjcry:
Go on holiday bruh.
 
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Lol keyboard militant nikka. Bet cash you're always on time for your white boss. Stay playing online Marcus garvey clown
That's the first time I've been called a militant on here, but no
I'm just not a CAC bootlicker from birmingham like you. Claiming to be from fukking London pathetic. :mjlol:


"The other cultures are genuinely trash. Trust me. I live in the city in England with the biggest Muslim population in the country. Muslim areas are genuine shytholes...its not even like the former working class black areas with a sense of culture, they're just grimey and deprived.

This is the problem I have with us. We have absorbed the liberal narrative. We go around defending cultures who only turn their nose up to black people whenever they get ahead. Do you know that when Jamaicans first came to this country they would help defend Indian and Pakistani communities who would face immense amounts of discrimination? What did those same communities do? When the white man gave them a bit of opportunity they turned on them. This shyt was highlighted in the 2005 Birmingham riots. These men don't need no sympathy from nikkas"

Explosion at Ariana Grande concert in Manchester (22 dead so far)

You us blacks talk big game but, in all honesty, what do you really have to show for yourselves? Your goddamn president isn't even one of you.

Sitting here crying about race dating is entirely why most of you nikkas stay losing. Why my Nigerians cousins come over and laugh at how most of you have achieved nothing in a country that you have been in for 400 years. Absolutely NOTHING. A couple token roles in sports and entertainment on industries you neither own or see any real benefit from. You keep the UK in your mouth...my parents were among the first Africans to really move here IN THE 80s. You want to sit and compare 30 years of presence to 400. Really motherfukker? You only really need to Google for yourself to see the strong presence Nigerians already have here. African Americans stay at the bottom and stay whining about irrelevant shyt like rappers and which race of low life is fukking the next race of lowlife.

The coli has proven that most of you nikkas are fukking pathetic. You stay thinking women belong to you because you don't know how to get any. The only thing you k ow how to do in order to compete is to attempt to shame those into dating you. Any black women who dates out is a "bedwench" and any white woman who thinks you're hideous is a racist. I mean what are you going to try and convince me? That successful or desirable nikkas out here stay focusing on who random black women are fukking? Really nikkas?

A huge chunk of you are fake plastic militants. Stay crying about the same white man you work for. Pays bills to. Answer to. And placate to. I mean, how many threads here are about starting up business? Investing in property? Residual income? Financial independence? Nothing but a bunch of keyboard panthers. Chill.

The ashy face, the lack of a haircut and the white girls were the nail on the coffin :mjlol:
 

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I don't even think it's that. I and people I know find that alot of Americans front. There is a generally more "In your face" approach to interaction too. But I found many Americans were really kinda fishes out of water when it came to having structured and nuanced conversations with women because they're were too busy trying to look cool. Can't count the amount of dudes who would two step in the club whilst leaning by the walls. One would think they were the cool vats but when I saw them actually interact with women they were absolutely fukking hopeless.

I do like the American approach to dating which is more about getting out there...but most tend to lack the finesse. I wear what I like and nikkas clown. But I am comfortable in what I wear and my own skin. I don't automatically think that because I am my size then it automatically means I need to dress like some rappers bodyguard. 99% of the time that shyt is transparent as shyt.
Since your british did you accent intrigue girls in sweden and germany? Do you think because of that it all made things easier.
 

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White women can't handle rejection...

If I walk by a black chick and a white chick without saying hi I can put good money the white chick gonna get pissed and say some slick shyt...catching tantrums and shyt before the sister.
I've always been cautious of white folks just because I was raised that way. I've never been the dude to say he doesn't find women of other races to be attractive. I just choose not to deal with them. Funny you bring this up tho. I originally started college at a small PWI on a football scholarship. At the time I sold weed and used to sell a ton there. Of course the football team had a supply of groupies who would always make themselves available to us. I used to sell weed to one of these groupies and her friends almost daily and I knew she had a thing for me. But I never felt comfortable around them and kept it strictly business. Anyway i sold weed to an undercover cop one day but pretty much was given a slap on the wrist due to the fact I was on the team. But if it happened again I would lose my scholarship. Everybody found out about this. One day at a party she pushed up on me real heavy at a teammates party off campus. I rejected her. When she asked why I told her no offense but I only deal with black girls. Two days later my dorm room was raided by campus police and I ended up getting kicked out after 3 semesters. I'm 99.9% she ratted me out. Got me in all kinds of shyt with my parents. Almost joined the military since my pops thought that was the only option I had left. Fortunately my mother offered to help me finish school so I went to community college a couple semesters and then went to Morgan State where I graduated
 

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@Kairi Irving This is @Bishamon dont pay that nikka no mind

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Also, check this thread out, they going in on him :mjlol:
Smash or Pass: These Jeggins Calling yall or nah?

@Bishamon who is the white girl breh?:mjgrin:
 

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I've always been cautious of white folks just because I was raised that way. I've never been the dude to say he doesn't find women of other races to be attractive. I just choose not to deal with them. Funny you bring this up tho. I originally started college at a small PWI on a football scholarship. At the time I sold weed and used to sell a ton there. Of course the football team had a supply of groupies who would always make themselves available to us. I used to sell weed to one of these groupies and her friends almost daily and I knew she had a thing for me. But I never felt comfortable around them and kept it strictly business. Anyway i sold weed to an undercover cop one day but pretty much was given a slap on the wrist due to the fact I was on the team. But if it happened again I would lose my scholarship. Everybody found out about this. One day at a party she pushed up on me real heavy at a teammates party off campus. I rejected her. When she asked why I told her no offense but I only deal with black girls. Two days later my dorm room was raided by campus police and I ended up getting kicked out after 3 semesters. I'm 99.9% she ratted me out. Got me in all kinds of shyt with my parents. Almost joined the military since my pops thought that was the only option I had left. Fortunately my mother offered to help me finish school so I went to community college a couple semesters and then went to Morgan State where I graduated
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