No. I thought I would use sweeping generalizations like y'all are doing.
Sounds stupid doesn't it?
Thank God that aint me." So now that those girls are grown, they're blaming those same men for gravitating towards white women. 
It's so endemic, friends.
that whats bugs me the most, black women act completely brand new. they act like nikkas forgot their opinions in grade school.It's funny how black women have absolved themselves from colorism when back in the 80s-90s they were knee deep in the game (and probably still are for those in school). Being a lil red nicca I remember hearing girls clown the darker boys JUST as much as the boys clowned the darker girls. Had me like "
Face it, both genders are at fault. Don't try to pass blame
I always say black women are like children when it comes to accepting blame and accountability.
They'll constantly deflect and point the finger at somebody else when the blame is placed upon them.
You have a point but most black males bought into the stigmatization of natural black hair on our women, mostly because since the 80s we've been sold images of straight hair being attractive. It's gotten better with time, I would love to date a girl with a well kept afro or hair style of that nature, a lot of black men are starting to open up to it now. It's a slow reversal of decades of conditioning.
This is a media myth, the overwhelming majority of successful black males in sports and entertainment are with black women, the media sold you that shyt by focusing on the few black males that do date and marry white women. There was a study with hard numbers done on this.No black men do. Count how many athletes left their black high school girlfriend and got with a white girl once they made it to the pros. When you see interracial relationships it's a black man with non black woman so stop lying.
"And when he get on he leave yo ass for a white girl"
Its designed to be this way, it's not an accident. As long as black people are divided we are easier to control.I always say black women are like children when it comes to accepting blame and accountability.
They rather have black men lie to em and tell em what they wanna hear than have someone tell them the truth and that's probably they continue to get hoodwinked by these no good deadbeat dudes
that whats bugs me the most, black women act completely brand new. they act like nikkas forgot their opinions in grade school.
Denzel and these Lance Gross looking nikkas saved usIt's funny how black women have absolved themselves from colorism when back in the 80s-90s they were knee deep in the game (and probably still are for those in school). Being a lil red nicca I remember hearing girls clown the darker boys JUST as much as the boys clowned the darker girls. Had me like "
Face it, both genders are at fault. Don't try to pass blame
So youre saying white women had everything to do with dark skinned black men being found attractive by black women? How do you figure?
Yes black men are part of the issue but no one wants to admit it as evident in this thread. I love black men, but how blind and in denial do you have to be to notice that some black men and their "preferences" encourage these black women with self-hate issues to morph themselves into something theyre not? Self-esteem comes from within true, but lets be honest, what others think of our appearance does somewhat affect us (some more than others). Its a shytty cycle thats going on in our race and I really dont know the solution; no one wants to man/woman up.
