At What Income Level Is a Man Entitled to a Mistress?

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

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You guys fukk who will let you when you have nothing.


Sidenote:
There is a 68 y/o multi-million on TikTok losing his 24 y/o wife/sugar baby because he can't keep his viagra filled dingle cannon in his pants.



I guess it depends on your level of rizz or whatever the fukk they call it.

 

[Space Cowboy]

Men with mistresses are the scum of the Earth.

My grandpa only had daughters. When my mom and her sisters had children they all had sons. This man had opportunity to raise boys and never took us to one trip, hung out, gave one damn lesson on how to be a man. Lived in the house with grandma, paid bills, but was emotionally absent and felt it was a woman’s job to raise kids.

Would duck out and come home late from fishing trips with his brother or from the betting race track.

Before he died from lung cancer I visited him in the hospital. I didn’t say a word to him. He just looked at me, unable to speak. I knew then he was worried about me and actually cared but it was too late.

When he died I didn’t shed a single tear.

My cousin (his cousin) owned a car repair shop. The boys would go there and hang out, have a beer, kick back. One time I was with my mom helping her pick her car up years, nearly a decade, after her father passed. We see this man walk up and he looks spitting image of grandpa. We said “you look just like my grandpa/father.” He was defensive. I figured he was a baby from a mistress or something and my mom met a brother. We never talked about it ever again but I could tell she knew and was hurt in a way.

I was right not to cry for that man. He was a piece of shyt. Just like you OP.

 

[Coco Loco]

Now that's selfish

But having a mistress isn't?

BFFR. Y'all are very unserious people.

say sorry


Perhaps. But if a person is in a sexless but loving marriage, it's not always so straightforward, especially when kids are involved.

A lot of people, men and women, do what they must so that the family can thrive. (Not my situation but I've personally witnessed this scenario multiple times in my life.)

I agree it's not always straightforward. With that said, if I'm in a sexless loving marriage but we've agreed to maintain the illusion for our kids, financial reasons etc and I have a side piece, I'm perfectly fine with my husband doing the same

That's my problem with these mistress scenarios, 95% of man aren't willing to give their wife that same grace. I can't be out here getting my bells jingled but think and or demand my husband to remain loyal to me. That's the epitome of selfishness

 

[Gloxina]

Now that's selfish

And why is that selfish?
Isn’t him being out the house looking for outside cat selfish?

 

[mag357]

Men with mistresses are the scum of the Earth.

My grandpa only had daughters. When my mom and her sisters had children they all had sons. This man had opportunity to raise boys and never took us to one trip, hung out, gave one damn lesson on how to be a man. Lived in the house with grandma, paid bills, but was emotionally absent and felt it was a woman’s job to raise kids.

Would duck out and come home late from fishing trips with his brother or from the betting race track.

Before he died from lung cancer I visited him in the hospital. I didn’t say a word to him. He just looked at me, unable to speak. I knew then he was worried about me and actually cared but it was too late.

When he died I didn’t shed a single tear.

My cousin (his cousin) owned a car repair shop. The boys would go there and hang out, have a beer, kick back. One time I was with my mom helping her pick her car up years, nearly a decade, after her father passed. We see this man walk up and he looks spitting image of grandpa. We said “you look just like my grandpa/father.” He was defensive. I figured he was a baby from a mistress or something and my mom met a brother. We never talked about it ever again but I could tell she knew and was hurt in a way.

I was right not to cry for that man. He was a piece of shyt. Just like you OP.

No disrespect.... But you sound like hater, respectfully

 

[Uitomy]

It's not about income level it's about culture and to be honest to deal with a bytch that isn't your wife is just trash behavior no matter how much you earn

 

[Bushmaster69]

200k+

At that point your actually starting to make some money

 

[Arizax2]

If you making over 130k+ a year you've earned the right to a side chick

In the 90s and 00s yes but in 2024 it should be around 500k. But if you got married before you made that money you don't get that pass brah.

 

[Bushmaster69]

Why even get married?
Just stay being a jigaloo if that's ur steez

You chicks dont know how much having a side ting allows us as men to actually bare you as the main woman.

I would actually prefer polygamy via marriage for men of means, but i understand why men who love their wife still have a ting on the side.

 

[Gloxina]

Men with mistresses are the scum of the Earth.

My grandpa only had daughters. When my mom and her sisters had children they all had sons. This man had opportunity to raise boys and never took us to one trip, hung out, gave one damn lesson on how to be a man. Lived in the house with grandma, paid bills, but was emotionally absent and felt it was a woman’s job to raise kids.

Would duck out and come home late from fishing trips with his brother or from the betting race track.

Before he died from lung cancer I visited him in the hospital. I didn’t say a word to him. He just looked at me, unable to speak. I knew then he was worried about me and actually cared but it was too late.

When he died I didn’t shed a single tear.

My cousin (his cousin) owned a car repair shop. The boys would go there and hang out, have a beer, kick back. One time I was with my mom helping her pick her car up years, nearly a decade, after her father passed. We see this man walk up and he looks spitting image of grandpa. We said “you look just like my grandpa/father.” He was defensive. I figured he was a baby from a mistress or something and my mom met a brother. We never talked about it ever again but I could tell she knew and was hurt in a way.

I was right not to cry for that man. He was a piece of shyt. Just like you OP.

^^^And this is the fallout they never want to discuss. Their actions leave emotional scars for everyone else. The wife, the kids born in wedlock, the kids born to mistresses. Men like that leave a trail of tears and they don’t care.

*Which is why a lot of women say fukk it and just go for a man with money. Because they are expecting men to behave this way, whether or not they have money.










*What they really want is for women to just sit and cry in silence and deal with it. Instead, you just learn to adapt.

 

[mag357]

Nikka


I’m just going to say, this is how you create cold, callus women who are there/stay for the $.

Nah... U might care but if most Women were honest, they don't be caring about dudes slinging dikk.
If they did care, they would actually date and marry dudes that cant get p*ssy.

But that would never happen because women love men who CAN get p*ssy.
He's more desirable.

Smart Women understand sex for men is less of an emotional thing like it is for women. For a man its basically just getting his rocks off. Nothing else.
Women like sex, but don't feel like they need sex from different people all the time like men do.

As long as she gets the "love", attention, house, cars, money, trips etc. then she knows where his heart lies. And she'll be happy

 

[Bushmaster69]

In the 90s and 00s yes but in 2024 it should be around 500k. But if you got married before you made that money you don't get that pass brah.

500k is ridiculous in order to be eligible for an extra woman.

200k+ in most places you are doing very well, and can handle a wife and a gf

 

[mag357]

You chicks dont know how much having a side ting allows us as men to actually bare you as the main woman.

I would actually prefer polygamy via marriage for men of means, but i understand why men who love their wife still have a ting on the side.

Facts.

 

[Gloxina]

You chicks dont know how much having a side ting allows us as men to actually bare you as the main woman.

I would actually prefer polygamy via marriage for men of means, but i understand why men who love their wife still have a ting on the side.

But this is the thing- y’all act like women wouldn’t benefit from having a side dude as well.

Y’all think you are a pleasure to be around 24/7?? If you wife could sneak off and have moments with a man who can do things you can’t do, without having to clean the house, prepare his meals, wash his clothes, deal with his attitude when he comes home from a bad day at work, playing her role and being a present in-law in her hubby’s family by helping to care for his aging parents, being a good aunt to kids who might be unappreciative, etc. She needs a moment to get her back cracked too!

But naaaaaaw that would be wrong.


The point is EVERYONE would be happy to have someone fun on the side who doesn’t come with obligations.

But that’s what TF marriage is. And that’s what you sign up for when you sign that marriage license.


It’s understandable when a man “needs a break” or “someone new” but it’s unheard of that a woman might be dealing with similar stresses in a committed relationship.

 

[Space Cowboy]

No disrespect.... But you sound like hater, respectfully

I’m Muslim. I’m allowed multiple wives. Hate what? But unlike my Christian absentee workaholic grandfather having a second family is permitted in my religion.

But though I’m permitted. My sorry ass grandpa is why I’d never want a second wife.

^^^And this is the fallout they never want to discuss. Their actions leave emotional scars for everyone else. The wife, the kids born in wedlock, the kids born to mistresses. Men like that leave a trail of tears and they don’t care.

*Which is why a lot of women say fukk it and just go for a man with money. Because they are expecting men to behave this way, whether or not they have money.










*What they really want is for women to just sit and cry in silence and deal with it. Instead, you just learn to adapt.

My thing is it’s not just the women that feel the pain of it. It affects everyone in the family.