At What Income Level Is a Man Entitled to a Mistress?

[Bushmaster69]

One of the ongoing lessons I was taught is men have a double standard and are allowed to selfish. It's amazing how you don't see everything you just typed is selfishness wrapped in a nice bow to make it more palatable

Men should have the right to do what they want. Women have to abide by a code of honor created by those same men

No matter how you dress it up, it's selfishness beloved

I didn't create the rules. I just follow them.

This is the life we live in. There is no equality.

I'm entitled to more women as a man of means.

You are entitled to be saved first with the children in times of war, and I'll have to pick up a rifle and fight to my dying breath.

That's the way of the world.

It won't change just because you dont like how things are.

 

[mag357]

That’s MATERIAL and it gets old when his attention and time is actually spent OUTSIDE the family.


That’s what y’all don’t get.
Yes, you are financially taking care of home, and that’s appreciated.

But you’ve seen it on this very forum.
Dudes talking about sleeping with wives who have money, but are left alone. How they don’t have to bring any money to the table. How easy it is to sleep with some women who are married. Why is that? Cuz those women have the time and space to creep cuz their man isn’t around!



Listen- it is what it is. We all have our desires and delusions.
If that’s a game a husband wants to play, there are wives who will be game.
You keep the bills paid and do your thing, and she’ll keep the house tidy/kids on schedule while she does her thing. I guess it’s a win-win.



Someone up thread already said it- staying together for stability and appearances.

In regards to your first sentence.
If the wife isn't happy, no matter what the nikka doing... It could be working too much, hanging with his friends, watching TV, whatever... If the wife isn't happy he isn't doing the right thing.

Especially if it's because of another woman. If he is spending time much time with a mistress of side piece and it's effecting home then he ain't playing the game the right way. And the wife has the right to do what she has to do. IMO
He's corny for that.

Now I can only speak for myself when it comes to the wives and girlfriends that I've fukked.
More times than not, they are very happy in their marriage. I know for a fact these Women are still in the same marriage.
Usually she isnt cheating because shes unhappy or because the dude is away from the home cheating.
Usually the dude is a good dude who cherishes the marriage. And doesn't bother her about her whereabouts, or inquires about male friends.
These are the ones that cheat.

The women who love their man really hard And don't want to let him go. And would diss good men that would treat them right...be the ones who feel like their current man gets other women.
As long as she gets the wifey treatment, she'll feel superior to them. and that's all she really wants.

 

[Coco Loco]

I didn't create the rules. I just follow them.

This is the life we live in. There is no equality.

I'm entitled to more women as a man of means.

You are entitled to be saved first with the children in times of war, and I'll have to pick up a rifle and fight to my dying breath.

That's the way of the world.

It won't change just because you dont like how things are.

Your insatiable desire to argue with me when WE ARE SAYING THE SAME THING is nuts

We both agree there's a double standard for men and women, men and women are not treated equally. Full stop

Your refusal to call it what it is, is why you keep repeating yourself

Be blessed beloved

 

[Gloxina]

In regards to your first sentence.
If the wife isn't happy, no matter what the nikka doing... It could be working too much, hanging with his friends, watching TV, whatever... If the wife isn't happy he isn't doing the right thing.

Especially if it's because of another woman. If he is spending time much time with a mistress of side piece and it's effecting home then he ain't playing the game the right way. And the wife has the right to do what she has to do. IMO
He's corny for that.

Now I can only speak for myself when it comes to the wives and girlfriends that I've fukked.
More times than not, they are very happy in their marriage. I know for a fact these Women are still in the same marriage.
Usually she isnt cheating because shes unhappy or because the dude is away from the home cheating.
Usually the dude is a good dude who cherishes the marriage. And doesn't bother her about her whereabouts, or inquires about male friends.
These are the ones that cheat.

The women who love their man really hard And don't want to let him go. And would diss good men that would treat them right...be the ones who feel like their current man gets other women.
As long as she gets the wifey treatment, she'll feel superior to them. and that's all she really wants.

Ah. Those are emotionally stunted women. I get it. Yea you can play that game with them.

They have one up on the side-chick but won’t acknowledge the real issue is the fact that their man made a woman his side chick.

Eh. Yea. I get it.

I’d just prefer ppl don’t speak about morals and shyt when there is nothing moral about that behavior.



What a lot of men don’t acknowledge or want to ignore is that just because you WANT other women doesn’t mean you’re supposed to have them.
If you’re actually in the church, part of your walk is denying your lust/carnal desires. That’s you taking your religion and marriage seriously.


So don’t bring up what women should/shouldn’t do when y’all are giving in to temptation.

Women aren’t supposed to sleep around because of some moral obligation; we aren’t supposed to sleep around because if we get pregnant you won’t know if you’re providing for YOUR seed or someone else’s. It’s not because of our emotions or whatever.

If Broderick Hunter sees your wife at dinner with her girls and lakes an offer, she isn’t going to dream about being his fukking wife
She’s going to enjoy a night with one of the finest men on this planet and go back home satisfied and happy to wash your draws and cook your dinner, EVEN when you come home with an attitude.

 

[Kasgoinjail]

There is sexual tension in this thread
Or maybe it's me

 

[MarcMan]

And why is that selfish?
Isn’t him being out the house looking for outside cat selfish?

You know good and well why

The vast majority of women are not built for NSA relationships or one night stands. Understandable given that they usually get less out of it than men but still.

Besides, men and women cheating is different. When a man gets home after a secret rendezvous, he usually appreciates his wife more. When a woman gets home after stepping out, she usually has disdain for her mate.

Look across generations, cultures and geographies and it's the same story. shyt is biology to an extent. Not an excuse but it is an explanation.

 

[Ty Daniels]

What's the point in getting married, if you are going to cheat?

If you need multiple partners, then don't get married, the shyt ain't "Rocket Science".

Marriage is for SERIOUS Folks.

There are many Married folks who take their commitment seriously.

 

[Bushmaster69]

Your insatiable desire to argue with me when WE ARE SAYING THE SAME THING is nuts

We both agree there's a double standard for men and women, men and women are not treated equally. Full stop

Your refusal to call it what it is, is why you keep repeating yourself

Be blessed beloved

You women slay me.

You run up in a forum to argue about how life isn't fair, and men are "hypocritical", Essentially looking for an argument, but then get emotional when we state our sound opinions.



And you wonder why you man cheats on you

 

[The Intergalactic Koala]

OP fitting to learn about fukkin over ya fasho p*ssy tryna get so mo pussay

 

[The Intergalactic Koala]

fukk side pieces

That's basically OPs plan

 

[Bushmaster69]

So ANYWAYS!

Back to the main topic of this forum.

A nikka is entitled to another bytch by at least 200k.

If you earn less than that, and you dont live in the south, why and how?

Explain your strats


To the married polygamists, salute.

 

[Canon]

no amount of income unless this is arranged. we gotta stop this nonsense.

the flip side of this is a women allowed to cheat if you make under a certain amount?

 

[Rekkapryde]

a man that don't take care of his family can't be rich.

What in the fortune cookie fukk?

 

[Elim Garak]

$0 as long as all parties are cool with it.

 

[Serious]

Nikka


I’m just going to say, this is how you create cold, callus women who are there/stay for the $.

Cool but answer the question. What income level is it acceptable?