A.
There's 3 types of colored girls...
1.The ones who almost pass for white
2. the ones who look like a regular mixed breed colored
3. The dark skinned ones with African features who get mistaken for being black. Sometimes they're just regular brown but have Nguni facial features and hair.
If you date the white passing ones, good luck. They tend to be extreme white boy chasers/bedwenches.
The regular coloreds will not deal with a black man unless you're handsome or rich. Or went to a posh school like Bishops or Hilton College
The dark skinned ones deal with black men due to attrition, Lack of options, and colorism and featimurism within the colored community.
In general coloreds (just like mullatos everywhere) think their white blood makes them special/superior to unmixed black people.
That's why there's always been a divide between them and real black people.
B.
Xhosa men have always been rebellious and formed the majority of ANC leaders against Apartheid.
This rebellious energy doesn't bode well for the white owned corporate environment of SA, so inevitably low skilled and high skilled level jobs in SA are held by a lot of women, these educated "independent" new age black women are impossible to be with, so there's a single mom, fatherless epidemic in SA.
This has in turn created and continues to create a generation of weak mama's boys and man hating girls with heavy Daddy issues.
Women born between 1986-1994 almost all of them are single mother and the young hoes born between 1998-2003 all raised by single moms.
It's a crazy cycle to observe up close
The gender wars that were happening with black American men around 2011/12 have now firmly landed in SA.
There's an anti black man "man hating" daddy issues energy in SA everywhere you go.
That 2013-2018 period was probably the last of the somewhat good times.
shyt is grim right now
