At what point should a wife leave her husband after he has put his hands on her?

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Because it's not normal behavior but a bad reaction to drugs. The question that needs to be asked though is why is he taking drugs and will he continue to do so.

Ummm no. I've been drunk and I've take drugs before and never once have I assaulted someone. Drugs are not a get out of jail free card.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

You get hit once
leave him. I saw this with my aunt teresea, you don't want those problems.

 

[LoveDeluxe]

I've been married for 28 years and we have never had to resort to pushing, hitting, slapping one another. Some of you dudes really need to grow up.

So couples don't push each other during heating debates

Come on that's normal

Fred

 

[The Mad Titan]

I've been married for 28 years and we have never had to resort to pushing, hitting, slapping one another. Some of you dudes really need to grow up.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

And to answer your question as soon as she feels her safety or life is in danger

Her safety is in danger THE FIRST TIME a man puts his hands on her.

So couples don't push each other during heating debates

Come on that's normal

Fred

No it's not. A man has never put his hands on me.A man better not ever let it get past raising his voice & even then he better watch his tone and what comes out of his mouth.

 

[The Mad Titan]

And just fyi

I'm playing

Spoiler

 

[The Mad Titan]

Her safety is in danger THE FIRST TIME a man puts his hands on her.

I understand the dynamic's of men and women are different.


But do you feel a man's safety is in danger after a push in this same situation?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

In theory i'd like to believe this is the case. But I know a double standard exist here and I don't really have a problem with it.

Any man calling for a divorce because he wife got really upset once and pushed or slapped him isn't going to be looked at as any kind of real man or husband if he running trying to get a divorce over it.


I could never see myself being like yeah that's a wrap we are done you "pushed me"




Theoretically I'd like to think she'd never get ballsy enough or so upset that it came to that with her, but you never know



I know I wouldn't be thinking divorce or anything off a push or a slap.


I'd be highly pissed off with a slap tho, just swing on me

That's a personal decision sir. But not one I would advise. There are tons of men who experience domestic violence and no one should not have to go through that. My neighborhood shrugs off his wife little pushes and hits too until she got real froggy and busted him in the head with a bottle. If I was a man I would leave.

 

[Critical Distance]

So if the husband says or does something that really hurts the wife and she slaps him.

Divorce material?


There has been no prior physical confrontation.



I'm pretty sure as a man "He holds that L" and sticks out his marriage.

who cares about double standards or what other people think, that's an unhealthy relationship and the man should remove himself from it.

 

[Voice of Reason]

Seems like a thinly veiled ,"Black men encourage a climate of violence against black women thread".

But to answer your question she should leave after the first time no one should tolerate abuse.

 

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

Women's psychology is complex and it is impossible to tell if they subconsciously want to get abused or not. The reason I say that is because a woman ALWAYS goes back to her aggressor and there's more often than not repeated provocation on her end. It goes against all logic.

But it does eventually reach a point where she has to leave.

 

[Techniec]

once mayne

 

[Diondon]

It depends. Some couples riff occasionally and are back loving soon after. The severity and other circumstances have to come into the decision.
If you whupped her ass, hell yeah she should leave you

 

[Krazy K]

you nikkas so damn extra

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

You need to specify put hands on. A slap or a punch headlock or aggressive push that knocks a woman over then yea.
If he grabs her hands or bearhugs to restrain her then no.