At What Income Level Is a Man Entitled to a Mistress?

[UpNext]

If you can pay your mistress a 6 figure salary to shut the fukk up and play her position.

 

[Gloxina]

Nah... U might care but if most Women were honest, they don't be caring about dudes slinging dikk.
If they did care, they would actually date and marry dudes that cant get p*ssy.

But that would never happen because women love men who CAN get p*ssy.
He's more desirable.

Smart Women understand sex for men is less of an emotional thing like it is for women. For a man its basically just getting his rocks off. Nothing else.
Women like sex, but don't feel like they need sex from different people all the time like men do.

As long as she gets the "love", attention, house, cars, money, trips etc. then she knows where his heart lies. And she'll be happy

That’s MATERIAL and it gets old when his attention and time is actually spent OUTSIDE the family.


That’s what y’all don’t get.
Yes, you are financially taking care of home, and that’s appreciated.

But you’ve seen it on this very forum.
Dudes talking about sleeping with wives who have money, but are left alone. How they don’t have to bring any money to the table. How easy it is to sleep with some women who are married. Why is that? Cuz those women have the time and space to creep cuz their man isn’t around!



Listen- it is what it is. We all have our desires and delusions.
If that’s a game a husband wants to play, there are wives who will be game.
You keep the bills paid and do your thing, and she’ll keep the house tidy/kids on schedule while she does her thing. I guess it’s a win-win.



Someone up thread already said it- staying together for stability and appearances.

 

[Bushmaster69]

But this is the thing- y’all act like women wouldn’t benefit from having a side dude as well.

Y’all think you are a pleasure to be around 24/7?? If you wife could sneak off and have moments with a man who can do things you can’t do, without having to clean the house, prepare his meals, wash his clothes, deal with his attitude when he comes home from a bad day at work, playing her role and being a present in-law in her hubby’s family by helping to care for his aging parents, being a good aunt to kids who might be unappreciative, etc. She needs a moment to get her back cracked too!

But naaaaaaw that would be wrong.


The point is EVERYONE would be happy to have someone fun on the side who doesn’t come with obligations.

But that’s what TF marriage is. And that’s what you sign up for when you sign that marriage license.


It’s understandable when a man “needs a break” or “someone new” but it’s unheard of that a woman might be dealing with similar stresses in a committed relationship.

Listen, I didnt create the rules. I just follow them.

At no time in history, or abrahamic religions, was it ever ok for a woman to sleep with several men.

Several times in history a man of means was allowed to have multiple women.

99% of woman have to unlock emotions in order to have sex with another man. That was causes the destruction of her main relationship. By the time she does something like this the wife is already checked out of the relationship.

Men dont need emotions for sex. Smashing a side ting is almost like stroking one out for us. We still love our wives, but just needed some strange.

Stop using women logic to understand men. We are not the same.

 

[BrothaZay]

Any income as long as they are ok with it

 

[Roger king]

Income level has no correlation with adultery or being faithful in a relationship, regardless of income or power one should be faithful and honest to their spouse

 

[Seoul Gleou]

At the 7th cert

 

[Coco Loco]

But this is the thing- y’all act like women wouldn’t benefit from having a side dude as well.

Y’all think you are a pleasure to be around 24/7?? If you wife could sneak off and have moments with a man who can do things you can’t do, without having to clean the house, prepare his meals, wash his clothes, deal with his attitude when he comes home from a bad day at work, playing her role and being a present in-law in her hubby’s family by helping to care for his aging parents, being a good aunt to kids who might be unappreciative, etc. She needs a moment to get her back cracked too!

But naaaaaaw that would be wrong.


The point is EVERYONE would be happy to have someone fun on the side who doesn’t come with obligations.

But that’s what TF marriage is. And that’s what you sign up for when you sign that marriage license.


It’s understandable when a man “needs a break” or “someone new” but it’s unheard of that a woman might be dealing with similar stresses in a committed relationship.

Come on GLOX!!!!

It amazes me how they never think all of that applies on the other side. Imagine thinking only men need breaks form their significant others

But when we start talking about the other side they want to shut it down, nah let's keep the door open beloved

Wives and moms be exhausted and need a break too, if more of us decided a new dikk was the solution, it would be WWIII



S E L F I S H N E S S: Only for men, duh

 

[⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐]

Guard your energy brehs

 

[The God Poster]

Men with mistresses are the scum of the Earth.

My grandpa only had daughters. When my mom and her sisters had children they all had sons. This man had opportunity to raise boys and never took us to one trip, hung out, gave one damn lesson on how to be a man. Lived in the house with grandma, paid bills, but was emotionally absent and felt it was a woman’s job to raise kids.

Would duck out and come home late from fishing trips with his brother or from the betting race track.

Before he died from lung cancer I visited him in the hospital. I didn’t say a word to him. He just looked at me, unable to speak. I knew then he was worried about me and actually cared but it was too late.

When he died I didn’t shed a single tear.

My cousin (his cousin) owned a car repair shop. The boys would go there and hang out, have a beer, kick back. One time I was with my mom helping her pick her car up years, nearly a decade, after her father passed. We see this man walk up and he looks spitting image of grandpa. We said “you look just like my grandpa/father.” He was defensive. I figured he was a baby from a mistress or something and my mom met a brother. We never talked about it ever again but I could tell she knew and was hurt in a way.

I was right not to cry for that man. He was a piece of shyt. Just like you OP.

Damn we can tell you hurt but ya grandfather wasn’t your father. I hope you had this type of disdain towards him.

How old are you? A lot of men back in the day felt the same way. Also he may have felt he raised his kids. Them kid raising days get old once you hit a certain age

 

[Space Cowboy]

Damn we can tell you hurt but ya grandfather wasn’t your father. I hope you had this type of disdain towards him.

How old are you? A lot of men back in the day felt the same way. Also he may have felt he raised his kids. Them kid raising days get old once you hit a certain age

This is the problem. The endless excuses. “He ain’t your father” as if having a loving grandfather to help you go the right way is abnormal.



I never experienced that shyt in my life.

Nope. I’m being completely fair with him.

“Them kids raising days get old” Oh so it gets old to actually give a shyt about your grandchildren and the way they’re going and giving them lessons on what to do to be successful in life. Funny how the women in the family don’t have the luxury to say “them kids raising days get old.”

Let me tell you what it is: abject neglect and normalization of mediocrity.

My dad actually raised me so no I don’t have disdain for him. My dad didn’t have no hidden second family either. fukk men with mistresses overwhelmingly. They’re pieces of shyt.

 

[Bryan Danielson]

Dude trynna set niccas up

 

[Bushmaster69]

Come on GLOX!!!!

It amazes me how they never think all of that applies on the other side. Imagine thinking only men need breaks form their significant others

But when we start talking about the other side they want to shut it down, nah let's keep the door open beloved

Wives and moms be exhausted and need a break too, if more of us decided a new dikk was the solution, it would be WWIII



S E L F I S H N E S S: Only for men, duh

It's not selfishness though.

We arent women, and we aren't equal. Sorry if you weren't taught that.

Women who have sex with other men while she is a wife doesn't respect her man, and has checked out of the relationship with her husband.

A husband having sex with a side ting is equivalent to stroking one out for us. We dont care about that woman. We still love our wives and are committed to our relationship.

Men of means deserve to be with a gf to maintain the their marriage. It's only right.

 

[Coco Loco]

It's not selfishness though.

We arent women, and we aren't equal. Sorry if you weren't taught that.

Women who have sex with other men while she is a wife doesn't respect her man, and has checked out of the relationship with her husband.

A husband having sex with a side ting is equivalent to stroking one out for us. We dont care about that woman. We still love our wives and are committed to our relationship.

Men of means deserve to be with a gf to maintain the their marriage. It's only right.

One of the ongoing lessons I was taught is men have a double standard and are allowed to be selfish. It's amazing how you don't see everything you just typed is selfishness wrapped in a nice bow to make it more palatable

Men should have the right to do what they want. Women have to abide by a code of honor created by those same men

No matter how you dress it up, it's selfishness beloved

 

[AAKing23]

No level, just leave the bytch

 

[The God Poster]

This is the problem. The endless excuses. “He ain’t your father” as if having a loving grandfather to help you go the right way is abnormal.



I never experienced that shyt in my life.

Nope. I’m being completely fair with him.

“Them kids raising days get old” Oh so it gets old to actually give a shyt about your grandchildren and the way they’re going and giving them lessons on what to do to be successful in life. Funny how the women in the family don’t have the luxury to say “them kids raising days get old.”

Let me tell you what it is: abject neglect and normalization of mediocrity.

My dad actually raised me so no I don’t have disdain for him. My dad didn’t have no hidden second family either. fukk men with mistresses overwhelmingly. They’re pieces of shyt.

Your words were he cared about you. You had an active father who should have given you all those things. Grandfather not your father didn’t beat, call you out your name etc. You’re upset about fishing trips & life lessons.

I hope you’re able to heal cause you’re clearly traumatized. I’m done with the topic tho so best of luck to you