Don't act like men wasn't conking it up and getting jherri curls at one point. And even tho those styles are out of date men don't have the pressure to have a certain appearance like women do. Beauty standards apply to women not men
Black men were wearing those hairstyles in effort to conform to WHITE BEAUTY STANDARDS, not because another Black person told them their hair was nappy.
Black women do the exact same thing and it didn't begin with Black men telling them their hair was nappy.