Are we partly responsible for black women's self-hate issues?

Matt504

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Don't act like men wasn't conking it up and getting jherri curls at one point. And even tho those styles are out of date men don't have the pressure to have a certain appearance like women do. Beauty standards apply to women not men

Black men were wearing those hairstyles in effort to conform to WHITE BEAUTY STANDARDS, not because another Black person told them their hair was nappy.

Black women do the exact same thing and it didn't begin with Black men telling them their hair was nappy.

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BLACK MEN ALWAYS GET THE BLAME FOR EVERYTHING THAT IS WRONG IN THE WORLD AND ESPECIALLY AMONG BLACK WOMEN...... PERFECT EXAMPLE IS WHEN U HEAR A BLACK WOMAN SAY WHEN THEY ARE ASK WHY CAN'T U FIND A MAN " nikkaS AIN'T shyt, THERE'S NO GOOD MEN OUT THERE, BLACK MEN ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE, BLACK MEN DON'T BRING NOTHING TO THE TABLE EXCEPT dikk ( YES SOME WOMEN DO SAY THAT ) AND BLACK MEN ARE SCARED OF COMMITMENT ....

I'm tired of GOOD BLACK MEN getting raped not only by white people but also by there own women....

blame somebody blame somebody like her

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Basically. Black women like Mrs. Scott are never brought up in these kind of discussions because people are too busy victimizing black women and blaming black men. These reality shows are more responsible for reinforcing negative stereotypes as images of black women than anything that black men have done. Rap lyrics and music videos are one thing(and black men are not solely responsible go the exploitation of black women in that capacity either), but the visuals that are displayed for the world to see in these reality shows are a complete different ball game. Black women are going to have to take responsibility for what they're doing to themselves. They're exploiting themselves while perpetuating the negative images and stereotypes that causes their self hatred in the 1st place. Yea it's white supremacy, but black women are in cahoots even if it's subconsciously.
 
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Your question is irrelevant breh because in these countries the MEN also bleach

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Skin bleaching is NOT a gender issue so don't make it such.

Let's stay on topic.
you can also find black men w/perms and hair extensions, does that mean it's 50/50? :childplease:
 

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are black women loyal or relegated? it would appear to me that when a black woman can date/marry outside her race, she usually does.


No black men do. Count how many athletes left their black high school girlfriend and got with a white girl once they made it to the pros. When you see interracial relationships it's a black man with non black woman so stop lying.

"And when he get on he leave yo ass for a white girl" :yeshrug:
 

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black men ditched the self hatred, while black women decided to hold on to it. simple as that, really

best example brehs. CAcs didnt like brothers hair so we grew it out, faded it, braided it, etc made it hot. Cacs didnt like black women's hair. What did black women do? buy fake hair to look just like the oppressor's women. So in response to adversity brothers rose up like Kings while black women acted and continue to act like court jester. SMH
 

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No black men do. Count how many athletes left their black high school girlfriend and got with a white girl once they made it to the pros. When you see interracial relationships it's a black man with non black woman so stop lying.

"And when he get on he leave yo ass for a white girl" :yeshrug:

Myth. You going to ignore the countless Black male professional atheletes with Black wives now?
 

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Black men were wearing those hairstyles in effort to conform to WHITE BEAUTY STANDARDS, not because another Black person told them their hair was nappy.

Black women do the exact same thing and it didn't begin with Black men telling them their hair was nappy.

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If you never heard a black person call another black person's hair nappy then sir the truth is not in you, but that's not the point. Black people wouldn't conform to white standards if OTHER black people weren't on some way doing it also
 

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No black men do. Count how many athletes left their black high school girlfriend and got with a white girl once they made it to the pros. When you see interracial relationships it's a black man with non black woman so stop lying.

"And when he get on he leave yo ass for a white girl" :yeshrug:

no, you COUNT how many athletes have left their black hs girls for a white chick. the overwhelming majority of black sports athletes are with BLACK WOMEN. this is what i mean, y'all have really drunk the fukking kool-aid.
 

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No black men do. Count how many athletes left their black high school girlfriend and got with a white girl once they made it to the pros. When you see interracial relationships it's a black man with non black woman so stop lying.

"And when he get on he leave yo ass for a white girl" :yeshrug:

why are Black women leaving their Black loves in favor of white women?

is it because White women are inherently more beautiful than Black women?

White women are a symbol of status for Black men, because White supremacy places VERY LITTLE VALUE on the lives of Black women.

do you guys not see how the root cause of this isn't Black men or women but White supremacy?

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No black men do. Count how many athletes left their black high school girlfriend and got with a white girl once they made it to the pros. When you see interracial relationships it's a black man with non black woman so stop lying.

"And when he get on he leave yo ass for a white girl" :yeshrug:


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ANOTHER MYTH U BELIEVE
 

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No black men do. Count how many athletes left their black high school girlfriend and got with a white girl once they made it to the pros. When you see interracial relationships it's a black man with non black woman so stop lying.

"And when he get on he leave yo ass for a white girl" :yeshrug:

You ever think when they go to those white schools it's a lack of black women willing you date them or even available for them to choose.
 
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