Arlette Amuli **Pop The Balloon Or Find Love** Official Thread

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

They need to mix up the types of black women on the show. The entire panel on the last episode looked like birds, asthetically. Good from far, but far from good.

This is another thing rarely brought up when it comes to this show. Most of these women look like trash. Their wardrobe and tattoos scream trashy, yet brehs on here acting like these are top tier women.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Nobody should force themselves to do anything. But for most women they have more options when they're young and many of the women complaining passed on men they wish they hadn't passed on when they were younger. I've noticed you make these things black and white. The men who many of these women pass on (especially attractive women) aren't ugly, they just aren't flashy, swagged out and/or exciting. As I've said, in many cases I'm talking about women passing on men like Grant Hill and Steph Curry when they're young to be with Future's.

We’re men. The way we view other men will be different than the way women view men. To you they may not be ugly, but to most women, they put men into two categories:

Men they want to smash
And
Ugly

Most women aren’t desperately looking for sex the way men are. So they have options physically, where as the average man sometimes has to take what he can get sexually. Women don’t think like that. And when it comes to sex, women don’t get pleasure every single time the way we do, so they aren’t always going to bypass looks for personality, and qualities. And attractive people reject each other all the time.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Like clockwork this motherfukker

Just admit you’re ugly gang, and call it a day.

 

[Mowgli]

This is another thing rarely brought up when it comes to this show. Most of these women look like trash. Their wardrobe and tattoos scream trashy, yet brehs on here acting like these are top tier women.

Stop trying to save these birds by hooking them up with successful/nerdy dudes. Let the dorks find their nerd queen and let the man eaters find their street dude. The types of men on the show are more varied then the types of women. Its really wild how similar the women are to each other. I guess on average good women wont be on a show like this looking for a man but man eaters will looking for a comeup.

 

[Jaguar93]

People used to take these type of shows as entertainment. Now Black people use these shows to prove that the other gender doesn’t like them. There’s a segment of Black women who have made hating Black men their entire personality, and a segment of Black men who’ve made humbling Black women their entire personality.

And the crazy thing is that many of these people will end up with other Black people when someone finally chooses them, because their options for other Black people are generally better than their options for other races. I have never in my life seen other races elevate Black people the way we elevate any and everybody else.

 

[Malik1time]

nikkas need to stay in the lane.. these birds don’t fit his demographic dso of course they won’t be drawn to him

 

[WIA20XX]

yet brehs on here acting like these are top tier women.

Acting?

This is top tier to The Coli.

You need to get hip young blood

 

[Wiseborn]

They should do a version of this show with college men and women. Keep the bird brain edition going because it's good entertainment, but also have a variant where they travel to different schools around the country.

The show wouldn't work if the women choose the dudes.

That's why it's hard to do it in reverse most dudes would pick the broad unless she was wildly inappropriate.

 

[Gloxina]

Why is this brother going on a show full of airheads, glorified sex workers and vapid, frumpy bytches lol?

These sort of women are used to scammers, street nikkas and hood nikkas.

He needs to find a black nerd or a dorky white/Asian girl that fit his "aesthetic" instead

This is the crux of the issue.


No one redeeming —male or female— should be on crap like this.

 

[Wiseborn]

This is the crux of the issue.


No one redeeming —male or female— should be on crap like this.

Dudes go on these shows to have women not pick them for superficial reasons then they get a ton of sympethy trout from regular girls.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

Arlette needs a white woman on there, just once. That episode will double in views

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[Gloxina]

Black Women continue to drive intellectual Black Men out of the community

Gtfoh

Why do intellectual Black men consider THOSE women as options?
His equivalent was on campus, or at a neighboring campus when he was in school. Or in church on a planning committee. Etc.


This is a big part of the issue.
Y’all don’t want to admit that there are intellectual dudes who have no issue skipping over their counterparts to jump to the birds because they are pretty or flashy.

HE shouldn’t be anywhere near some social media trash like this.



Y’all had a great example with Barack and Michelle, but you want to act like there aren’t attractive, well-mannered and accomplished Black women getting educated and working their way up the corporate ladder.

 

[spliz]

Eric seem like a good dude…but he also seem like a try-hard. It’s hard to explain but I think he gonna be fighting an uphill battle keeping a woman despite how successful he is. Something is off about his energy. I can tell he be trying to flex too early and it backfires on him

No need to be taking a girl to Europe 2 weeks into a relationship. You barely know her.

EDIT: Bro said he had a list of questions he asked her during the date and recorded meeting minutes of what happened during the date. Stop being weird and just let that shyt flow naturally

nikka was doin to much. And arguing already is a bad sign. They barely knew eachother and was arguing.

 

[TEH]

Arlette needs a white woman on there, just once. That episode will double in views

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She had a Rachel Dolezal on there one time

 

[Wiseborn]

Gtfoh

Why do intellectual Black men consider THOSE women as options?
His equivalent was on campus, or at a neighboring campus when he was in school. Or in church on a planning committee. Etc.


This is a big part of the issue.
Y’all don’t want to admit that there are intellectual dudes who have no issue skipping over their counterparts to jump to the birds because they are pretty or flashy.

HE shouldn’t be anywhere near some social media trash like this.



Y’all had a great example with Barack and Michelle, but you want to act like there aren’t attractive, well-mannered and accomplished Black women getting educated and working their way up the corporate ladder.

To keep it a buck an areospace engineer is single only because he wants to be.

It doesn't matter what he looks like homie is making over 125K a year on the low end first year

ugly gang or not homie either has a GF and was recruited to get booted or he wants to go on an extended hoe phase just like the women.

That's the thing there's an arms race to see who can add the most bodies. It's like women are competing with Men to have football numbers or women are living up to being called Hoes