So couples don't push each other during heating debates
Come on that's normal
Fred
At what point should a wife leave her husband after he has put his hands on her?
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Come on that's normal
Fred
I just read it. He says he was on drugs and it's not his normal behavior
If it's not normal for him then this might be worked out, but on the other hand, the substance abuse would be another reason to leave for me if I was her
What was the situation leading up to the alleged assault?
Once.
So if the husband says or does something that really hurts the wife and she slaps him.
Divorce material?
There has been no prior physical confrontation.
I'm pretty sure as a man "He holds that L" and sticks out his marriage.
StickStickly
Superstar
Once. This isn't a male female gender war issue. If your spouse hits you, start looking into divorce or separate immediately
No it's not, it's a sign for a dysfunctional relationship.
I just read it. He says he was on drugs and it's not his normal behavior
If it's not normal for him then this might be worked out, but on the other hand, the substance abuse would be another reason to leave for me if I was her
Why is hitting someone on drugs better than hitting someone sober?
I don't understand that logic.
WHIPPEDCream
♔Evil Queen.
Exactly.I feel like many men in abusive relationships don't start out with immediately beating their girlfriends,it's a gradual process.First it might be intense jealousy, then a push, a kick, a punch.etc.
I agree and I am sick to my stomach to know that this board is predominately black male and instead of checking the OP, they are somehow trying to convince him that his "push," is insignificant.There are many black women besides OP's wife that endure domestic abuse, the rates are alarming & instead of them making it a teachable moment for the OP, their main goal was to convince the wife to stay with him.
UltimateSource
Banned
You wouldn't even ask this question if you ever had a good shagging even once in your life.
"Judge I want a divorce. He pushed me."
"Judge I want a divorce. He pushed me."
They weren't having a debate. He came home drunk and drugged up and pushed her when she tried to help him
Because it's not normal behavior but a bad reaction to drugs. The question that needs to be asked though is why is he taking drugs and will he continue to do so.Why is hitting someone on drugs better than hitting someone sober?
There was a thread last weak where a guy hit a woman and she was knocked out, hit her head, was put into a coma and is likely dead. One hit is all it takes.
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In theory i'd like to believe this is the case. But I know a double standard exist here and I don't really have a problem with it.
Any man calling for a divorce because he wife got really upset once and pushed or slapped him isn't going to be looked at as any kind of real man or husband if he running trying to get a divorce over it.
I could never see myself being like yeah that's a wrap we are done you "pushed me"
Theoretically I'd like to think she'd never get ballsy enough or so upset that it came to that with her,
but you never know
I know I wouldn't be thinking divorce or anything off a push or a slap.
I'd be highly pissed off with a slap tho, just swing on me